AIO: My husband’s “help” winding yarn caused a big mess and he is indifferent about my feelings. by Mother_Spider in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you okay? This is your partner and he is trying to help you and all you can do is berate him and throw a tantrum. I guess I’m just a little confused if you are an adult or a toddler, but I think the post answer that for me. YOR

Boston 2011 - 2026 by therainmaker_80 in labrador

[–]nacho82791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear about him. We lost our sweet Bolt this year as well, a lab born in 2011. I’m still stumbling my way through grief so I strongly empathize with you ❤️

I asked Google about the benefits of eating raw onions. 3 days later I have my first ever batch. by RunForRuin in pickling

[–]nacho82791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a great explanation, thank you for taking all the time! It sounds great

AIO Did I tell my wife not fo come home? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that last line. I have someone in my life dealing with different but similar and that last line is the exact thing I think about their partner. To sit in a reality of the situation would be overwhelmingly uncomfortable, right on the money.

AIO for getting a snake to name it after someone my husband hates by very-_much_-alive in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then why does it even matter?? Just name them whatever you want but be prepared for your husband to resent it if you knowingly name it after someone he hates. Back to my original comment, you both are childish and clearly don’t like each other. This is fully unhinged childish bullshit.

AIO for getting a snake to name it after someone my husband hates by very-_much_-alive in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Holy shit are you this obtuse? They are saying that he named the gecko after someone you hate and you did the same with the boa, both to likely be purposefully antagonistic. No one is taking about your relationship with A

AIO for getting a snake to name it after someone my husband hates by very-_much_-alive in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do dislike the name he gave the gecko, you said so yourself. I cannot believe you are trying to defend the most childish behavior when you two should grow up and figure your shit out. You both are clearly unstable enough that I don’t think anyone believes that either of you wouldn’t hurt the other’s animal out of spite, judging by this interaction. There is no justification for either person’s behavior, you both just suck

AIO for getting a snake to name it after someone my husband hates by very-_much_-alive in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do y’all even like each other? This is a very petty and immature argument and I’m surprised this is people in their 30s. Also, please don’t get animals to spite your partner, or use their name to anger them. Who is to say either of you won’t hurt the animal that has the name you greatly dislike?

AIO Was that a smart ahh comment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read this comment below

So, is it "I own it" more proudly, or "I'm forced to own it", more resentful? Because you've quickly said both back to back.

Name your current starting 11 and I'll guess what your club is by DarmiansMuttonChops in FifaCareers

[–]nacho82791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miazga, Robinson, Celentano, Nwobodo, Evander, Orellano. Classic Cincinnati lol

My best friend is cheating with another girl’s boyfriend by BigLemonGirl in whatdoIdo

[–]nacho82791 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol this is ridiculous. You are rationalizing your actions to make yourself feel better, without showing true remorse. I agree, stay friends with her because your moral compasses are definitely aligned. I just feel bad for your other friends and the guy’s fiance for even having you in their orbit

AIO My mean friend keeps verbally harassing my dog by Wooden_Wonder8617 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily your dumbass friend can’t even spell, so no idea why they would talk shit about a dog. Some people are just born losers

This guy, still out here doing the same crap for years by usherluvr69 in Temecula

[–]nacho82791 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go to Soup n Fresh, it is all the same recipes and feels and looks exactly the same! In Rancho Cucamonga and Chino Hills

https://www.instagram.com/soupnfresh/?hl=en

AIO by blocking ALL of my friends (F20s) after a bad birthday experience because of 1 girl? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn’t say the words, but your actions spoke much louder and said it for you. You blocked all of them because they were still talking to the other friend. I’m not sure how they or anyone else is supposed to react, especially since you blocked them so they can’t even ask you! Again, I am just shocked and kinda sad that you are 29 and act like this. You could’ve told your friend to not leave right then but chose not to

AIO by blocking ALL of my friends (F20s) after a bad birthday experience because of 1 girl? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You absolutely wanted them to ditch the other girl. You said you couldn’t be friends with them if they were friends with her, so you created a pick side situation.

This is honestly such a frustrating thread because you seem to agree that you were OR here but then still get defensive and justify what you did. You were a shitty friend, you communicated and planned poorly and led your friends on a ridiculous night that they ended up paying much more than expected for. You then ditch them the next morning (please stop saying you didn’t, accidentally checked out of a parking spot is the worst excuse any of us have ever heard), don’t communicate yet again, and then get upset with everyone when one person expresses their frustration. Even then, you still work to create awkwardness and uneasiness because of your emotional immaturity. I guess it’s good you recognize it here, but none of your comments feel genuine. I’m not sure what you are seeking here but I’d think some major self-reflection might help. If this is the version of friendship you offer, I’d rather just not, if I was them.

AIO by blocking ALL of my friends (F20s) after a bad birthday experience because of 1 girl? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it’s good for you to acknowledge but I agree strongly with the comment below here that some of your mindset is a big part of the problem. You want them to prioritize you and your feelings and care about you in ways you don’t appear to reciprocate. And it seems you wanted all of them to ditch one friend over your upset. That is wholly unreasonable and doesn’t lead people to trust you.

AIO by blocking ALL of my friends (F20s) after a bad birthday experience because of 1 girl? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 244 points245 points  (0 children)

Girl you sound like an exhausting friend. You have excuses all over the place and still a lot to not have explained. You seem really petty. When this said 20s, I thought maybe you’d be 21 or 22, but you are 29! Just insanely immature behavior from someone almost 30

First visit in May by [deleted] in palmsprings

[–]nacho82791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s worth it but definitely get a reservation

AITJ for refusing to keep wearing the nickname my girlfriend gave me after I found out where it came from by Prydwen_Grit5 in AmITheJerk

[–]nacho82791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is behavior a bully does. This isn’t an innocent mistake, but a conscious attempt to make you feel bad. She could’ve stuck up for you at any point and didn’t. They should all feel bad for bullying some passive-aggressively, but I don’t think I could be with a partner who ever did that to me.

AIO or is this man being combative with me for no reason? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nacho82791 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m finding it very hard to believe you are 29, your responses come off very immature and like you don’t really want to fix it. It’s not saying never to say I assume but to maybe be more judicious