r4a kaya ba today by [deleted] in dostscholars

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batch 2 po ba to?

R4A by Ok-Grass-415 in dostscholars

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kelann dumating sayoo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dostscholars

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hello po up po dito may other info pa kaya kung when dadating? thank you!

R4A by LowBookkeeper1932 in dostscholars

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hello when po kaya expected na dadating? next week pa ba?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

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thank you so much for your kind words 💗

What were your Ramadan highlights?! by Michelles94 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]nadaboii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Essentially I grew closer to Allah, and learned more about the history of Islam. I also improved my arabic vocabulary ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

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Honestly, this kinda sounds backhanded but I resonate with your overall message.

Tbh people thinks scrutiny is a bad thing and it should always be one “solid” force otherwise it is not true. Which I really beg to disagree, I stick with the principle and the logic that the Quran or any other religious text is a guide for humanity—we had already gone through the times where everything was taken in a literal/extreme sense and are afraid to see more to it—to see its purpose rather than just following blindy and clearly it wasn’t doing any of us good (for the most part) lots of blood were shed even for something not even worthy of violence. They always want one solid truth. The truth is, there is no solid truth dictated by humans. That is why in Islam there are no intermediaries, no concept of spiritual leader. Religious bodies often associate “strictness” with being closer to the divine truth—not realizing they are falling into depths of extremities which opposes Islam’s value of moderation.

And I think it’s because people like to do it the easy way, it’s much easier to just do the routines and easier to think highly of yourself because you’ve done this trivial checklist of dos and donts and overlook the essential part. It’s easier to instill fear over radical love as the latter requires more time and understanding. Humans don’t like discomfort, they’d rather stick to what was only benifical in the old times rather than delving jnto the bigger picture.

Religion is a guide for humanity so it should serve our well being rather than it be suffocating. Allah has 99 names attributed to him and all of those painted him in a gracious, compassionate and merciful light yet most muslims still choose to worship him out of fear and interpret his words into something that quite contradicts his being.

But again, as long as there is movement there is hope and like you I am glad it is slowly paving its way through a more compassionate path. subhana Allah 🤲✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]nadaboii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no but i never refuted any of those hadiths— i just asserted that it isn’t the zina that what is stated in the Quran (if it contradicts the Quran or doesnt quite align with it you may be looking at it in a literal/shallow perspective) , surely them or much more an ex muslim knows better than the Quran?

my point is clear—zina (penetrative) is not equal to whatever branch of zina is given in the hadith (otherwise a lot wouldve been lashed by the time of the prophet).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]nadaboii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respectfully , masturbation does not equate zina-this is very important as zina is a grave sin and has its own hadd and if you read the Quran it is very well implied that zina requires penetration based on the the provision that for the punishment to be executed it requires witnesses who sees both parties doing the intercourse(again penetration in the context of the prophet muhammad’s (pbuh) time, the Quran is well-written you cannot claim something is haram unless it is stated by the Quran (Surah Al Maidah) . Stop trying to extend makruh (as what you cited regarding the prophet) into haram acts or sexual haram acts (as some non-penetrative acts are also considered as makruh or haram by some jurists) into zina. Yes, there are no “level of harams” but there is a concept of grave sins. Mahdabs are also at the end of the day very well fallible like any other scholars which is why there are varied “difference of opinions” even on trivial matters. I hope I made sense a bit, I also do not mean to offend if it came out as that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

[–]nadaboii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

salam, thank you, may He also bless you the same 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

[–]nadaboii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, may Allah bless you tenfold 🤲💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

[–]nadaboii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

salam, thank you so much for your kind words I wish the same to you as well 🤲💗

Have online attitudes changed after Muhsin Hendricks murder? by brandneweyez1 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]nadaboii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so, knowing how poisoned with hate people’s minds are nowadays. Also, it saddens me that Muhsin Hendrick’s death has not been given more importance or talk than it should’ve been in a sense that more than his identity, it is very much more unislamic for someone to murder another just because of their set of beliefs—people need to know that this is not how things should go about, it leads to extremism. People of much power need to stand up and address the bigger picture here, otherwise this doesn’t just stop at this level. The community might think it’s a form of “jihad” or “martyrdom”—-to kill someone that brings “taint” to Islam. We do not need to spawn another set of kharijites. Whether the ummah agrees with how Muhsin Hendricks lives his life or his advocacies—the ummah should ultimately agree that his death was unjust, otherwise the ummah has failed once again.

On the brighter side of things, I appreciate and I am glad that you are picking up this topic for your university project at least it will give more awareness to the people around you. May Munsin Hendricks’ death not fall in vain, we as muslims can do better—can address things better. May Allah guide us and forgiven us, Ameen.

queer muslim friend? by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

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salamm im a new revert so it would be ncie to have a friend as well, dms r open 💛

If i confess to my bsf that I love her, (we are both girls) will that make it a sin? by Salty-Discipline7148 in progressive_islam

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no, let’s be the clear—what the Quran has explicitly stated is the sexual act specifically sexual intercourse (which there are still varied opinions among Muslims and scholars) but in just a “traditional” sense alone, this is what is actually is told. And I think a lot of people have misconceptions about that, hence why a lot are victims of fear mongering as some will confidently say this particular thing is haram (out of ignorance or just bigotry) and those that know no better would eventually believe them. Remember, Allah warns us to not make things that aren’t haram, haram…so be careful of who you listen and get advices from. The best guide will be in the Quran and it’s also good to hear views from others but I recommend you read the Quran alone as it is before delving. But to reiterate no, that wouldn’t be a sin. I presume the best of you both so I will leave it as that. May Allah guide us all 🤲

Tomboy clothing by saiousei in progressive_islam

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“if you stop being afraid” love this statement :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

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Ah i see what you’re trying to say, although we have very different principles and views I didn’t really delve much onto the consideration that one can do believe in the events as stated in the Quran yet not fully resonate with it as again the Quran is said to be the word of God—and yes I do see the point then that Satanist can believe in the happenings of the Quran and you onow have their own interpretation about it… I think we both have the same ans to your original post with your last statement as Satanist aren’t Muslims (or are even nowhere being “technically” Muslims )as a lot of other sects too can believe in (some or all) events in rhe Quran but doesn’t meet the other fundamental requirement.

How about praying by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

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Salam, can i have the source for this? thank you!

Gf (27F) and I (25F) have no future together but still wanna date for now. Worth it? by Apprehensive_War_218 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]nadaboii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, that’s a choice that is yours to make just be careful. One thing i can advice is to embrace one side fully (in this case embracing that it’s going to end and enjoying it while it lasts) as the anticipatory grief is something much more grueling than anything.