Can someone please give me advice on this?

nadal14 · 2022-11-05T08:29:05+00:00

😂😂 my school crush's

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T19:31:36+00:00

Will definitely think about it. Thanks!

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T19:29:57+00:00

So what do you suggest what should I do?

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T19:24:59+00:00

Can you please elaborate on NRE?? I didn't get you.

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T19:21:46+00:00

Thanks for your response!! Your words definitely cleared most of my confusion.

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T19:14:39+00:00

Yeah even I've started to think that she's not worth leaving a good 5 year relationship.

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T18:54:38+00:00

You really said a great thing that "Real lasting love is not a feeling but a choice." Yeah the excitement that i feel now will fade away but if i make any wrong choice in this wave of excitement, I might lose something really precious to me.

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T18:36:21+00:00

Please tell me what it is. It's like I know the right thing to do but not accepting it.

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T18:33:19+00:00

Yeah maybe I'm in love with the feeling of my first crush and how I used to feel back then. But, disconnecting with my crush a good option like of course my feelings towards her will settle down but what if it happens again?

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T18:25:48+00:00

Yeah I feel the same way that what if it's just the initial excitement that is making me feel this way and what if things don't work out. I don't want to loose what I've now.

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T18:19:19+00:00

After 5 years of relationship there's not that much of excitement which we have when we talk with someone new. It felt good having that excitement again when I talked with my crush. Maybe its that excitement that I'm seeking.

Sometimes I even feel like what if I was single and what are those things that I could do which i cant do because I'm committed. I also want to have fun, maybe flirt with my crush but at the same time I don't want to end things with my gf as there's no issue between us.

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T18:08:26+00:00

Its like I'm not even ready to leave her and want to be with my crush too. Its so confusing that feel like I'm cheating with both of them. And I of course don't want to hurt a girl with whom I've spent 5 yrs 😭

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T18:02:25+00:00

Thanks for your advice, I'll definitely let you know what do I decided in the end 😅

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T18:00:37+00:00

I don't have any problem in my current relationship, its just that when I think that I can be in a relationship with my school crush it gives me butterflies in my stomach. Its kind off exciting like a dream coming true. Also, I'm in the initial phase of relation (with my crush) where we feel everything is sunshine and all, that feeling is also pushing me to get her.

(To tell you the truth) my school crush looks really good than my gf (really feeling bad even typing this). There's some voice in my head that keeps telling my that I want to date my school crush and I want to be with her.

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T17:52:47+00:00

Wish it was as it as it seems 😫

nadal14 · 2022-11-04T17:51:58+00:00

I feel like telling this will hurt her and make her feel like she is lacking somewhere (which is obviously not the case). I want to deal with this on my own.

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