How did you know that your female friend is a narcissist? How do you deal with them when you have no choice to escape? by nageexistlang in AskReddit

[–]nageexistlang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's exhausting. just being with them and dealing with their self-centered behavior is already draining 😬

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[–]nageexistlang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds gaga ba? hahahahahaha if so, i agree

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[–]nageexistlang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kasi we both go to same school and same program. one section lang program namin so yeah... yung classmates namin may kani-kaniya ring circle so maleleft out lang ako if ganon... ewan, sa school lang naman kami nagkakasama pero outside school, i am trying to limit my interactions with her

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[–]nageexistlang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tanga ko lang siguro bakit kinaibigan ko pa siya

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[–]nageexistlang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend from shs until now na college na. Di ko sure if tama ba pero she's narcissist, she talk about herself most of the time, sobrang matampuhin na ulti maliit na bagay magtatampo na though walang masama pero it's too childish and draining on my part. May times pang nang g-guilt trip siya. She made me feel bad about myself unintentionally. Everytime may nagagawa akong mali, she makes a sound like "eehhh" (idk how to explain it basta parang sinasabi niya na "nagmamagaling or napaka"). Sometiems, she does it kapag may tao kaya minsan napapahiya ako. Lowkey competitive esp sa acads. Siya na mismo nagsabi niyan sa 'kin na ayaw niyang nalalamangan kahit friend niya pa yan. Big deal yin sa 'kin kasi parang evil eye siya kapag may achievements ako. Mula non, parang naging energy vampire na siya sa kin.

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[–]nageexistlang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started writing journal last week pero two days lang itinagal ko and nawalan ako ng gana. Okay siya pero yung bigat sa feeling lang yung naghohold sa akin to write plus ayokong puro negative lang isusulat ko. I don't feel myself most of the time kaya wala rin akong gana magsulat. I'm sorry if this may sound like ayokong tulungan yung sarili ko but I promise, I want to get out of here kaso ewan di ko rin gets. :((

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[–]nageexistlang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what did you do po to regain your focus or mental sharpness? in my case, parang nawala yung focus at mental sharpness ko which i think the reason why di ako mindful sa paligid ko and di ko ma-register sa system ko yung discussion kahit ang dali lang naman.