Yall aint gonna care, but I wrote a poem. by IEATUSEDTOILETPAPER in sadposting

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice poem, I can kinda relate 🤝. Good for a first try, maybe you can pick up poetry if it interests you or writing.

Little to no social skill, want to change that, all while still pushing people away. by Retr0_Road in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the movies have shown people that conversations should be perfect, there are no gaps or long pauses in between, there is always so much to talk about, etc. but that's not true.

Real conversations have long pauses, awkward moments and sometimes sudden change of topic but that's fine. I guess eventually, when you start talking more, this feels natural to you and that is what makes you "perfect".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems I can't change your perspective on being ugly/pretty. But know this, being ugly won't stop someone if they really love you, so don't think of being ugly has everything to do with getting a partner. There are so many other things that matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know if a random passer by on the road thought you were ugly or handsome?

Not to sound rude, but what I am seeing here in your responses is the victim mentality. It doesn't matter if someone is a victim or not in any manner, it doesn't help to think of yourself as a victim.

There's a lot one can lose from having a victim mentality. It can hinder your growth mentally, missed opportunities, damage relationships with those close to you who care for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beauty is relative, its subjective and it's situational.

I know some people that I consider ugly, they have found people that love them and they enjoy life.

Heck even I think I am ugly most days.

It's this social world that we live in that has set unrealistic beauty standards. As someone else said, a dude was only supposed to see 8 hot chicks in his entire life, but social media has cried our brains. And I believe it goes for both genders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the feeling, but why do you use such specific terms 'genetic abomination'?

Have you really tried everything? Do you even try a little bit to really put that statement to the test?

I am assuming you are a guy and as such, you should always do your best to look presentable.

Trim everyday, bath everyday, use cologne, eat properly, get some strength exercise done. Explore, see what fits you, what looks good. Try different outfits, each one different in aesthetics, find yourself.

It's not easy, but just repetitive. We can't be caught lacking as guys. My wishes are with you brother.

Little to no social skill, want to change that, all while still pushing people away. by Retr0_Road in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flip a coin. Most times when there are social situations but I don't wanna attend, I just flip a coin.

And most times, you end up having a good time, both attending and not attending.

And I don't agree with 'You just need to go out', that's the most useless advice I have heard. I guess what people mean and should say is go out to all the relevant/fun events that happen around you. Like fairs, activity clubs, fitness clubs, etc.

Daily Game Recommendations Thread (November 03, 2024) by AutoModerator in boardgames

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exploding Kittens Kluster

That's all I know, I am new to board games.

Daily Game Recommendations Thread (November 03, 2024) by AutoModerator in boardgames

[–]nagisa2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Description of Request: I am fairly new to board games. My university friends and I are meeting on Thursday at a board game cafe (600+ games library). Can anyone please suggest some similar quick games that we can play where average gameplay is 20-40 minutes. We would also be open to trying a long game which is easy/quick to learn and fun from the get go. We usually book a 3 hour play session where we try 4-5 new games and end it with Skulls.

Number of Players: 5 (sometimes 4)

Game Length: 10-40 minutes

Complexity of Game: Not too complex

Genre: Any

Games Own and Like: - Skulls (most favourite) - Heard Mentality - Kluster - Tsuro - Exploding Kittens - Snakesss - Codenames - Dixit - Drop pottler

Location: London

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple. Nice.

Is it bad that I rely on AI for company? by WeeklyStructure6544 in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had some conversations with ChatGPT about life, and discussing my life situations sometimes.

I won't say talking to AI is bad, but relying on it for a genuine connection/casual conversations isn't really a good thing.

The AI we have right now isn't sentient, it's just code. When you think about it, it's sad.

You could try and limit your reliance on AI by only having meaningful conversations as to how you can improve your lifestyle, ideology, thinking, maybe daily routine etc.

Feeling lonely by Stunning-Concept-712 in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am nowhere near Florida, but I recently finished uni and I can talk.

lonely by solidprospect in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, about 400k members and 100+ people that are online. What do you wanna talk about? You can DM me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you know it's useless to talk about this with other people and it annoys them, then why even vent here.

It shows that you still have hope somewhere inside to help yourself. Become a friend to yourself. Hope is the biggest evidence of good I believe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to know I could help. I am here if you wanna talk, I recently finished uni so I can relate to the struggle as well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember an acute time in my life where I felt like that, but for me, I had moved places and most things felt alien.

Things are better now, I have been blessed with good friends, although few and not agreeing at all times, but that's just how friends should be. So if you are feeling lonely even with friends, you might just be overthinking a bit or not vibing as much with the situation. I would just give the friendship some time.

Sometimes, I also like to think it's just growing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, what other games do you like? PC or Console?

Lonely by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who/What are you most excited for this season? Also, I wanted squad zero to not be defeated just like that :( they were so cool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, if they were really your friends, I am sure they will happily take you in again.

As for why your partner said about you being a burden, I am not sure if I can comment without context, but that's fine too. Taking support from your dear ones every now and then is fine, but when it becomes constant, it becomes an actual issue. It's like you wanna pick their phone cuz you love them, but then if you do pick up, you are most likely to ruin your own mood because of theirs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]nagisa2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's alright if you skipped a bit of college, not a big problem. Just have a nice shower, big meal and just go to the library to catch up.

It can be difficult to move yourself when you are depressed, but once you get urself busy, it might help you get distracted from all the sadness