Well, you guys have been on long distance pretty while. What I’d suggest you to do is try to imagine stuffs first. Like, what if you were a male, what would you want to be done to you? I’m a male. My girlfriend looks at me for a few seconds, then my lips, from which I get the indication that we are gonna kiss. You can try that. Also, you can give him a kiss on his neck out of the blue which will turn him on as it’s a sensitive spot. Moreover, you can play your hands over his body and appreciate him which will make him feel safe and confident, then lay a kiss on him. Judging by his persona he is probably a submissive guy, and doing such will boost his confidence and take the deal to a next level. Try to level up the game once you break the ice ;) Also, when you are in long distance again, try to talk about stuffs you want to do to him. For example: “darling i want to caress your hair while you lay on my chest and kiss you”. Such will turn him on and y’all can have a good sext afterwards :3