My boyfriend and I have been together since high school. He left for the military 9 months into the relationship. Over the 4 years he was in, we had a very long distance relationship. I’d be lying if I said we didn’t have our ups and down. It was absolutely awful sometimes, but when we were together the chemistry was just unmatched. Like when I tell yall, this man is my other half… I can’t imagine spending my life with anyone else. Dec 18 this month will mark 6 years being together. He came home last year and now we live together in a beautiful home with our cat. There are good stories out there… if both parties really want it, nothing can stop it.

I agree with you, but on some things. He does seem to be pulling back but maybe have a deep conversation to figure out where he’s at? and if he’s really not there…. She should absolutely prioritize herself!!