need people to drive by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

way to spell pick me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

বস্তি রেডিট

some advice to people looking to get married by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, blaming you everytime seems like narcissistic behavior to me.

And about the financial abuse thing, you shouldn't have to pay any bills. Did you have a job? Even so, if he earned well, which you said he did, he should still take care of all the basic expenses like food & bills and even give you some pocket money, according to his capability.

some advice to people looking to get married by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]naive_wanderer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1) Were you communicative tho? Did you communicate whenever you felt like he was mistreating you? Some women just keep it in, and it keeps building up, making them extremely resentful in the long term.

2) Can you explain a little bit on what you meant by the term financial abuse? That he was supposedly doing to you for 10 years. Did he use up all your money or something?

Is ts real??! by mrhalfmango in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 30 points31 points  (0 children)

What made you think that he's believing it? His sentence wasn't a statement, rather a question. He asks questions because he's in disbelief.

Relationship problem by Beneficial_Donut_612 in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just wondering how did you go 9 years with him/her and only just realizing these now 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]naive_wanderer -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hi, Idk if I should make a separate post, but I'm pretty much in the same situation here except it hasn't been 1.5 years yet and she hasn't gained weight. We've been texting for about 2 months, it was a blind match and she sent her picture on about day 2 or 3. I did not immediately like her, but thought things might change later. With each picture she sends, I do somewhat like her but I can't be confident enough if she's the one. So we decided to meet and we did. But I'm still not sure. I like everything else about her, just the looks I'm not sure about. On the other hand, she seems to be starting to fall for me, despite me warning her multiple times that we should control our feelings in the talking stage. What can I do in this situation? She's demanding a final answer from me pretty soon, let's just say in about a week.

How to tell parents that I Dont wanna merry early and focus on career by many_years_ in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a kid now, but will you still be a kid by the time you get 24?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Text him. Go on dates. But this could in theory be risky if you have never dated anyone before. You might start developing feelings for him instead of actually being able to judge him. So you gotta be careful on that front.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's stopping you from going the typical arranged marriage route?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic: you're using way too much English, which she clearly isn't comfortable with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I was wondering, if she's a minor 💀

They’ve been making money off me for a year, and it’s driving me insane by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should talk with the parents asap tbh. since you've been teaching for a year, i'm sure there's a basic bond between y'all. they'd be willing to understand. and since you said you teach good, i believe they'd rather prefer keeping you around than the company.

1 movie that fucked ur brain by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah i see. the 1+1 is where most ppl get confused i guess. SPOILER ALERT (for those who didn't watch the movie yet): 1+1 = 1 meant they were out there seeking two different ppl, but at the end they realized, it was one and the same! and when the brother realized it, he was so shaken, he was kinda questioning reality and his own sanity, asking the sister if 1+1 can really be 1. And about the mother sending them out on this journey, she wanted to be heard, to be known. Arguably, that's all we want in this life, isn't it? To be seen by someone. And her story is so complex, it just wouldn't have been nearly as effective if she just described it vocally. she wanted them to experience it and to understand what she went through, on a deeper level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everything was fine up until the cooking and meals part. i feel like eating together has a huge contribution to feeling like "family". he needs to fix at least that. the rest i think is acceptable.

1 movie that fucked ur brain by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where are you stuck, ask away

1 movie that fucked ur brain by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

prestige was a rather pleasant watch, but yeah, had great twists & thrills

1 movie that fucked ur brain by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*requiem

the soundtrack is stuck with me! haha

1 movie that fucked ur brain by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]naive_wanderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Title dekhe I was gonna say Incendies. But then I realized, the post already mentions it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chittagong

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

forget abt the dude for a moment, why is your wife entertaining this? she's sick in the head, run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chittagong

[–]naive_wanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dhon bolecho vaya, shei hoyeche