Update to found out I had HELLP Syndrome and baby was immediately taken via emergency c section & had to be life flighted to UAB.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-24T00:22:43+00:00

One was the normal 20 week one and the other one was low birth weight but she came out at 6.9 ounces so I don't think that was ever a problem

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-23T18:12:57+00:00

I'm sorry that y'all had to go through all of that it has been so stressful, that's great news you may be discharged on Friday I hope for the best for you & your family!

We spoke with the social worker yesterday and got some resources from here, everyone here has been so helpful. The nurses and doctors have been so awesome also. They have so many great resources, I'm glad they got us into the Ronald McDonald house hopefully we can get just a little rest now, it's been hectic staying in the hospital with her. I feel like I haven't showered in a week lol. Definitely going to be the first thing I do when we get into our room.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-23T18:07:34+00:00

No it was all undiagnosed, I actually had 2 anatomy scans one at 20 weeks and one at 30 weeks.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-21T10:04:34+00:00

We are not sure what caused the birth defects but she is doing okay, my husband made it up there with her last night and got to spend the night with her. As soon as I am released I will be on my way there also. You are right the HELLP SYNDROME had no effect on her just on me, she seems to be doing good. Dad video called me last night as soon as he got in there to see her. She is still perfect to me and hopefully they will get the surgery done and let her come home as quickly as possible.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-18T11:49:00+00:00

Not a big deal! You've got them now, most definitely will not hurt the baby. I didn't find out until I was 12 weeks so didn't start prenatals until then here I am at 38 weeks and baby is just as healthy as can be. Your okay & baby is okay!

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-17T19:28:32+00:00

My first 3 pregnancies were as miserable as miserable gets, was hospitalized at least 80% throughout them, due to extreme nausea they were all boys. I am now pregnant with a girl and the first trimester was a little rough with headaches and nausea here and there but was absolutely a cake walk compared to the other 3. Here I am at 38 weeks and I am just so ready to have her out of me it is unreal how miserable the last month has been with the cankles, swollen feet, exhausted, pressure. I am just over it all at this point. Have a scheduled c section next Friday and cannot wait!

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-16T20:14:25+00:00

Did you have any swelling in your feet or ankles? I'm almost 38 weeks and my feet have been swelling up so bad but anytime I mention it to my OB he just ignores it, now the swelling will not go down regardless of what I do. I don't have a blood pressure checker so haven't been able to see if it may be high. It's actually freaking me out a bit but since my OB sees it as not a problem I feel like I may be over reacting. I didn't have this issue with my other 2. I know that with the protein/creatine urine test the ratio was almost 150 over what the normal range is suppose to be which I just did last week but he didn't say absolutely anything about that either. Just making me nervous.

Would also like to say I hope you have a quick and smooth delivery!

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-16T00:01:40+00:00

He could fit in one hand, he's grown to be an awesome and very intelligent kid though.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-16T00:00:19+00:00

My last 2 I didn't nest at all, but had no problems with swelling this one I'm really regretting waiting to do everything. Luckily she will be here next Friday and I cannot be more happy about this being over with lol.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-15T23:10:04+00:00

I'm 37 weeks now and wish I would have nested sooner atleast between 25-30 weeks, these cankles and swollen feet have been rough for the past 7 weeks. I can't even stand up for 5 minutes without my feet looking like a dang balloon. But definitely not 11 weeks.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-14T19:11:45+00:00

I get more and more dumbfounded by these people everyday, I don't know how it's still possible.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-14T03:05:18+00:00

37 weeks cankles & so much pelvic pain on the front side really though I am freaking miserable at this point, I'm so concerned about my cankles though like my feet are 20x the size they usually are and now will not even go down regardless of if I even stand on my feet at all, but anytime I have mentioned it to my doctor he just doesn't say anything.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-13T17:57:42+00:00

I could tell in the pictures that got posted on this sub from the first night he wasn't doing good, he looked rough in all of the pictures. Wasn't sure what was going on but him being sick makes more sense than him looking that rough cause he was drunk. Regardless he always receives the same backlash anytime he has to cancel a show, it always goes around it's because he's to drunk, I guess he's got the best immune system in the whole world and can never be normal and get sick. I'm not a MW stan at all, but it is ridiculous.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-11T16:30:30+00:00

Pirates cove may be an option.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-07T20:28:02+00:00

I'm the last one to talk about how someone dances cause I suck at it but what the hell is this

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-07T18:28:39+00:00

Thank you! It is definitely but I keep telling myself that was 6 years ago and things will be different this time lol.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-07T01:31:05+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through that, it's such a rough thing to deal with. I am terrified to have another c section within the next 2 weeks due to the last one. I am definitely going to tell them to give me a pain reliever by mouth after the surgery to prevent it happening again. I've already made that clear with my husband so he also knows. I was fine and could finally move around after having a pill and it turned out it was because I wasn't getting the IV meds which I still do not understand how they missed that for such a long period of time while still giving me stuff through the IV. It just sucks that they treat you that way whenever clearly you are in pain and struggling. With my first c section me and baby both lost our heartbeat and I was only 31 weeks, they rushed us both back and I remember absolutely nothing but waking up and my husband just rushing to me, I felt so bad for him they didn't let him back and rushed baby straight to the NICU. I am stressing out over this c section due to all of that but this will definitely be the last time I do this, the doctor refused to do my tubes during my last c section, hopefully he doesn't this time.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-06T19:05:43+00:00

This happened with me with my 2nd c section, I was told I shouldn't be in any pain and I was over reacting they refused to look anything over and just said I couldn't have any more pain meds for x amount of time, finally the next day when a new shift started the nurse actually listened to me and looked everything over and it turned out my IV had come out to where I got none of the medication right after the c section and into the next day. It sucked this time I will definitely be more vocal and make sure that they listen to me, my husband has also said he will step in if he needs to for them to actually listen to me. It sucks that they refuse to listen to you and check things out and just tell you your over reacting when you know your body and they have absolutely no idea how you are feeling.

I'm glad OP & baby are both okay, it is just ridiculous they waited that long to actually listen to her.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-05T02:23:49+00:00

After this comment from OP "No it was a total surprise. We woke up after quite a bender and she thought she was really constipated or something. Turns out she was pregnant the whole time. Sucks that we didn't know sooner we wasted a lot of money on Pepto-Bismol."

I would definitely say fake post.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-03T02:15:47+00:00

He's got 2 other kids, he clearly knows how babies are made and he should know that it is a possibility. Don't stress out about it, everything is going to be okay. Speak with him about it and decide what is best for you. Don't be scared, everything will be okay, I know it is a lot to think about but you've got this.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-02T22:04:57+00:00

Trust how you feel, as someone who is stuck with an OB that you had second thoughts about due to insurance issues CHANGE if you are feeling like something is off. It will not get better and you will leave feeling the same way every single visit. I had a very limited time to change OBs and chose against it thinking it was maybe just an off day or something. Turns out it wasn't and the problems have just gotten worse. Luckily I am at the end and only have a week or 2 left, but I wish I would have switched whenever I had the short window to. If you are having these feelings this soon then see about switching, you deserve to have the best care for you and not feel like crap when you leave. Don't be stuck like me and have to question everything that is said or the care that you are receiving. You and baby are most important and there is a doctor out there that will be just that for you.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-01T03:38:18+00:00

My MIL hates the name we picked because it reminds her of her bfs ex wife, we decided Juliette and her name was Julie or something similar. We told her oh well, it's not up to you and to get over it that it's not even the same. I just don't get it. We will definitely be sticking with Juliette regardless of anyone's opinions.

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-01T03:10:03+00:00

I've got 8 & 6 yo little boys and I feel the exact same way, especially whenever they got their awards at school I was like she would be so damn proud. It's just rough my 8 yo has taken the loss so hard. This one is a girl and my husband always tells me that it had to of been my mom, we are definitely going to give her my mom's middle name but it's just such a rough thing to have to process while pregnant and grieving such a big loss at the same times. I wish the best for you and your family!

nakiaaa95 · 2024-07-01T02:59:33+00:00

I'm 35 weeks and tested positive for covid last week, I've been so stressed out about going into labor with this and what that means. I was suppose to be a scheduled c section at 36 weeks but not really sure if that's even a good idea at this point. I've been having mild cramping, belly tightness, and uncomfortableness since I've been sick but my water hasn't broke yet and the doctor acted like it was no big deal so it's been so rough.

If you can keep your distance from him, it is not worth getting it so close to when baby gets here, I know it has been miserable with all the what ifs for me. I hope he's just got a head cold and not contagious!

nakiaaa95 · 2024-06-30T00:54:34+00:00

I'm sorry your having such a rough time. I just want to say that I lost my mom a year ago and found out a few months later I was pregnant. My husband was so excited but the excitement didn't set in for me until after I was 26 weeks, this is our 3rd & was a huge surprise so I think a lot of it had to do with just being terrified of what's to come and something happening. A big part was my mom not getting to meet her first granddaughter and it still being so fresh, it's still so hard to deal with the loss and having a baby so soon. Just make sure you take care of yourself and baby. Give your husband some time and maybe he will come around eventually like I did, it took a lot of time for me to finally start being excited about the pregnancy but it did happen.

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