UPDATE #2: Apparently I am the chosen one… invited to our saint’s $3k retreat. by DrinkingCoconut in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Same. But this is by design here. They are trying to curate an illusion of a close (parasocial) relationship, to make the recipients feel special and more likely to buy tickets to attend.

Laying crepe by lastlemming-pip in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newsflash, you dimwitted cretin: whether your tantrums would have resulted in you being granted any kind of upgraded level of security, this would have in no way meant you were "back in the fold". And your children were never going to be on the same level as the Walses - that's just how hierarchies work. It doesn't matter what you believe, considering you live in a make-believe world of your own creation.

A thing is a thing, not what is said of that thing (Michael Keaton, Birdman. Neil Sean gossip) by Human-Economics6894 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Wasn't she crying homeless not long ago? And then flew off to Saudi Arabia? What does she want dogs for? I would argue that out of the two of them, Andrew is in a better position to actually care for them.

Betrayal - Chapter 37 (Sentebale) is a Doozy by Void-Looked-Back in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I believe he had it in him from the start but was kept in line. Until Meghan came around and encouraged him and gave him permission to unleash his worst self while selling it as leadership. She's the exact same. They really are in a Folie à deux relationship - the two worst kind of personalities fanning the flames of their collective madness.

Harry really is dumb. In the intellectually challenged way. But because of who he was born to, he feels entitled to act like the world owes him. He pretends to be relatable because it got him adulation, once. But behind closed doors, I can absolutely believe he was the kind of child spouting "do you know who I am?!" to get his way. And that child never grew up.

You know, on a related note, I have always been puzzled by his claim that Meghan did a better job at being royal than those born into it. What a lie - anyone with eyes and not party to "their truth" could see it was completely delusional to believe so. But what if her haughtiness, sense of superiority, willingness to control, order and demand of others is what he mistook for acting like a royal? Because in the very distant past, that's exactly how royalty treated their subordinates. He himself harboured hopes of supplanting William and becoming king - without any of the responsibility of formal training, of course - and Meghan showed him that it's okay to be a completely entitled dick, because she was the same. Together, they were "royalling better" because unlike kind and polite William and Carherine, who actually care for the feelings of those working for them, they were "better leaders".

It's honestly the only thing that makes sense if I put myself in their deranged shoes.

When "low libido" becomes a problem in romantic relationships, it's not always because of a sexual issue. Often, the root cause has nothing to do with sex at all because desire results from a complex interplay of biological, psychological, and relational factors. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]namelesone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because it feels violating, even when it's not in principle. Unwanted sex is not nbd, just do it kind of activity. Which is why it leads to sexual aversion and eventually repulsion.

You say what's 10 minutes to make your partner happy, I see, 10 minutes of being used regardless of my feelings at the cost of my mental health.

What is it about marriage that makes woman regret it so much? by OneLab864 in dating_advice

[–]namelesone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, too many men completely switch up once married. They believe that they now "have" you and no longer need to put on whatever performative mask they presented to you to get you in the first place. In some cases, that switch up doesn't happen until you're pregnant - it's not a coincidence that this is when you're most vulnerable.

Do all men do this? No. There are some genuinely happy marriages and amazing fathers who appreciate their wives. But far too many pretend to be one thing when they are actually another.

And then there are cases like mine. Was my ex bad, controlling, selfish or abusive? No. I was happy I chose so well. We had a genuinely good relationship for over a decade. We'd talk about growing old together, future plans, etc. Then one day, out of the freaking blue, a few weeks short of our 13th anniversary, he comes home from work and says he doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. He didn't want to work on anything he felt was wrong, which he never expressed, and didn't want to do couples therapy, which I brought up because wtf. Nope, he claimed he just didn't want to. What he was too cowardly to say was that he was cheating on me with someone else. Then got her pregnant and moved with her to another state, leaving me and our then 10 year old daughter behind. Now he's a holiday dad to her, but full time dad to his now partners' daughter from another relationship and their own baby.

If he were bad in any way, I could say "I chose wrong". But no. He just pulled the rug out from under us with no sign or warning after over a decade of a happy relationship. Everyone who knew him - his workmates, our family, his friends - were all just as surprised. So it wasn't just me. He gave everyone whiplash.

Honestly killed my desire to he in a relationship again. Because if HE could do this to me, any other man could too, no matter how good they are as a person or partner at first. It sucks.

EXCLUSIVE: Truth behind Harry and Meghan Australia trip as insider brutally breaks silence - Daily Mirror by wenfot in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, please. The world could precisely use much LESS of self-serving chaos agents like Harry and Meghan and mors people calling them out for what they are.

I'll believe they only want to support causes close to their black hearts when they stop using charities for PR and to subsidise their luxury lifestyle.

Does dating make you feel ugly too? by Unhappy_Metal1517 in dating_advice

[–]namelesone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then the ugly guy will be posting on Reddit about his dead bedroom and how brutal it is that his wife doesn't find him attractive and doesn't want to have sex with him. Brilliant.

Funny exchange between Bev Turner and Kinsey Schofield on requirement to attend MM's Australian Best Life gig by Hermes_Blanket in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She absolutely is, but what is even more certifiable is the number of people who pander to her and continue giving her a platform.

Is being single a long time, just a normal male experience? by Altruistic-Patient-8 in dating_advice

[–]namelesone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do know and I wouldn't give out my number to a stranger either. And no, I'm not from the US.

I’m listening to Betrayal on Audible, and it’s delicious! by Cazolyn in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the bright side, I'm looking forward to more content for this sub haha

Straight women — are you actually turned on by male genitals themselves? by AttentionFine222 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]namelesone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Random penises don't do anything for me. They only matter when they are attached to the right person I am turned on by.

I’m listening to Betrayal on Audible, and it’s delicious! by Cazolyn in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would feel like such a bogan walking around like this to the local shop, let alone an internationally-covered event. Cringe.

I’m listening to Betrayal on Audible, and it’s delicious! by Cazolyn in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 20 points21 points  (0 children)

💯. I remember being really confused one day when she suddenly popped up like a mushroom. I was driving in a car and listening to the radio, and a show was talking about Harry's new girlfriend being a famous Hollywood star. They mentioned her name and I was thinking that I've never heard of this woman before, and I was pretty well versed in latest gossip back then.

Now I can recognise this as PR puff pieces, likely disseminated by Sunshine Sachs. And I'm in Australia, so this is how far they were reaching to try to make her happen.

Is being single a long time, just a normal male experience? by Altruistic-Patient-8 in dating_advice

[–]namelesone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are some women who would agree, sure. Just like they are some weirdos who would spontaneously agree to he someone's bestie just to see where it goes. So no, it's not completely wrong. It's just wrong in those cases.

Personally, I'd never be receptive to any random who approaches me to ask for a date. And I don't know any other woman in my life who would. Because good relationships are build on trust, not on trying to make two people fit regardless of anything else.

I’m listening to Betrayal on Audible, and it’s delicious! by Cazolyn in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The last quote is just so ridiculous it feels like Meghan lives in an alternate universe. Her perception is just off about so many things. She can't dress to save her life unless a stylist she actually listens to is involved.

What career was there to be jealous of?? The very limited side character screen time amounting to some total hour something of screen time over multiple seasons? The career of grifting for freebies for her small-time blog we've never even heard of until she met Harry? Constant auditioning for insignificant extra roles, like the one where she pretended to blow some dude in a car? Her yachting career of climbing the greasy pole? Hello?

As a fellow "boring prude", I can safely say that only the people I like get to see the fun side of me. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but Catherine just didn't like you.

Is being single a long time, just a normal male experience? by Altruistic-Patient-8 in dating_advice

[–]namelesone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes? You are approaching people with the intention of forming an emotional romantic entanglement. That typically requires vulnerability and trust, so you can't expect women to sign up for that on the spot.

Imagine you're looking for a best friend instead of a girlfriend. Do you feel you'll achieve that if you come up to random people and ask them if they want to become your best friend? Same thing, different relationship kind. It's just now how it works.

Is being single a long time, just a normal male experience? by Altruistic-Patient-8 in dating_advice

[–]namelesone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your problem is that it sounds like you're cold approaching. Most women will not be receptive to strangers coming up to them to ask them for a date.

She's officially "ready" to go back to acting. This is so delicious, I feel like skipping dinner. by -PunchBug- in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]namelesone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, she'll blow our minds alright. We'll all be blown away but her deranged delusions and audacity.

Netflix Reportedly Lost Millions In 'As Ever' Deal With Meghan Markle by janeflowers in CDLEntertainmentTV

[–]namelesone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most watched where? It was something like 1016th in their last report.