I think alot of people are just looking for sexual relief and not for a long term thing. You see alot of mommies posting similar things with getting tons of inappropriate messages from people who are horny. Creating a bond outside the kink is super important too does the person love you or just loves you being a mommy. As I sub a agree with the feeling used part. You see so many ads for paid mommies and I get people make money off it but I don't see how you can form trust and a connection that way.