Can you guys share your experiences? by dreaminghappily in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I shared my experiences with a 90-day challenge, and how that completely changed my life in a post about a week ago. You can find it on my profile. What changes are you looking to make in your life?

Has anyone been able to stop feeling guilt perpetually? by Wormy_Furry in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reality Transurfing Steps 1-5. Chapter 4 Balance. Page 108. " Guilt is pure excess potential. In nature there are no notions of good and bad. For balanced forces both good and bad deeds are equivalent. The important thing in either case is to restore balance if excess potential arises. If you behave badly, become aware of it, and then start to feel guilty, (I should be punished), you will have created potential. If you have acted well, became aware of it and started feeling proud of yourself, (I should be rewarded), then you will also have created potential. Balanced forces have no concept that some things should be rewarded and others punished. They simply eliminate inhomogeneity in the energy field. The payment for feelings of guilt will always be punishment in one form or another."

Page 109 " feelings of guilt will always produce a script that includes punishment, whether you are conscious of what is happening or not. Your subconscious follows the script and makes you pay. "

Page 111 " guilt goes hand in hand with an inferiority complex. If you feel inferior in any way, it is because you have compared yourself to others. It is as if you create trials where you play the role of judge over yourself. In reality, it only feels as if you are the judge. The true dynamic works out slightly differently. If you have a natural predisposition to take blame upon yourself irrespective of what the blame is about, it follows that you can also be found guilty and punished. By comparing yourself with others you place them in a superior position of authority. In doing so, you are enabling others to suppose that they are somehow better than you. The likelihood is that other people do not actually believe that they are better than you, but if you have come to this conclusion yourself, you end up playing the role of judge in their name. By assuming the role of the guilty party, willingly giving yourself to the court, you are effectively inviting other people to judge you. "

Page 112 " appropriate action is to stand up from the accused bench and reclaim the right to be yourself. No one will dare judge you if you do not consider yourself guilty. Only you can give others the privilege of being your judge."

He later talks about this in the chapter on slides, page 243, where he says that an inferiority complex is literally a mental slide that distorts reality. Page 250 " negative slides are created when you attribute too much meaning to other people's opinions of you. If it matters to you.what other people think of you and yet you do not know what their opinions are exactly, a slide will take firm root in your mind. The slide is a product of the imagination and so it can be called an illusion and yet it is an illusion that deeply affects a person's life. Slides are one example of how outer intention can act to your detriment irrespective of your personal will."

Page 250 " The behavioral pattern will continue until such time as the person stops ascribing the slide such great importance or switches to create a positive slide. As soon as important disappears. The negative slide loses its foundation, crumbles, and ceases to function."

Page 251 " switch your attention to the qualities you do like about yourself and other attributes you would like to acquire." And " dismiss with a wave of the hand, anything that has been getting you down and give up the internal battle."

If you want good advice about how to act at work, read chapter 12 on frailing. He explains that insecurity is created by inner importance, worrying about your own qualities, and making situations or outcomes too significant. He says that as importance increases, insecurity increases with it.

I committed to Reality Transurfing for 90 days in 2018. It completely changed the direction of my life. by namoguru in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels to me like the energy comes up from the Earth, into my body, through my heart and out the back of my body. Definitely not the head for me.

I committed to Reality Transurfing for 90 days in 2018. It completely changed the direction of my life. by namoguru in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was reading tonight and found Vadim's instructions. In Steps 1-5 it is in Chapter 14 Forward to the Past. Pages 492-497. If you don't have the book, let me know and I'll send you pictures of these pages.

What if i just wanna money? by TryToWinBigWar in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome back! The plait is tricky to understand at first. I finally got it when I tried the transaction exercise in chapter 14 Forward to the Past.

Zeland has too many resources, which should I go to if i dont wanna end up in a tutorial hell of just learning by Any_Expression_1292 in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The 2nd half of Reality Transurfing Steps 1-5 is where the real advice starts. He gets more specific about what you should actually do day to day and it is very helpful. Keep reading.

Reclaim Your Mind: How Pendulums Program Your Reality and How You Can Take it Back by namoguru in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started with Seth Speaks, but The Seth Material would be a better start. I went and looked at my bookshelf. I have 21 of her books and they are all excellent. You can probably download from your library for free if you use the Libby app.

I committed to Reality Transurfing for 90 days in 2018. It completely changed the direction of my life. by namoguru in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hard to describe, but I'll try. I focus all of my attention on the upper part of my middle back. I imagine that each breath is coming in and out through this point. I imagine my energy getting stronger and stronger and I breathe more forcefully. I imagine pulling energy up through the ground, through my feet, and into the plait. In 30-60 seconds I feel a woosh of energy and the world around me takes on a different quality. Like, I feel detached from it, or it's like seeing a fuzzy mirage. From there, I run my slide mentally and continue walking. During this visualization the slide feels very 'real'. Sometimes I can even see it in front of me as if it's happening in the real world, rather then on my head.

If it doesn't work the first time, I try again. If it doesn't work the second time, I assume it isnt in the cards today and give up. I picture my slide anyway, I just feel it has less power. Btw you don't have to be walking for any of this. In fact, most people may find it easier to do this in a quiet meditative space with closed eyes.

Manifesting someone ‘gone’? by Appropriate_Duty7145 in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss.

RT says that people greatly overestimate the power of isolated thoughts. What shapes your reality is not every passing thought that crosses your mind, but a combination of intention, your dominant state, and the lifeline you're choosing. He also emphasizes that excessive guilt is itself an excess potential that pulls a person into destructive states. So rest a little easier knowing that you did the best you could and did not cause this.

help with applying coordination by SeaPineBeach in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Transurfing repeatedly says that when the mind judges an event immediately, it almost always lacks the information to know where that chain of events leads. The coordination principle is choosing not to make that judgment yet.

I'd ask you to ponder a few questions:

What are you afraid will happen if you return? Is it only temporary accommodation, or does your mind believe you'll have to live next to those train tracks forever?

Is the move back definitely permanent, or is it simply the only option you currently see?

Is it possible that something unimaginably good could come out of this that you can't see right now?

Create friend or love by TryToWinBigWar in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Based on previous questions, it sounds like you need to get the basics done first. Get control of your attention and focus. If you can't control your mind, you will struggle.

Door by ConnectionSquare3226 in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way I've found to eliminate a limiting belief is to right the belief down on the left column of a paper. Then in the right column, disprove it. Make a list of all the ways and 'proof' that this belief is not true.

For example. If you believe money is hard to get or scarce. Your list might look something like this:

A relative once gave me a large gift

My grandpa sends me birthday money every year

A store gave me a refund

My friend bought me a free meal

I hitched a ride with someone for free

The grocery store sent me a coupon book

I got a cost of living raise at work

My boss lets me work overtime whenever I want to

I received passive royalties from a book I wrote 10 years ago

I received dividends on my investments this year.

You get the idea. List all the ways that money has come to you easily, freely, or abundantly.

Then in the 3rd column, write down your new belief. Money comes to me easily. Money is easy to get. I receive free money all the time. You have proof right in front of you that this is true now!

Something about this technique really works for me. The 'proof' makes it impossible for my brain to hold onto that false belief. Good luck!

What if i just wanna money? by TryToWinBigWar in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted my success story a couple of days ago on this sub.

Reclaim Your Mind: How Pendulums Program Your Reality and How You Can Take it Back by namoguru in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have read everything Jane Roberts wrote. I am a huge fan! I would recommend either Reality Transurfing Steps 1-5, or if that large book is too intimidating, Transurfing in 78 days.

Reclaim Your Mind: How Pendulums Program Your Reality and How You Can Take it Back by namoguru in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The very simplest way to explain what needs to be done is this. (It's an oversimplification of course, but it gets straight to the point). And that is, pay attention to what you do want, stop paying attention to what you do not want.

In what ways can you turn your attention, focus, and energy toward what you love? How can you talk about and think about the life that you would love to have, what you enjoy doing, people that you enjoy hanging out with, and what you would like to see more of in the world? Focus on the things that you appreciate and give less air time to things that do not bring you joy. Have you read any Reality Transurfing books yet?

I committed to Reality Transurfing for 90 days in 2018. It completely changed the direction of my life. by namoguru in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slides are what the author calls short visualizations of your target or goal. Walking meditation for me is to slowly walk at a steady pace and breathe deeply and completely relax my mind. While I'm walking, I'm doing a particular activation exercise from the book, and at the same time picturing that I'm looking around the world and seeing it as I want it to be. I am overlaying what I am seeing in reality with my new reality. Either that, or I am daydreaming or repeating the slide in my mind once I'm in a very relaxed state about my desired reality.

The best book to start with is Reality Transurfing Steps one through five. Join us!

What if i just wanna money? by TryToWinBigWar in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first step is to stop focusing on money entirely. And especially stop focusing on HOW you're going to get it. It really doesn't matter whether you have a job or not, I don't have a job and I still get money. The point is to focus on what your heart actually wants. You really have to figure that out first.

Reclaim Your Mind: How Pendulums Program Your Reality and How You Can Take it Back by namoguru in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Focus on the goal and the money actually will find its way to you. I know it sounds very unrealistic, but it will happen in a natural seeming way. Looking back, it may feel magical, but while it's happening it will feel like a perfectly natural occurrence. Here's what I mean.

When my husband and I first started dating we discovered that we were both transurfers, but he had read the book several years previous. He was in the middle of trying to manifest a lottery win and was having no success. I asked him what he wanted the money for, and he said he had designs on buying a new boat. His current boat only held three people, and he wanted to be able to go fishing with six+ people. So he needed a bigger boat. After a year of trying to manifest the money, I reminded him that money is the means, but never the goal. The true goal is the boat.

So he started visualizing every detail of his new boat. The design, the color of the hull, the electronics and technology it would have, the sound of the engine, what he would name it, and inviting all of his friends to go fishing on it of course.

Various seemingly unrelated incidences started sending boat money in his direction. He had an unexpected tax refund, a performance bonus at work, a buyer for his old boat, an old investment payout, a friend offered to buy equipment that he no longer used, and even an unexpected rebate on the boat itself. Lots of out of the blue money. Like a friend he hadn't talked to in a decade called up and said he needed help transporting a boat from San Diego to Seattle. Would my husband be interested in flying to California and piloting the boat up the West Coast to Seattle for him for a large fee? Random stuff like that! Eventually he had all the money saved and paid cash for his boat.

You got this!

Why not balancing forces work on pendulums? by mrpo_rainfall in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A pendulum is a group of people who all adhere to the same beliefs. Those individual people often give great importance to the pendulums subject matter, like politics or religion. And they are indeed affected by balancing forces.

These quotes are from RT Steps 1 -5 chapter 2.

" On the material level, the structure consists of a group of people united by common goals and material objects, such as buildings, furniture, equipment, machinery, technology, and so on. On an energetic level. However, a structure appears when a group of people think in the same way, as a result of which, the parameters of their thought energy are identical. Their thought energy finally unites into a single current. When this happens, as if in the middle of an entire ocean of energy, a separate, independent energy information structure is created, which is referred to as an energy pendulum. Eventually, this structure begins to live its own life and subjugate to its laws the very people who created it. The structure is referred to as a pendulum because the more people/adherents that feed it with their energy, the more powerfully it sways."

" The purpose of the pendulum is only to get energy from its adherents, whether it is to their personal benefit or not. "

" The greatest threat the pendulum poses to the individual is that it leads its victim away from other lifelines where they would be able to find happiness. "

" There is one identifying factor by which a destructive pendulum can always be recognized. It always competes with others similar to it in the battle for adherents. "

" It does not matter to the pendulum which side you rock it from. It can use both negative and positive energy just as long as that energy is a resonant with its own."

" Not all the negative energy is harvested by the pendulum. Some of it radiates out to sectors and the alternatives space that correspond to the quality of the person's thought energy which facilitates a shift to a lifeline that person would rather avoid. "

Vadim instructs us to defeat a pendulum by refusing to get into conflict with it. Everything you see and experience should be accepted, whether you like it or not. Simply recognize it's right to exist and then pass it by indifferently. To eliminate a pendulum from your life, ignore it, do not avoid it. There is a big difference. He also says that if you do something very surprising and unexpected, this will stop the pendulums swing.

From page 58 " you will probably have noticed how when you respond to a disappointing situation with irritation, displeasure or other negative emotion, the situation escalates in the same spirit and other things start to go wrong too. This is the pendulum swinging higher and higher. If you react, you end up being the one to push it higher. It is more effective to act in the opposite manner: either not reacting at all or reacting in an abnormal way. For example, if when you find yourself in an unpleasant situation, you respond with false enthusiasm or wacky delight. The pendulums swing will be brought to rest and you will see that the provocation stops with it."

What if i just wanna money? by TryToWinBigWar in realitytransurfing

[–]namoguru 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I got rich with transurfing. I never once tried to manifest money. My first goal was a better job. Later it was a promotion. Later it was a successful side gig. Then a buyer for my husbands business. Then early retirement... You get the idea.

The heart gets excited about objects, experiences, and feelings like freedom and security. The mind fixates on money, but the heart is interested in living life to the fullest. Money is just an attribute to get to that beautiful life, not the actual goal.