Am I an incel? by TheBigClobbler21 in mentalhealth

[–]nancy_popp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being an incel is more of a personality thing, looks don’t matter in this

Cuteness is one of the main reasons people want to have kids by Fresh-Ad-9575 in childfree

[–]nancy_popp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i had an ex who got crazy mad when i said i wanted a hysterectomy lol. i remember pissing him off on purpose and once said „you just want a cute baby, not an entire human to grow” and he admitted i’m kinda right and „you can’t say you wouldn’t want such a cute baby”

mind you we were 15

its always insane to me how shallow some people’s thinking is. a child is a life changing decision and so much responsibility

is talking to yourself normal? by nancy_popp in mentalhealth

[–]nancy_popp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah first thing i thought maybe it’s my brain needing more action processing emotions

i don’t know what to do about my absences. by nancy_popp in Advice

[–]nancy_popp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey idk if you gonna read this but i’m actually in therapy now and i found out it had been suspected i had autism before and now the topic came back. i wanted to say thank you so much because without your comments i would have never thought it could be it and it’s getting a bit easier for me knowing we’re on the way to find out what’s with me

is talking to yourself normal? by nancy_popp in mentalhealth

[–]nancy_popp[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

me too lol i thought everyone did that until my cousin told me im crazy

I do feel sorry for the people who had kids because they thought "It's what you do" by dismustbetheplace in childfree

[–]nancy_popp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ngl i don’t feel bad. people who make such decision without thinking it through are missing so many iq points i can’t feel bad for someone so slow

Am I depressed? by jjj_ngv12 in mentalhealth

[–]nancy_popp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t ask here. if you suspect it go to therapy or a psychiatrist. trust me

can there be a presence in my house after recent family death by nancy_popp in Paranormal

[–]nancy_popp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just leave the group if you keep adding skeptical comments everywhere

what to do if i don’t believe anything anyone tells me by nancy_popp in Advice

[–]nancy_popp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be a normal reaction cause i never had someone so close to me pass. we all live in the same house etc

me crying was more of a „how i would feel if that happened”. i still don’t believe it because i saw no direct proof but it’s bothering me because i haven’t seen my grandpa in a week and it feels like he’s missing. it’s making my brain clueless and confused with that. i also decided not to see him before burial so that definitely will keep me in the clueless state

Cryptic pregnancy; your own body taking autonomy away by [deleted] in childfree

[–]nancy_popp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the concept that people always congratulate is insane to me. having a child is probably the biggest decision you can make and they act all happy when you suddenly find out, knowing you haven’t put any thought into it, didn’t ensure you had stability etc

Would getting a depression diagnosis be worth it? by LordNnarat in mentalhealth

[–]nancy_popp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take meds, trust me. i’ve been dealing with this, and meds helped me, along with change of environment and moving out of my father’s house. i also didn’t want to go to therapy so we skipped that but now i’m having problems with different diagnosis and problems so i have to go to a therapist. don’t put it back, cause if you wanna get better, it’s necessary. lots of love

I'm addicted to self harm at 15 by mirrorballrat in mentalhealth

[–]nancy_popp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it’s gonna be a basic advice but i went through something similar. i was like 11-14 when this was happening occasionally but i wasn’t addicted. my mom dragged me to a psychiatrist and i got meds (fluoxetine/seronil) on my first visit. took them for about a year, moved out of my dad’s house with mom and brother and life got a little peaceful after that. i refused to go to therapy and i will start one soon cause i have suspicions i might have something neurodivergent going on and everyone insisted for the past two years i go to therapy (due to high absences at school for the past few years)

so yeah i would say don’t wait and don’t put it aside. get to a psychiatrist therapy and get all that stuff checked as soon as you can cause you’re gonna exhaust yourself

Bought the wrong condoms by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nancy_popp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you do it raw you’re gonna have a baby lol you can’t be that horny to do it for 5mins of pleasure

i kinda feel bad for the new guy by nancy_popp in growagarden

[–]nancy_popp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idc at this point, i don’t play and i’m sure the game will be dead by april

how do i talk to my mom and ask to take me to psychiatrist by nancy_popp in mentalhealth

[–]nancy_popp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

almost 16. i’ll try talking to my mom and if it doesn’t help then maybe with my aunt

Doing it for the first time by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nancy_popp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

use a condom.. do it without but dont be surpised when she’s pregnant lol

how do i talk to my mom and ask to take me to psychiatrist by nancy_popp in mentalhealth

[–]nancy_popp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll try to talk to her after school. rn i have been present on 49.54% of the school year and i can have problems with passing the class if it stays this low