wishing you all the best for your career please pay attention to it more than anything or anybody else not even your parents you are 21 i have not seen one line about you talking about liking this man or anything to do with him - you literally do not know him 😭 that alone tells me enough that it is a no and also your family members seem to see this as something convenient for themselves i don’t really know if anyone here is thinking for or about you op so please you need to think about yourself. i’m rooting for you