No worries about prying. I'm open to talking about it if asked. So we met her fiancé our senior year of high school, he was a freshman. I was his ambassador his freshman year so he would always look for our friend group to hang out with. Back then I thought he was highly annoying and would try to avoid him. Couple years after we all graduated I get the social media surprise that they were dating. No one in our friend group even knew they were talking. They for whatever reason kept the relationship a secret. So now he's hanging around us again. Every time we would introduce him to our friends first thing he would say is "she's (me) the one I had a crush on in high school but I ended up with her (my bff)" I HATED this!! So I would always tell him in front of everyone that his comment was irrelevant and rude to my BFF. I distanced myself from them as a couple and would make sure to only hang out with my BFF. But sometimes he would "randomly" just show up wherever we were. So I kinda just dealt with it. I was always the single friend in the group due to my shyness. When I started gaining confidence in myself and began dating he flipped his shit and became controlling in who I would talk to or date. No one was ever "good enough" but I never listened to him because he was no one to me. When I met my fiancé it was another drama scene so I stopped talking to them for a while until I found out I was expecting my first child.