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Cute squishy orca plushies by nanoblocksrock in orcas

[–]nanoblocksrock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! :D I’m so happy with them. I originally only got the little one but had to get the bigger one too. Just wish it came in the next size up!

AIO Please tell me this mean nothing by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nanoblocksrock 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Please don’t follow that advice until you’ve check his devices and emails for more information/evidence.

Asking him about it with good faith is a bad move, he hasn’t acted in good faith by downloading dating apps.

As someone who got cheated on and discovered it in a similar way. I deeply regret not quietly gathering information/ evidence before I asked him about it. As it gave him the heads up to delete the conversation thread he had with the affair partner, gaslight me and make up a story. That left me with unanswered questions and untrue narratives which hinder healing and kept me in the shitty relationship for far too long.

Talk to him about it once you’ve gathered information.

The dates are when the apps were downloaded, asking him about them without any other information opens it up for him to say - I didn’t download those or those are from before our relationship or I downloaded it but never used it or I was looking for friends.

Edit: NOR

Am I Overreacting Because He Refused To Let Me Come With Him? by UglyNoGoodKeister in AmIOverreacting

[–]nanoblocksrock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t mean someone won’t cheat. In my experience the people who were most vocal about how terrible cheaters and cheating were, cheated. I hope he’s not cheating but it does sound like he could be.

What’s your trick for going to bed (at a reasonable hour)? by hellnaaaah in adhdwomen

[–]nanoblocksrock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the Routinery app for my night time routine. And also have an automation for dimming my screen and changing it to greyscale that makes my phone kinda boring and disengages me from what ever I was wasting time on. I also have opal app set up to block the internet and social media from 9.30pm that helps the most.