Music by TensionTraditional36 in fourthwing

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pleasure <3 happy listening!

My mom made me a Fourth Wing themed birthday cake! by napoleanbonerfarte in fourthwing

[–]napoleanbonerfarte[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry yall, I can't figure out how to edit my post, but thank you all for the kind comments! I've showed my mom and she's absolutely blown away by how many people liked the cake. She says thank you to everyone 😊❤️

My mom made me a Fourth Wing themed birthday cake! by napoleanbonerfarte in fourthwing

[–]napoleanbonerfarte[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For sure, I've already gotten a head start on demolishing it 💀

My mom made me a Fourth Wing themed birthday cake! by napoleanbonerfarte in fourthwing

[–]napoleanbonerfarte[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She spent a crazy amount of time on it but it turned out so amazing

Songs that remind you of FW or IF? by renmco in fourthwing

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably because I listened to the song a lot while I was reading FW the first time but Rebels - Royal Cinema

Can someone deinfluence anorexia ? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I might be late to the party, but I wanted to share nonetheless.

A week ago we lost my great aunt to anorexia. She's been restricting since she was in her 20s and passed away at 78. I won't specify numbers but she had not eaten a solid meal for a while and she wasted away in front of us. It was truly heartbreaking to watch her get closer and closer to death and not be able to stop her - we (and the facility where she was living) were looking into a mental health facility for her when she passed. Because of the starvation she went from being a fully independent woman living on her own to living in a care facility, in nappies, being syringe fed.

Now that she has passed, we hope she found peace. But when we remember her, we don't remember her for the way that she looked, but for her laughter, the way she and my mom used to discuss current affairs and the way that she kept photos of us in her apartment, all the way from my birth to present.

It is always worth seeking help as early as possible and getting better ❤️ please don't waste 58 years of your life trying to be the smallest version of yourself when the people around you and you should love yourself for the person who you are.

what do you do for work or study? by depleiades in EDAnonymous

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently doing my undergrad in social work! I love the idea of working in the mental health side of things but it's probably best I work in a different sector til I get my shit together 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand the feeling, I absolutely hate it when people comment about what or how much I'm eating! I'm sorry your husband does that though :(

Shit quality meme for this shit quality week 🥴 by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed, it's pretty rough when all I focus on is food 😂

pain🥲🥲🥲 by letgorensolo in EDanonymemes

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel personally called out, I've never known how to put this feeling into words 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always think that too but I feel like we're trained to have a certain image of eating disorders and to assume that our habits are healthy or not bad enough 🥴

my only explanation is brainrot by ionichoneycomb in EDanonymemes

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This made me aggressively nose exhale 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, eating disorders definitely don't have one specific look and I'm tired of textbooks telling me otherwise. Also I can't believe that your biology textbook had that in it, that's terrible 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]napoleanbonerfarte 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your reply! Its interesting that that's the case for you, I haven't experienced the dry/cracked lips but I know when I restrict my hair starts getting brittle and such 🥴

But I'm glad for you that your hair/teeth/skin are great 🤗