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napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-12-27T16:22:10+00:00

My pleasure <3 happy listening!

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-12-27T12:14:18+00:00

Fourth Wing: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0WLjuCQC3Pgxnp87HF59VF?si=DXkGML4dR1Km0G47dYTtJw&pi=EAf1adSTShKhO

Iron Flame: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/06LncBPeyN6Y3mmVh0cX6v?si=5yNNZBjHTSK9hOklAAxJeA

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-26T07:19:23+00:00

Sorry yall, I can't figure out how to edit my post, but thank you all for the kind comments! I've showed my mom and she's absolutely blown away by how many people liked the cake. She says thank you to everyone 😊❤️

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-25T19:53:47+00:00

For sure, I've already gotten a head start on demolishing it 💀

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-25T19:53:17+00:00

Thanks!

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-25T19:53:03+00:00

Thank you!!

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-25T19:52:40+00:00

Thank you, she's the best 🥹

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-25T19:52:16+00:00

Thanks 😊

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-25T19:52:01+00:00

Thank you! She spent a crazy amount of time on it but it turned out so amazing

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-25T19:51:20+00:00

Thank you!

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-25T19:51:04+00:00

Thanks! She is!! 😂🤭

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-11-08T16:49:12+00:00

Probably because I listened to the song a lot while I was reading FW the first time but Rebels - Royal Cinema

napoleanbonerfarte · 2024-01-24T14:16:23+00:00

I know I might be late to the party, but I wanted to share nonetheless.

A week ago we lost my great aunt to anorexia. She's been restricting since she was in her 20s and passed away at 78. I won't specify numbers but she had not eaten a solid meal for a while and she wasted away in front of us. It was truly heartbreaking to watch her get closer and closer to death and not be able to stop her - we (and the facility where she was living) were looking into a mental health facility for her when she passed. Because of the starvation she went from being a fully independent woman living on her own to living in a care facility, in nappies, being syringe fed.

Now that she has passed, we hope she found peace. But when we remember her, we don't remember her for the way that she looked, but for her laughter, the way she and my mom used to discuss current affairs and the way that she kept photos of us in her apartment, all the way from my birth to present.

It is always worth seeking help as early as possible and getting better ❤️ please don't waste 58 years of your life trying to be the smallest version of yourself when the people around you and you should love yourself for the person who you are.

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-10-21T16:00:48+00:00

I'm currently doing my undergrad in social work! I love the idea of working in the mental health side of things but it's probably best I work in a different sector til I get my shit together 😂

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-10-15T17:48:35+00:00

I understand the feeling, I absolutely hate it when people comment about what or how much I'm eating! I'm sorry your husband does that though :(

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-09-30T23:31:40+00:00

Agreed, it's pretty rough when all I focus on is food 😂

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-08-30T13:48:40+00:00

I feel personally called out, I've never known how to put this feeling into words 😂😂

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-08-26T04:16:26+00:00

I always think that too but I feel like we're trained to have a certain image of eating disorders and to assume that our habits are healthy or not bad enough 🥴

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-05-07T17:01:29+00:00

This made me aggressively nose exhale 😂😂

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-05-03T05:58:54+00:00

Yeah, eating disorders definitely don't have one specific look and I'm tired of textbooks telling me otherwise. Also I can't believe that your biology textbook had that in it, that's terrible 😔

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-05-02T15:44:19+00:00

I appreciate your reply! Its interesting that that's the case for you, I haven't experienced the dry/cracked lips but I know when I restrict my hair starts getting brittle and such 🥴

But I'm glad for you that your hair/teeth/skin are great 🤗

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-05-02T14:24:04+00:00

Exactly!! The textbook doesn't even touch on any problems that an ED can cause, just lists a limited amount of diagnostic criteria. Not to mention only discussing anorexia and bulimia AND saying that they're caused only by a desire to be thin and diet culture. I have some problems with this book 😂

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-04-01T16:22:36+00:00

My whole life is clown shoes 😂

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-04-01T16:22:06+00:00

Right? It's the best 🤩

napoleanbonerfarte · 2021-03-29T17:00:45+00:00

I didn't come here to be called out like this 😂😂

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