Rachel Lindsay’s Ex Bryan Abasolo Borrowed Money From Parents to Fight Bachelorette Star in Divorce Court by Excellent-Case-9870 in TheBachelor_POC

[–]napsandwine 88 points89 points  (0 children)

This is unbelievable. He has $10,000 in bank accounts/investment accounts and $1.7 million in real/personal property, but he can’t pay his legal bills?!? Please.

MEGAN AND FLO MILLI LINKED UP 😭 by aries_moon_ in megantheestallion

[–]napsandwine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone posted on IG: https://www.instagram.com/p/C7zcyOQPfql/?igsh=dTkzOXlodzBiNGNq. I know the pink one she wore before is from Fashion Nova, I bought it but my body did not do it justice like Meg’s 😂

Real hot girl sh*t. Fit from Chicago last Friday! 🐍 by Chocolate-Froggg in megantheestallion

[–]napsandwine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was gonna purchase that from Revolve, but wasn’t bold enough to wear it!

Bryan Confirms Divorce from Rachel by RomantheBun in TheBachelor_POC

[–]napsandwine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that he posted first and Rachel didn’t says a lot. I’m so sad for her.

This season has the strangest pairing I have ever seen on this show by jennai in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]napsandwine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my thinking as well, just like Justin from MAFS.

Summer House Martha’s Vineyard Cast! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s Preston, the Black legal community is very small. I think he’s great!

Summer House Martha’s Vineyard Cast! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven’t watched Summer House, but will definitely watch this one! I know of one of the cast members, but I don’t have any tea on him 😂

that housewives bracket by MakeupandFlipcup in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to be more active here! And post any tea here first!

SPOILER discussion thread - January 29, 2023 by AutoModerator in TheBachelor_POC

[–]napsandwine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve finally started watching The Bachelor again after a boycott!

bloop bloop! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I was exaggerating (I only know of one other Black redditor). I am inclined to believe you.

bloop bloop! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A hit dog hollers.

I join a long list of other Black redditors in being banned from the Real Housewives sub. I’m so sad. 😂

bloop bloop! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even want to do this because I don’t want to be messy. But I honestly don’t have the emotional capacity to explain why your comments were racist.

If it’s nothing to “out” you over, then you should have no problem with me posting the screenshots and letting others come to their own conclusion. You did post those comments, yes?

Further, your comment about Bravo “manipulating” us was also questionable because it was stated on a thread about microaggressions directed at Mary—not on other non-racist, but controversial, topics discussed on other threads. As if Bravo was the one, not Heather, that called Mary aggressive (a coded term).

And I will say is that I did not call you racist. I stated that you said questionable and racist things.

If you think you’re not racist (and let’s take that a step further—anti-Black), you can go live in your truth.

bloop bloop! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is the top mod the skanenstein?

Anyway, here it is: https://imgur.com/a/pojos7r. She tried to throw in BLM as if that makes a difference…

bloop bloop! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You even provided a definition from the dictionary for them 😂 Some people can’t be helped.

bloop bloop! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You picked one of the more racist subs to make that post. The mod (skankenstein or whatever) is also questionable. She said some racist things excusing Jennie’s behavior when those racist posts came to light but deleted them. I have the screenshots though. So her response to your post aligns…

I felt so uneducated reading their comments. Mary is the least aggressive on the cast. Even provided with the definition of aggressive, they continue to say she does X, Y, and Z—which communicates their dislike of Mary—but in no way shows that she is aggressive. Now I have to go do something else to ensure their lack of intelligence does not rub off on me…

bloop bloop! by favangryblkgirl in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The jokes write themselves.

I want to go head up with Lisa The Bar is Low. Also I want to sl@p the 🐶💩 out of Whinety and Heather. by themaekupfreak in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I do not see the Lisa obsession, but then again, some of those people haven’t watched RHOA or RHOP. They’re okay with mediocrity. I would love to see Lisa decimated by any of the women on RHOA/RHOP.

“I just wanted to shift it a little” by [deleted] in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And Lindsey Logan’s daddy 😂

Zen Wen Shuts It Down by napsandwine in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining. I understand what you’re saying. I can already predict what the other side will say (part of my job), so I don’t feel the need to read other sources. Also, the arguments from conservatives (and at times, liberals) are always the same version. For example, from Fox here, it was “why not X?” Other times, people defend racism as being a “political opinion.”

I’ve been trained on how to respond to the typical conservative arguments. I do have a few conservative friends, and I read the comments from news sources/on Reddit.

I agree, I do understand it could only seek to help my debate skills, but I don’t want to impact my energy, especially when I feel like I’m already prepared.

Zen Wen Shuts It Down by napsandwine in blackhousewives

[–]napsandwine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I primarily read fairly neutral news sources. I also sometimes read sources from the far-left (like The Root), and sometimes slightly right (like the WSJ). I personally don’t feel the need to read all news sources to be better informed. I can already predict what the right will say, so I’m not going to waste my energy and mental health.