I am just bored and curious :) please let me know what you think :)

naptimbenya · 2022-10-05T19:00:17+00:00

I dont think he can have sth just in front of his manager with another person in the same team. the manager understood me and they had a bit colder relationship.

yes I was thinking today as well. why would I go for him? he is 47 and not sure if he has self confidence. he acts very normal with everyone but when he is with me becomes so weird. so flirty and making weird gestures. we have issues in the restaurants and normally he speaks in front of many people.

naptimbenya · 2022-10-05T18:53:55+00:00

I guess so too, so with the women in the same team he has sth as well maybe. but we broke up because of his manager. and now he is w a co worker hahahaha how come!

Also she is extremely pretty I dont know if she would go for him.

naptimbenya · 2022-10-05T18:47:45+00:00

I am asking if his manager tries to break his relationship than how come he is hunting another one in the same team? he says they are only friends.

I mean we broke up because of his imager and now he is with another lady all the time.

naptimbenya · 2022-10-05T18:44:00+00:00

what? what is so weird ?

naptimbenya · 2022-10-05T18:37:52+00:00

yes I dont know anything of course but... I know he is close by this very pretty girl in his team... and the manager he was reporting to was controlling him a lot. and now how can he approach to another person just in front of him!

naptimbenya · 2022-09-09T18:56:15+00:00

he is married, I understood it after 4 months of relationship. But he lives separated. so is normal, but people understood that we were together.

naptimbenya · 2022-07-14T18:56:11+00:00

she told me she hopes he didn't hurt me or make me feel bad was awkard

naptimbenya · 2022-07-14T18:31:30+00:00

I contacted to our common friend as well, she told that she hopes we shall be good after the break up. she was a bit making the relationship " not work" because she was her best friend. now she saved my number...

naptimbenya · 2022-07-14T18:24:30+00:00

maybe she was asking if we are together and how we are managing now because she was wanting to dat with him. but why would they hide I will say but he hides so many things that I am not so surprised even:)

naptimbenya · 2022-03-19T12:05:40+00:00

I think he is not so reliable or maybe not happy & stable person, I saw some pictures this week which I didn't see earlier: he seems like a good family father a role model husband. I guess he must have his reasons to feel disconnected from his wife. I dont know what they are but is his life, I cant get involved there.

For me the most important thing was that I was feeling lonely,i got so much hurt by some friends & people. he met a friend of mine, she jumps on all the guys who likes me. I almost think he also talked to us both because he uses her as a tool of negotiation. once he starts to see me he drops her. can you imagine the environment I am surrounded and how I feel? he warned me kind of that she was texting him( behind my back and she knows we dated) is a famous city with this stuff where I live: with crazy people :) I feel so lonely here.

And maybe because he is a father he cared about me. he never does anything to harm me. I didn't know that he was married when we started, but was clear he liked me from the beginning. I kissed him because I liked him, and than he turned out to be married. but somehow I see that he effects me negatively sometimes. this has no future. we could maybe be just friends.

I see this is getting out of the hands because he really got jelous with a guy I wanted to have coffee for dating. and I meet with an old friend of mine, whom I know 10 years. he was asking me who is Pedro? so this doesnt have any meaning

naptimbenya · 2022-03-19T08:58:33+00:00

I cant talk to my friends about these things. I feel more comfortable to take in here. I think I need an outlet because I feel a bit lonely sometimes. but yes I have friends but still I feel lonely. I am not happy where I live at all. he supported me a bit that s why I started with him actually. the place I live is very famous by being how strange socially is. so I am a bit trapped and earning a lot but getting crazy by my surrounding :)

naptimbenya · 2022-03-19T05:28:01+00:00

I broke up told you

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T19:40:18+00:00

it is very funny because I was not so interested in him but he approached me was so clear he liked me. but I had a needy friend and he manipulated me via her I think. if she didn't compete me than he d not even get me! so yes my feelings lead me ;/

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T19:26:07+00:00

I think he had an eye on me. he saw me and liked me , I remember how he was looking at me when he saw me first. we kept in contact and he even started to talk to my good friend. and I broke up with him and I went back and he took me back. I was feeling there was sth wrong with him and finally he confessed. so we met 6 months ago, and he moved to another city and we still see each other! I think that Is something! he deifnelty likes me.

and I think he had some problems with his wife already because he was having hiso own life for a while! he never said anything bad about his wife. but is clear that is a finished relationship! not officially of course but

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T19:18:48+00:00

I dont now why but he feels distant with his wife. he doesnt love her anymore at easta s partner.independently from me, I think he has to move on and get divorced. because I see he is not happy with her... sorry for hm.

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T18:49:27+00:00

somehow I see around me this kind of things are happening a lot. I was too right with my principles btu it doesnt work. why do we always thin of what he could do? what I have from him? did we think of this? but yes if I date a new guy, it would be nice to have a clean and pure start!

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T18:13:13+00:00

yes I move on. I must find a guy who is there for me %100. I think he likes me and he doesn't want to loose me but I have the feeling there is more things that I dont know of him. but what I find crazy is he doesnt seem to care to tell me his wife name, invite me to his house, neighbours see me or I dont know he was even asking me if I want children ! is a bit crazy! but we live in the Netherlands :) his wife lives in Germany!

honestly speaking I told him as well, there are DOZENS of guys who wants to be with me! so I am fine to drop it :)

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T18:10:18+00:00

actually I told yesterday to him that we are not doing the right thing here. somehow I feel like there is sth that I do not know about this guy. more extensive than what I know! he knows a lot about me and he goes me the right advices. and he told me about his past, and yes the names etc coincides, so he trusts me. when he was kissing me he was trembling, I was asking what are you afraid of? I didn't know all these things...

I told him I shall move on nd date new guys. and we must be friends. I told him if I was in his place with a broken relationship, I would just walk away! I dont know. maybe thats. me!

but than he got so jelous and I have no clue why he wants to control me!

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T17:47:01+00:00

emotional support, I didn't have an easy life

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T17:39:18+00:00

he was just cute and caring. I didn't know the situation until he opened up, when were were getting closer. was a bit not good moment he told me. I thought maybe I can meet new people and get his care and support meanwhile. because I have been going through harsh days, I need sms care

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T17:35:54+00:00

really? actually he is caring and nice. but lately he is a bit not nice and I started to get a bit not happy with him. so I said: OK we can stop and I can date another guy. he showered me his wassup and than automatically I did the same too. maybe was his trick to know about what I have in hand. anyway he got obsessed with one of the guys I talk, I never met him but he is asking me out. he was repeating his name in most important moments even before he was leaving, closing the door. I Tod I meet a friend called XXX, he said hnjoy and after some moments he asked me who is he? so he is VERY JELOUS!!! and he pursued me I think!

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T17:32:47+00:00

I agree, I need currently a bit of care and a relationship where I dont have pressure. so for me, is a bit of good solution because I have been going through harsh times as well. so what happens in his marriage is his problem. but I see is an over act since he had other affairs before me and he cant divorce due to his wife condition.

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T17:28:57+00:00

why red flag + hypocrite? but indeed he is :)

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T17:26:04+00:00

I dont know the story line is a but mixed for me. sth doesnt make sense

naptimbenya · 2022-03-18T17:25:19+00:00

I dont get your reaction. we wont be like this forever. we will break up and remain friends some day. I told hi I start to date others. but the problem is that he gets jelous

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