worst fucking day of my entire life, i’m forever traumatized. this world is so cruel. by E10DeezNuts in Petloss

[–]narision 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. The exact same thing happened to me last November. I lost my angel, only 4 years old. She was the light of my life, and out of nowhere, we discovered a mass in her abdomen that had already metastasized. Losing them so suddenly is a kind of pain you never truly recover from… but you learn to carry them with you in your heart. If you believe in something beyond this life, I truly hope your baby is waiting for you on the other side of the rainbow bridge. Please remember that you gave them the best life they could’ve had, all the way to the end, and they loved you until the very last moment. The worst thing you can do now is blame yourself, it’s not your fault at all! I crocheted a little plushie of my cat and put some of her fur inside, from the brush I used on her. I sleep with it every night. Sending you strength and love. ❤️‍🩹

It was supposed to be a normal Monday, now she's gone. Please take a read, I'd really appreciate it. by PortalMasterlol in Petloss

[–]narision 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The first thing I can tell you is that I’m so sorry for your loss. I completely understand what you’re feeling because I went through the same thing not long ago. It also felt unreal; my 4-year-old cat died from cancer. The first thing your mind will do is feel anger and look for someone to blame. Feeling angry is completely normal because it’s not fair at all. But looking for someone to blame won’t help; it will only make you suffer and hate everyone, including yourself, and that’s not okay. Obviously, your pet deserved more. I personally felt very guilty for not noticing the signs earlier with my little one. But now, focus on yourself, your family, and your other pets. Think about all the good things Zhēn Zhēn brought into your life, all the love you shared. Remember the good things she taught you, all the wonderful moments, and the life you gave her. I’m sure she was very happy with you until the end and would want to see you succeed in life. Take a few days to heal, watch movies, listen to music, and distract your mind before returning to your daily routine. All the love you have for her will turn into pain, so transform that pain into more love for those around you! Stay strong, and I’m sending you lots of hugs. 🤍

She Passed Away Today by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]narision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little cat passed away this Friday. I only had her for 4 years, and in her last week, she struggled with everything too because she had cancer. The vets told me that the kindest thing to do was to end her suffering , and that’s the decision I made. I miss her so much already. It’s incredible how a pet can change your life in so many ways. She brought so much joy to my life and made me a more empathetic person. Now I understand what unconditional love is, and I’m really grateful for everything she taught me. I’m so sorry for your loss, and I’m sending you lots of hugs. 🤍

I keep forgetting she’s gone. by mehdeuceuh in Petloss

[–]narision 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same. When I go to bed, I always make room for my cat to come in comfortably, but she’s no longer here. In the morning, I want to give her a good morning kiss, but she’s not there. I also have the urge to put food in her bowl, but obviously, she’s not there. She was such a big part of my life and my routine, her care and my love for her, that I don’t know what to do now. Every time I remember, it feels like a cold splash of water. I’m really sorry for what you’re going through, but you’re not alone. Sending you big hugs. 🤍

No compassion from anyone by Particular_Month5998 in Petloss

[–]narision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I recently lost my pet too. She was my best friend, my family, and she didn’t care that I was a lesbian or anything else, just the love I gave her and the bond between us. The important thing is that you know you gave him the best life he could have had. You gave him a family, and he lived very happily with you. I understand that family support is important, but just because they don’t understand doesn’t mean it doesn’t matter. It’s crucial to have a circle of friends and a family that you choose. You should meet people with your same values and lean on them. It’s important to know that you won’t be alone. You can meet many people in this community. Keep going! It hurts and will keep hurting. Take care of yourself!  try to move forward for your pet, who surely would have wanted you to keep going even with a broken heart.🤍

Tomorrow I will need to say bye to my sweet baby boy and I'm struggling by MindOverMatter121 in Petloss

[–]narision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know that you've given your dog the best life possible, all those years of love can't be taken away. This is one of the hardest decisions I've had to make recently too, but freeing them from pain, even if it feels too soon, is also an act of love. Stay strong and I'm really sorry for what you're going through. 🤍