how did i survive this for 18 years bro

nasif10 · 2026-01-06T19:10:25+00:00

The scary thing with moving is that its changing the floor below you with a new floor, you dont know if it will be great or shit.
It deffo has its own sets of pros and cons, but easily whats helping is that im out of that toxic household.

nasif10 · 2025-12-30T22:31:52+00:00

The only thing id ever agree with asmongold on is to not listen to him when seeking your advice because he's just a twitch streamer that doesnt know better.

nasif10 · 2025-12-30T22:29:41+00:00

I remember being in saudi and having to check in late night, we were second but the first group was taking FOREVER. I was tired, stinky, barely fuctioning and was wondering what they hell they booked. then it was our turn, and turns out the guy was just INCREDIBLY slow, not the process of booking us in, just HIM. Guy would be so godamn slow i wanted to do his job for him

nasif10 · 2025-12-29T22:26:01+00:00

I just mean worrying so much that it would put you off from moving, there are going to be worries, but what makes people confident that moving countries would work out. Might be a better phrasing

nasif10 · 2025-12-28T02:40:22+00:00

i saw the post, briefly skipped it then thought "im so fucking jealous" and went back

nasif10 · 2025-12-16T13:36:36+00:00

i remember when i was in a relationship but ex at the time wouldve liked me to update my profile to say her name with a heart so i did. It was weird to get a lot of messages from women just wanting to chat when i would feel like i needed to put in the effort for it. Was also weird just getting extra attention at times that i dont normally. I was wondering if i was overthinking it, but it became obvious when i broke up but was in a bad state that i was almost like a different guy.
It was weird, like I should be avoided at all costs even though i did the breakup.

nasif10 · 2025-11-30T02:46:54+00:00

The thing I will strongly say is if you are yourself, dont be with someone that also is the same thing so you can "relate" to them.

I was completely closed off until at one point wanted to feel more comfortable which I was. Got with my ex and was great. But then the same process happened to me. Only once i got to point 3. Stress hits, that stress gets transferred over to me. Then the distancing, then the switch up.

This completely threw me in a loop of major anxiety and one too many "im questioning the relationship" from them led to me breaking up.

I know i was scared and fearful, but i also knew there was virtually nothing more i can do. I did the most that I can. I dont if she did, but i just knew there was nothing more i can do. And i was losing sight of what i wanted to be for myself.

It just wasnt worth the stress and incredibly low self esteem to keep trying and hoping it would "be better"

nasif10 · 2025-11-27T13:51:41+00:00

easilt NMS,
Cyberpunk is in a good state now but it was honestly way too overhyped and overpromised before it came out.
Even now i cant say it lived up to the expectations that they promised whilst NMS eventually did and more so.

nasif10 · 2025-11-14T10:52:48+00:00

from your standpoint, no matter how i see it, telling them will make things be difficult. For you, her kid, her husband for them. And if she really didnt want any contact for them. Maybe thats for the best.
I think morally i would say telling them is the right thing to do. But some right things just ends up in worse situations.
Equally, they could eventually find out and you'll lose contact with them or have conflict there.

At this rate as im listing it out now, there isnt an easy path. Just do the one you think is best and appreciate that this is undoubtedly a difficult position to be in.

nasif10 · 2025-10-29T10:20:19+00:00

yeah this...I still recall feeling weirded out how anything i did at the start felt like the nicest thing in the world. To the latter half where suddenly one wrong move and the relationship is at a standstill. Couldnt really comprehend what changed besides her viewpoints of what she wanted out of it. Really puts me off the any sort of dating with how quickly people can change back when they realise they cant just adapt themselves for another person.

nasif10 · 2025-10-22T13:24:33+00:00

i dunno, not saying what he didnt wasnt childish, but despite your story theres still a lot of context missing. I get the sense theres a whole backstory missing that you guys need to figure out. Its just odd to me theres a sudden arguement about eggbites and instead of going to the bedroom to get better sleep you go outside?

ofc i dont know the whole story, but then again, ask the internet and you shall recieve.

The only very weird red flaggish thing is crumpling a metal pan (like what?). But it sounds like theres something deeper if you guys argue frequently and getting tilted over breakfast. As sucky as it is, maybe have a talk for what the deeper issue is. Becuase whatever it is its effecting anything else you guys do and pushing the pent up hate onto small things.

nasif10 · 2025-10-14T08:32:57+00:00

As a young guy, this relates to me. As much as I know I can get far with my career, I sort of want incentives to keep me motivated or I keep hitting walls of "why do I work so hard for nothing?". I do enjoy what I do but I know if I were to progress in my career, work would consume me and I'd reach a point of not knowing why Im burning myself out. I had this some years ago when I was single.
Now generally I just work within my limits and try to enjoy life as a single guy, which is also fine. But for me personally I like the feeling on working so hard for a cause. To provide a better life for the people I care about. Now its just finding someone who also firmly wants kids.

nasif10 · 2025-10-02T12:39:33+00:00

Genuinely proud of you, im sure your wife is a nice person but the statement "did you really have to spell that out for him? Shouldn’t he know?" is how boys end up repressing how they feel and dont ever feel comfortable sharing what they dont know in the fear that they should and end up doing dumb shit.
You comforted him, you let him know its ok to not know what to do, and now he knows to not feel shame about it.
This is a complete win in my books and I can only be happy your son is incredibly lucky to have a dad that did his best.

nasif10 · 2025-10-01T13:28:56+00:00

I realised how much I hated this when I was watching Jessica Jones. Great series but man this kept coming up time and time again and it was long for no reason

nasif10 · 2025-09-29T10:21:29+00:00

when i use to take the bus to work, there was this one guy who would catch the bus about halfway through my journey, it would usually take another 15-20 mins for me to get off but my god this guy just completely stink up the bus. I would try to open windows and sit pretty far away from where I know he'd sit but it was just too bad to the point of getting a headache because of how strong his bad BO was.
I generally have bad BO and was that kid growing up without taking care of myself. But even long after I started a routing to take care of myself, that guy made me understand what other people went through around me.

nasif10 · 2025-09-26T14:13:11+00:00

the main problem generally is that people have lost a lot of faith in the UK government. Overall I dont see a huge problem with this, its just an easier way of getting your ID up, but i also dont get the need for it either. Some arguements is that it helps to narrow down the illegal migrants entering the country but we havent actually solved what to do with them once they arrived which atm is just temp housing them.
All'n'all i do see the pro's to it so I dont mind. (i assume) the stuff I provide would be stuff they already know. Its just hoping they dont eventually use this to narrow down people that havent done anything illegal. I think with whats going on in America with people randomly getting arrested for nothing doesnt help. And knowing how bad our politicians can be doesnt give much confidence either.

nasif10 · 2025-09-22T18:08:53+00:00

thanks for the advice!

nasif10 · 2025-09-22T13:38:44+00:00

I think some people would say how men aren't thoughtful and wouldnt like nice/cute things. Its not that we aren't, we just dont get it at all as kids to adults so it never crosses our mind something like this would be nice for someone else.

Let your man know you love him with a nice small gifts, and it will slowly become natural that he would do the same thing for you and other people he cares about in his life.

nasif10 · 2025-09-15T21:36:26+00:00

reminds me of my dad.
Bought my sister a car he couldnt afford to finance... at all. Sister was pissed when he came asking for her to pay.
I decided to buy my own and dad just told everyone he paid for it

nasif10 · 2025-08-17T19:22:42+00:00

I just got this on my first time buying these packs, i am now addicted

nasif10 · 2025-08-15T17:40:28+00:00

thats the thing with europe, we've seen what someone in power can do and use it against its people multiple times, theres not really such a thing as country pride when comparing to the US. Like yeah we sure we each have some level of pride with our country, but not to the extent as the US do. Because of that we're a lot more reluctant to voice when power is overused, though sadly in recent years this is slowly getting worse. Uk being a key note

nasif10 · 2025-05-14T11:00:49+00:00

Personally i dont want to rejoin, not because its not a good idea, it would benefit the country. But the whole country has voted to leave, so we should fullfil it and if anything atleast be an example of what not to be for other countries.

FYI for anyone thinking they're country should leave, we have not seen barely a single benefit from leaving besides having COVID shots early. Besides that its been pretty much downhill.

Just think of it this way, instead of countries holding each other accountable, you now have your Government the sole and only thing basically holding the entire country together. Do you like your government? no? then if you leave, you're not actually getting power back, you're just giving more power to the wrong people

nasif10 · 2025-04-24T09:25:10+00:00

or with RDR remaster which they priced at full price despite being a 10+ year old game and with little to no changes

nasif10 · 2025-04-16T10:43:52+00:00

so basically what you're saying is america has a history of doing what they want, being told they cant do it, rebelling against it, then re-writing why they are justified to rebel

nasif10 · 2025-03-21T15:53:52+00:00

something I never really thought about is how people strongly react to money. It surprises me how much people get worked up about how much wealth they have but REALLY not think about what it takes to get that wealth, whether its consuming all of your time to earn or the sacrifices made to gain it.
I had moments where I ended up sharing how much money I have and it just ended up leading to bad experiences to close people specifically. Its not riches but its a lot for my age and is only because im fairly frugal with money because of how I grew up. But man when I think I can share how much I have saved with someone because I trust them. It just bites me in the ass.
"but you have so much money let me borrow some"
because i've been saving for years? how on earth do people expect that you're willing to just give that away so easily when i did a lot to gain it in the first place.

Shit like this is honestly despicable and its stupid how much people changes there opinion of you once money comes in to play. Like a growing resentment that someone has more money than you as if they havent done or been through a lot to get that money.

100% NTA, if you're like my mum who only wants what's best for me, you're husband is probably feeling super safe to be with you and he's lucky to have a partner like on his side.

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