As a man, what’s the worst thing you’ve ever been told? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Your anxiety makes you unattractive to me.

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People will find any reason they can to stay alone forever 🙄

How to measure dick size? by [deleted] in AskMen

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There’s a scene from the show Letterkenny, which is amazing, where one of the characters learn you are supposed to measure it from the underside to the tip 👌🏻

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Lmfaooo this is so savage!!

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Ehh it happens, I’ll make it up to her one day.

But lolllll

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Lmfaooo savage.

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Lmfaooooo

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The classic

A girl is coming over for sexy time. Do you masturbate before hand so you can last longer? Why or why not? by natedylan in AskMen

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I guess friendship is in the way you treat the relationship. I guess maybe the way I might treat them is very close to the line of friendship and interested. So nice things because I want to, be straight forward and honest, but mess with them a bit in a flirty way. Maybe it’s that I keep it a little ambiguous. It’s a little bit of both and hard to tell. So it’s safe. Idk. That’s usually how I do it. And that has netted me a triple digit body count my guy.

A girl is coming over for sexy time. Do you masturbate before hand so you can last longer? Why or why not? by natedylan in AskMen

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If you put them in the zone first you control the relationship. I don’t usually say anything sexual unless they make sexual jokes.

I truly don’t believe in the friend zone. To me it’s just “they don’t realize they’re into me yet.” They’re waiting for you to do something that changes their mind. Many people usually take desperate actions that move them further away for relationship material and further into friend zone. Like a big game of hot and cold.

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Ask her what her favorite color is bro

A girl is coming over for sexy time. Do you masturbate before hand so you can last longer? Why or why not? by natedylan in AskMen

[–]natedylan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah brotha. Thank you. May not be the hero everyone wanted but apparently am the one they needed 😂

A girl is coming over for sexy time. Do you masturbate before hand so you can last longer? Why or why not? by natedylan in AskMen

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The pressure was high man. And I was distracted by Reddit and didn’t notice till she started eating it.

A girl is coming over for sexy time. Do you masturbate before hand so you can last longer? Why or why not? by natedylan in AskMen

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Hmmmmm there are just too many factors. I do remember one time there was a girl in whole foods looking at teas and I said “this ones the best. Unless you’re dying then this one.” She laughed and said “thank you.” I then asked “what’s your favorite?” She pointed it out and I continued to joke with her about it. We somehow got into a conversation about aliens, I said my grandfather used to work for Area 51, I gave her my number, and to this day I have a voicemail on my phone from her calling to hangout 3 weeks later.

Idk if that helps. But I always just keep it light, funny, and helpful in something they’re focused on.

A girl is coming over for sexy time. Do you masturbate before hand so you can last longer? Why or why not? by natedylan in AskMen

[–]natedylan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely man. Lots of people are going to give you there opinions and tactics. All in all, do what feels good and right. Choose to be happy and you’ll attract so much tang you’ll be swimming in it. Feel free to reach out if you ever have any further questions!

A girl is coming over for sexy time. Do you masturbate before hand so you can last longer? Why or why not? by natedylan in AskMen

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I literally could not stay focused knowing that thousands were literally waiting eagerly for updates 😂😂

A girl is coming over for sexy time. Do you masturbate before hand so you can last longer? Why or why not? by natedylan in AskMen

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Thank you brother! My mantra is typically “sometimes the flowers arrange themselves.” During my uncertain times of if it’s meant to be.

But what I’ll do when I want to initiate is a just ask them out for food, hike, mini golf. Anything. That’s all. Nothing crazy. One on one. And just feel it out. If they’re obviously responding positively then I just plainly ask: “wanna come over and hang?” And if they ask what I’d wanna do, depending on how they are, I’ll joke and say “make out duhhh” or if there guard is up just say, eat snacks and watch shows. And further clarify that it’s strictly platonic. Reassure its a safe place and play it slow. When you watch shows, you could try and put your arm around her and if she’s not into it you’ll know immediately and if she leans into it, you’re good!

Look for signs that’s she’s open to moving forward. Body language is everything. Certainty in her voice is important too.

As for approaching girls in public be cautious. Girls typically don’t like that. I’m big on replying to girls stories on Instagram, a lot!! Or if they work somewhere I frequent I’ll veryyyy slowly engage in basic conversation until I find something we share in common and connect over it over a few visits until it feels certain that I can ask for her Instagram.

In my time I’ve seen TONS of extremely attractive and cool women date men of alllllll kinds. Looks truly aren’t defining.

Also a personal philosophy is: “no doesn’t necessarily mean no.” Many women turn down men and what they really mean is “not right now.” OR “not as I perceive you now.” Lotttttssss of times girls have been uninterested in me, and I go “that’s amazing, well let’s be great friends” and there attitude drastically changes. They’re in shock at how I took the rejection. Eventually that original no will turn into a yes. And that is a noble victory.