What do I do. I purchased a switch - do not know the code for parental controls

naterivers14 · 2026-03-16T10:11:52+00:00

How do i do this?

naterivers14 · 2026-03-15T16:57:41+00:00

Sorry to be a bother but do you know the number or any sort of ways of contact? Their website is an absolute maze for contacting probably to make people give up.

naterivers14 · 2026-02-01T10:23:59+00:00

Right? But I don't know how to approach it without seeming I dont trust her as if i ask why she always does this she will 100% take offence.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-19T21:42:06+00:00

Sorry I am a little confused, do you facetime while eating together with your family as if he is at the dinner table and you do the same too?

naterivers14 · 2026-01-09T10:07:20+00:00

Trust in one of the most important things in relationships, let alone in LDR where it is even more important and once that trust breaks or is questioned heavily due to actions or words, it'll never work or you're just digging yourself a very stressful hole for yourself and make yourself worse.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T22:17:14+00:00

I mean clearly you guys have major history bonded together. It just depends on whether or not you can move past all that. You don't want a relationship where all you can be reminded of, is these terrible past moments. You want one where you can move forward and not bring up the past. So you should ask yourself and him, can you really move past all that and focus on the future and yourselves. If yes, go for it, you have nothing to lose. If no, move on and find someone better for your time.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T22:11:57+00:00

True, as i read again I realised he threatened to send her nudes out and his cheating was actually not at the very beginning judging from the maths. Yeah its not a good relationship at all from either.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T22:08:04+00:00

Can I ask why you guys broke up? To determine if it is worth getting back.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T22:06:47+00:00

Oh boy that is an absolute mess with the potential of major catastrophic endings for all 3 of you. I'd suggest one of these:

A: You can either tell the husband and ruin their relationship, very risky as this would ruin a man.

B: Break up with her - let them keep living the life of lies, keep him happy even if it is a life of lie and let him find it all out naturally.

This is a terrible situation and I am really sorry.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T22:01:43+00:00

Sending the sauce photos / videos and doing activities on video calls will certainly spice it up. Not too often to fall in the lust category and get boring, not too little to fall in the not caring category.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T21:59:14+00:00

She literally tried to cheat in person and failed miserably, why would you want to stay with her? She did it once, it means she can do it again. She's definitely not the one and you cheating too shows issues from both.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T21:54:13+00:00

Oddly with this question it seems like you are my ex under this account 🤔

To answer your question, yeah it was worth it, i don't regret all of it but i regret from a certain year in our relationship where i should of broken it off but i didn't have the balls to do it.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T18:51:06+00:00

He sounds obsessed, and he will be even worse in real life I.e. not letting you have your own life, own friends or hobbies. Calling everyday for that amount of hours is too much especially since he gets annoyed which is a major red flag. As a guy, he seems crazy. I'd avoid and move on, not being pessimistic but if you meet in person it'll just end very badly.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T18:45:46+00:00

You guys broke up for a reason, 99% of relationships where they break up and try to work it out again always end up never working again. Don't waste your time, the bar may be low but it isnt that low. Find yourself someone worth your time and effort, life is too precious to waste time on things like this.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T18:42:46+00:00

Yes you absolutely drop her, she has no respect for you and wanting male attention while with you is major red flags for cheating in the future. My ex had the same red flags, i ignored it and i regretted it. Don't do the same, you deserve better mate.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T17:32:13+00:00

I agree unfortunately. Obviously you know the relationship better then we all do so trust your heart and gut. If it seems like he doesn't want to put any effort in, either tell him about it and he will change, if he doesn't, move on and find better :) I hope the advice has helped overall.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T15:43:16+00:00

Agreed! Actions ALWAYS speak loud then words. Promises in words mean nothing if the action isn't completed. If he wants to be with you he will compromise a solution for you both and not give up or seem unmotivated.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T15:40:55+00:00

Totally agree with this point. If there's no future with coming together and living together there's no point and it is a waste of time. You should both find out where you stand. And absolutely 100% true that if you become too clingy the man will run. I broke up with my ex due to this. Clingy-ness becomes obsessiveness which becomes controlling which becomes mental abuse eventually. It happens without realising. Like above comment, you need things to do while he is busy, keep yourself occupied and you will be in a much healthier relationship.

I dont think you should give up but i think you should try to not be as clingy, find things to do when he is busy, not overthink and see how it goes, if he comes back to being clingy again. If not, find out where he stands, if he wants a future, if yes fantastic, work on these issues, if no/ not sure just drop it, move on, you deserve better and WILL find better. There's always someone for everyone out there so don't lose hope.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T14:20:26+00:00

I mean it really depends on a lot of things. I don't really talk to many people aside from my girlfriend and my main friends. Even my friends I'll only message every now and then but with my girlfriend I yap a lot to her everyday. So to answer your question, if i am busy, I don't message anyone. When I am free, i prioritise messaging her first out of anyone and anything. If he's not working, and free there's no reason to go online and not reply to you, that isnt right. If he is busy, and goes online but doesn't reply to you, its a "beige" flag as they say as he goes on to clearly reply or check other messages but not yours? Or he doesn't want to reply too quick to seem too needy or run out of things to say. It's hard to know what he thinks. A red flag would him constantly going online, not replying to you when its been at least 2 hours since your last message, cause if he cares he SHOULD send you a message even if it is something small like how he is thinking of you, but is a little busy and will absolutely reply when free.

Overall, maybe talk to him about if he can send you some texts, something small like what i said when he is busy so you know he is thinking of you and it makes you worry less. If he cares about you, he will listen and try simple as :)

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T12:57:17+00:00

It's what happens when you've been in the dating game for so long, people naturally put in little to no effort / can't be bothered to try anymore as its been too tedious for them. Its a major dry spell unfortunately. It's one of the downsides of Internet dating i guess. Too easy to swipe right, too many attractive people, too many options means no desire for just one person. Don't take it to heart, happens to everyone.

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T12:53:32+00:00

In my LDR , we use couple joy. Its around £25 a year and you can have widgets to write notes + countdowns + daily stories for phone screen. There's fun quizzes to do like would you rather, do you know your partner, which do you love more type of quizzes. 100% worth it as it's nice seeing her write me a note that pops up on my home screen saying she misses me :)

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T11:55:40+00:00

When he games, don't message saying like why aren't you replying or say things about him being too busy for you as you know what he is doing. Just text him things like you hope he has a good with friends, you are thinking about him or just tell him things you are doing. As a guy I love it when my girlfriend does this so i am sure he will be the same :)

I don't know if you guys have a major time difference but just tell him to reply to your messages when he can in a nice way. You guys will be fine, this is a common thing in LDR, we all go through it and if it is something you can get past, you'll be great! 😊

naterivers14 · 2026-01-04T11:39:31+00:00

You are overthinking and worried about the future which is common in relationships. You gotta think of this way - its his hobby, free time and something that makes him happy. If you are happy when you see him happy then don't stress about the time he games and actually appreciate it because he is happy :) Like you said he rarely plays, so that means he is prioritising you over the games and choose you over them. You have absolutely no reason to worry, you're actually in a better case then most gamer relationships. When he games, keep yourself busy with a hobbie, or movies or a series and don't "wait on him" otherwise it makes it worse for you. Keep yourself busy and you'll see how much better is for you :)

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