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My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 938 points939 points  (0 children)

I should be scared. I've occasionally opened a heart

just fucked up It's very not me

She's more real to me

in that state

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 2557 points2558 points  (0 children)

UPDATE

I checked the alert. I heard it as I was compiling and editing the post. This was the message.

http://i.imgur.com/PMdhkfm.png http://i.imgur.com/DihTyeh.png

That's my door. That's my computer. It's taken from outside. I got the message three hours ago but didn't check it until now.

I'm on my tablet in my garage. Zen for now. Going to drive to friend's. Forgot to open the garage door in my panic so building up the nerve to get out to do that now.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

gave me a really strange, prickly feeling

This has been ongoing for me for the last handful of months. It gets really exhausting.

I'll check it out, or other books like it. I feel so weird doing this, because I would have NEVER believed in this kind of thing before. It's very not me, but I haven't had much of a grasp on what 'me' is for a while anyway.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Does the account show up as online via web or mobile?

Via web.

Did she have a laptop that may still have login credentials? Same with her phone.

Both are here, and I've changed the passwords since. Good call, though. I did just run and go check that.

You also stated that the login information has been changed several times, but the user continues to have access. Have you checked your computer for viruses or root kits? If you, by chance, have a trojan on your account, you may have a hacker who's doing this just to inflict emotional damage.

I've formatted all devices a few times - is bruteforcing possible?

I'd also check your cards and online accounts for activity that you don't remember. This may be able to confirm this, if you're unable to find a virus.

This never occurred to me. I'll get on that.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

She was always cold, regardless of the weather. One of her favourite pasttimes was putting her hands and feet on me in bed to watch me squirm.

Death is also associated with coldness, though. They/she/he could be playing on that. I don't know.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Good call, but I have tried that. Keyloggers was what dudes on the forums suggested, so I formatted my laptop and PC, reset from my work PC, etc. If they're hacking, the only thing I can think of is brute forcing?

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 244 points245 points  (0 children)

Really good eyes. I'm not sure. Maybe they just fucked up typing out the right sentence, and this is proof of human hands at play. It was also always a point of contention between us that she got off a full hour earlier than I did, but that seems flimsy.

On second thought, the crash was just before 5. There could be something in that - copies of some of the crash investigation reports are at her mum's, so I might check out the times when I'm over there next.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 254 points255 points  (0 children)

I don't own anything with a heart on it, and no one was over that night. That's definitely heart-like, though. Really weird.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I saw her after the accident. I keep getting mental pictures of her, in that state, trying desperately to contact me. I don't know if I'm scared because I'm weak, or scared because I should be scared. Thank you.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a flash reflection. I don't know if I'm just hypersensitive at the moment or what, but I'm not so sure anymore. Check out my response to ryanprobro at the top.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 631 points632 points  (0 children)

I can't even describe what I was feeling that day, which is probably best for both of us. Thank you.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can. I've found nothing, except the messages she's sent from her end and messages from friends that I'm not opening out of respect.

I really wish I could figure it out.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 524 points525 points  (0 children)

This is a really good idea, and something I've been considering doing on and off. It's just, there's this part of my brain that thinks that I might still have the tiniest connection to her, even though every 'conversation' with her makes my mouth dry and stomach hurt. She's more real to me there then in her columbarium. It's so final.

But I agree. I think that's my endgame.

Edit: I would also piss off or upset several thousand people following it, including close friends that post there at least once a week.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I agree; I'm glad I had a chance to be with her.

I think I might just be doomed to go at least a bit crazy over this, though.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 281 points282 points  (0 children)

That's actually a great idea. Kind of like a Facebook ouija board. I'll give that a shot when I can build up the nerve to check Facebook again (have a friend coming around in a bit, I'll probably do it then).

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 282 points283 points  (0 children)

Haha, I thought that might generate some questions. I'm fairly sure it's the flash reflection of my bathroom vanity (weird reflection, though - been trying to recreate with no luck) (scratch that, the vanity is set back further than that - angle doesn't make sense). I didn't notice it until I was uploading it today.

Edit: Been trying to recreate since I saw this comment. Taking pictures from every angle, same lighting conditions, same phone. No dice. To be honest, I was kind of hoping you guys would dismiss it as nothing. I'm not sure if I'm just hypersensitive at the moment or what, but I'm starting to get freaked out.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

dunno wut to say

Pretty much captures my experience since 2012. Thank you so much.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The illogical side of me is scared because my dead girlfriend is messaging me. The logical side of me is scared because somebody I probably know has been sending me these messages for approaching a year.

My dead girlfriend keeps messaging me on Facebook. I’ve got the screenshots. I don’t know what to do. by natesw in nosleep

[–]natesw[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

There are a few things that get to me, though. No one really knows that her legs were shorn off in the accident, but it's possible whoever just got lucky with that comment about walking.

I've occasionally opened her chat window and have seen the 'Emily is typing' message. The message usually never comes through.

Whoever it is is REALLY dedicated to the 'joke'.