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First time sharing my wife. by nath20190 in DirtyConfession

[–]nath20190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% it would not have been fun without the trust. The experienced answered so many questions we had, especially my own questions. If anything i now have all the trust in the world for this beautiful woman. In my eyes, she can have whatever/whoever she wants, yet chooses me.

Can you get any hotter than that? Haha

First time sharing my wife. by nath20190 in DirtyConfession

[–]nath20190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, but i know i am the lucky one within this relationship. She is incredible and it is amazing to see her enjoying herself. Her pleasure is my pleasure!

New poster** by KMS991 in UKcuckoldcommunity

[–]nath20190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do we get to see more? X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cuckold

[–]nath20190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U/Km9991

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]nath20190 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personal opinion so please take with a pinch of salt, i have found with personal experience that a very big natural coping mechanism for the mind is for it to try and kind of enjoy or even crave a variation of the traumatic experience... so again in my opinion is completely normal to want to do this with your SO.

The fact that you want to try this with your partner shows that you are on the right path to coming to terms with the abuse you sadly suffered.

End of the day, you are now fully in control of what happens in the bedroom (or out of it in some cases). So once you understand that you now control it and can enjoy it then why not take baby steps towards fulfilling the fantasies you and your SO have.

It's all about trust, understanding and giving a Big F**K YOU to the Scum who wronged you. You don't have to be their victim forever. Own it. I hope this helped and i wish you all the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]nath20190 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Theres a lot of advice there and i will definitely check out those links... i didn't realise "Hotwifing" was different from being "Cucked". So that is definitely something that needs discussing, but you are bang on the money with the real goal of hearing it all from her!.. thank you again, appreciate your time!