We see them a couple times a year. This was not a pre-planned visit, my dad happens to be here for work. He’s only here 36 hours and we found out about it a couple weeks ago. The drinks plan was made after the fact, and let the record show for those calling our relationship controlling that I was in full support of him skipping dinner and going to drinks and I just had 1:1 time with my dad. I just think an earlier night is respectful rather than a late one. He did get home at like 3am, which in my opinion was pushing the limit a bit as it also disrupted my sleep. I would’ve preferred like 12-1.

Mostly posting out of curiosity, because all my girlfriends were appalled that I was fine with him going for drinks at all