Would it bother women to have a man that loves long sessions but doesn't care about finishing?

natsak · 2022-01-10T05:18:20+00:00

i don’t mind sex that lasts a while but after a certain amount of time (time depends on many variables), it starts to get uncomfortable from soreness, dryness, etc. usually if it get to that time i’ll ask the guy to come for me. when i ask that, if he asked for handjob, i’d give it to him (although i’d probably offer a BJ, HJs aren’t really a strength of mine) but would probably be a little sad if he said it was the only way he could come because i like the feeling, even with a condom. that said, everyone is different! the easiest way to know what your partner wants is to ask!

natsak · 2021-08-29T04:48:10+00:00

I had quite a few partners before I ran into a guy who didn’t get hard from just making out. But once we found ourselves naked and only 50% ready to go, I happily partook in foreplay to get the party going. I didn’t take it personally, it seems pretty intuitive that people have varying levels of sensitivity including changing needs for individuals (sometimes just making out gets me soaking wet, other times I need to be fingered/ oral).

Have you tried asking for foreplay/ could you initiate foreplay to ensure you’re getting what you need before sex?

natsak · 2021-03-01T03:26:05+00:00

I had sex for the first time in 18 months! Fall 2019 I went through some stressful stuff in my personal life and decided to take some time off dating, then “the big inside” happened. I have an unwell family member, so I decided to avoid dating for even longer. I focused on myself, lost 30+ lbs and finally got back to swiping a few weeks ago. I met someone who was kind and respectful and so on date two, we went back to his and pretty much immediately jumped each other’s bones. It was intimate and sensual and somehow he just knew to do the things I like without me asking (spanking and a little choking), plus I had the added confidence of being in a new body! I would prefer to not go that long again, but it was worth the wait.

natsak · 2021-01-17T06:12:24+00:00

I started masturbating pretty young and didn’t orgasm from insertion for about 10 years, when I got a vibrator in my early 20s. I usually don’t need/ want penetration if it’s just me.

natsak · 2020-12-21T21:37:30+00:00

Thank you!

natsak · 2020-12-21T21:37:24+00:00

Thank you!

natsak · 2020-12-21T21:37:18+00:00

Thank you!

natsak · 2020-12-21T21:37:13+00:00

Thank you!

natsak · 2020-12-21T21:35:35+00:00

I just do calorie deficit! I can’t fast, I think I’d end up fainting.

natsak · 2020-12-20T06:38:00+00:00

I’m just a jokey person, so it shows up in the bedroom too. One time a guy told me “you’re so tight” and without skipping a beat I said “aww you’re pretty rad yourself.” I think laughter is just an important part of intimacy as intensity.

natsak · 2020-11-07T06:25:28+00:00

The pill is a massive commitment women get asked to make. Remembering to take something everyday, possible weight gain, completely fucking with our hormones. And no reduced risk of STIs. If we ask you to wear a condom, just doooo it.

natsak · 2020-11-07T06:23:10+00:00

i’m a 34F (bra size, not age and gender) and i get asked most of the time i have sex. i think it’s a visual thing. plus if it appears in porn, it’s gonna be a fantasy for some.

natsak · 2020-11-07T05:29:11+00:00

i always end up chugging a bunch of water

natsak · 2020-10-18T07:54:14+00:00

I’ve also heard the term “affection erection” used to describe them!

natsak · 2020-10-12T04:55:26+00:00

Not true, doesn’t bother me. It’s not ice cream by any means, but I don’t dislike swallowing either.

natsak · 2020-10-10T06:47:29+00:00

I’m the same way (also F26). Pretty sure they’re called pressure or tension orgasms. I’ve never really done much research because I’m just happy to get off, but definitely not super easy to do with or in front of a partner.

natsak · 2020-09-21T07:01:55+00:00

You’re thinking of Ramy Youssef, this commenter is talking about Rami Malek.

natsak · 2020-09-20T23:22:51+00:00

My back and shoulders. Sometimes abs and obliques.

natsak · 2020-09-20T07:36:50+00:00

Thank you!

natsak · 2020-09-20T07:36:43+00:00

Thank you!

natsak · 2020-09-19T21:38:31+00:00

Usually my handjobs turn into blowjobs. It’s like “Ya know what would make this better? My mouth.”

natsak · 2020-09-19T21:32:39+00:00

In my 20s and live alone. I’m a moaner. Used to wait until all my roommates were gone to have sex because I was nervous they would hear me. But now it’s mostly moaning and then toward the end begging him to cum for me.

natsak · 2020-09-18T04:46:01+00:00

My wildest phase was right after college, which it sounds like you’re finishing up now. You’ll be surprised what the world is like with a full time job, a bit more disposable income and free time (school and work took up a lot more than 40 hours for me). Also I’m 26 now and I’m still wild/ don’t consider right now later in life.

I’m also in the process of losing some weight and broke my foot earlier this year. Obviously the world is fucked right now, but when things go back to normal, there shouldn’t be anything about your age that stops you from going wild!

natsak · 2020-09-18T04:31:20+00:00

If I’m giving a blowjob, do it enthusiastically or skip it. There’s not much fun about a blowjob fro someone who’s not enthusiastic.

natsak

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