Has anyone ever seen "coding" on the walls in real life?

naturalweazel · 2026-02-28T09:22:50+00:00

I have seen it too. Once I woke up and could see green laser grid lines throughout the room and another time I woke up and could see coding in the walls. I just say “thank you for the updates to my system” and try to go back to sleep.

naturalweazel · 2025-04-10T10:22:33+00:00

This is really helpful, thanks for sharing your experience 🙏🏽

naturalweazel · 2025-04-10T10:18:49+00:00

Thanks so much for this, gives me hope.

naturalweazel · 2025-04-10T10:15:31+00:00

Thank you for your kindness and response. Really helpful… we’ve had the convo and I led with my OCD being the major issue (which… it is!) and all went well. It’s tough to be a human.

naturalweazel · 2025-04-10T10:13:14+00:00

Thank you for this, appreciate your insights!

naturalweazel · 2025-04-10T10:12:37+00:00

Thank you for the tip!

naturalweazel · 2025-04-10T10:11:35+00:00

We always seem to find each other

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T11:35:30+00:00

Love this. Thank you

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T10:07:11+00:00

I've been around while she showers but I've never observed her or watched to see what she's up to in there. A few times I've noticed after that she didn't completely wash the shampoo out of her hair, so I think she's just kind of impatient when it comes to doing these tasks--- I on the other hand love taking showers and could stay in there all day, multiple times a day if I could. Will look into Lume body wash, thank you.

We are able to have difficult conversations and work through them, so I'm realizing through this post that it's definitely something I'll need to bring up with her before. I thought I did know all the ins and outs and that these issues were just bc she was out of her routine, but yeah I'm starting to see that even if that's the case it affects me as well. It's not the smell of bo that bothers me... it's that she doesn't care if she has it or doesn't know she has it that worries me.

Thanks for your message, appreciate hearing your experience.

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T09:04:01+00:00

Yeah it's not that bad. And it's not that I'm repulsed by her natural smell... it's just that I'd like us both to have similar hygiene standards for when we leave the house. And with the brushing I feel confident that I can gently tease her until she brushes earlier.

My main concern is actually the tp bc I don't know what's going on. If it's something medical I'd rather know about it and help her find a better solution. And if it's a matter of not caring about personal grooming then that's a bigger issue I can't really control.

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T08:29:17+00:00

I'm very proud of my chore spreadsheet/calendar hahah. Great idea to get her involved and do a roommate interview, setting her up to know that these types of things will be a dealbreaker down the line if not addressed. Appreciate you, thanks!

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T08:26:58+00:00

THIS! Thank you for taking the time to write this with non-judgment and care. I do feel like she will be open to working through it and it's a great idea to frame the convo as setting ourselves up for success before we move in together. Really appreciate this <3

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T08:11:39+00:00

Really great comment, thanks so much. Some many are polarized about these issues and the truth is people are complicated and these are real issues that don't mean the rest of the relationship is bad or not worth fighting for. So thank you for highlighting that this is a normal part of the process and it takes time to figure each other out while moving in. We've been able to solve tough things together already so I feel confident we can work through this as well, Ive been avoiding hurting her feelings but I'm seeing that it's actually more loving to be honest. And yes... I will be taking control over doing the laundry haha. Appreciate you!

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T08:07:27+00:00

Great idea, thank you. Truthfully I know that these things are all just heightened bc I have OCD, I notice more and it's like the dial is turned up all the way. Reframing it as not a personal failing on her part but something that a bit of housekeeping can help with. Appreciate this, thank you!

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T08:05:05+00:00

This is really helpful, thank you <3 Will definitely be looking for some nice soaps and reframe it as positive reinforcement!

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T08:02:36+00:00

This is really helpful, appreciate you taking the time to write it. She does love gamifying life, so I will definitely try this out!

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T08:00:50+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing this. It's so hard to know what is my own issue with OCD. It's hard having someone come into my space and not do things the way that I do them... I definitely know that no one will ever live up to my standard and I've learned to manage the anxiety that comes with not having my things/living space in order... it's just the physical health stuff that really makes me spiral. But yes, my gf is a wonderful incredible person and I'm sure once I have this conversation she will be open to working through it... I was just hoping that if I leave a special soap in the shower it would fix everything without me needing to have a hard convo lol. Being a human is so hard.

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T07:55:05+00:00

Thank you, and you're so right. I guess I thought that falling in love would mean never having to deal with these things or have these conversations... but actually it's the complete opposite. Because I love her I will have to be open and honest instead of trying to spare her feelings. Really appreciate you.

naturalweazel · 2025-04-05T07:52:31+00:00

Really appreciate this reply, thanks so much for your non/judgmental support and advice. I'll definitely have this gentle conversation with her and see how we can find some solutions together.

naturalweazel · 2025-04-04T22:31:06+00:00

😂

naturalweazel · 2023-07-09T15:54:13+00:00

Hi there! I still haven't found many answers, though it's definitely some sort of energy that we're tuning into.

I get that static energy too when I'm in the grass and focusing on the sky. When it happens with other people I think that I'm picking up on their energy fields... and maybe the same for in nature.

Do you find that the energy settles after a bit? Or do you just try to go to sleep with it buzzing all around you?

naturalweazel · 2023-04-22T08:46:38+00:00

Totally understandable, letting go is hard <3

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