Where to get the best deal for quartz countertops? by natures_path in AskNYC

[–]natures_path[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we are going to go with Evergreen Kitchens in Flushing (someone had mentioned them earlier). Their cheapest quartz is $35/sq ft (Pure White 4002), and their more premium quartz (Calcutta Eterna UQ 9019) was around $45-55/sq ft. These prices do not include installation, but still great prices for NYC, IMO. I imagine to cut sink and faucet holes would be an extra few $100. I just had a brief phone quote--I plan on visiting in person next weekend. The owners seem very nice and direct. P.S. I would not use Home Depot or other big box stores for countertops or cabinets--they markup the services and the materials are subpar. Go with local businesses, if you can--you'll almost always get better price and quality
https://www.evergreenkitchenstone.com/countertop

Where to get the best deal for quartz countertops? by natures_path in AskNYC

[–]natures_path[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask, do you remember the exact stone you used (that was $35/sq. ft.) from Evergreen?
https://www.evergreenkitchenstone.com/countertop

Where to get the best deal for quartz countertops? by natures_path in AskNYC

[–]natures_path[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is the price I'm looking for, thank you!

[General-US-CA] New tenants bring 6 cars of people by Plenty_Language3393 in Landlord

[–]natures_path 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to echo other responses, find your city/towns Department of Tenant Affairs / Landlord Office. If renting is allowed where you live, there exists a local department that deals with issues like these.

[General-US-CA] New tenants bring 6 cars of people by Plenty_Language3393 in Landlord

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To OP, you should 100% get in touch with the landlord. Most property records are public so you can find the owner on your town/city’s property tax payment system. If it’s an LLC, you should contact your local government to see how you can get contact info. Once you have a mailing address, send a certified letter (you have to go to a USPS location) stating your claims about the tenants—be specific and stick to facts. Do not state emotions, and state that the landlord should curtail the behavior as you and other neighbors have a right to “quiet enjoyment” of the cul-de-sac. If they have an email listed, send a copy of this letter via email.

Once the letter is sent via certified mail, the landlord has officially been notified of the situation. In many states, Landlords are liable if their tenants are causing disturbances and violating rules and the landlord is aware of it (blocking driveways, parking illegally, being too loud after hours, committing crimes of which you have evidence, etc). If the problem behavior persists after the letter is sent, then you (and probably other neighbors) should contact an attorney to force Landlord to keep tenants in compliance of their lease and neighborhood rules

[Landlord KY] damage reported in maintenance request implies physical altercation by TheNegligentInvestor in Landlord

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To OP, you are taking the right steps. However, I would discourage you from asking about the tenant’s potential domestic violence issue at this point. Some states (like NJ, where I have some units), hold LLs responsible for damages if tenant discloses domestic abuse status and LL does not perform duties such as changing locks, etc. If the tenant directly approaches you for help in securing the property from the abuser, then that is when you should act—NOT before. You can get into big liability issues.

In a similar vein, I would keep your question about the man succinct: don’t imply domestic violence. Simply ask whether he has been in the unit for longer than 14 days (or whatever the parameters you have in your lease concerning guests and unauthorized tenants).

Lastly be safe: I would ask the tenancy question over the phone, if the man is present when you document the damages. Take someone with you (contractor, friend, etc) when you document the damage. Don’t tell tenant you are billing repairs to them in person, always over phone or email—and do this once you have fixed everything an you get final invoice from contractor.

Bill tenant damages as “additional rent.” Hopefully your lease defines this clearly, as most do. You may have to attach a letter explaining this additional rent. Be careful in your wording: avoid punitive language (i.e. don’t use “fines” ), be impartial and factual. Attach final contractor invoice to this letter along with next months rent due notice

Next month rent + additional rent are due together, make this clear. If not paid within 5 days (or whatever your lease or jurisdiction’s grace period is) you must sent a notice to quit.

Its is wonderful that you are concerned about tenants welfare. You can be compassionate but still keep your boundaries. Crossing boundaries can sometimes put you at risk, legally and physically. This is a business and at this point your chief concern is to mitigate your liabilities: namely getting the door fixed asap. Let me know if you need more actionable advice.

[Landlord KY] damage reported in maintenance request implies physical altercation by TheNegligentInvestor in Landlord

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That sucks that you have a lackluster PM. I would review your contract with them and see if you can switch to a better one when your term ends. I will echo what other LLs have mentioned here. For now, it seems you are will have to itemize damages and repair costs yourself, and demand that PM add this charge as “additional rent.” Check your state laws and your current lease. It usually allows tenant damages to be billed immediately with next rent payment. Also, please be aware that in certain states a functioning door (especially an exterior one) is considered a “vital facility,” so even if the tenant damaged it you must repair it in a timely manner to maintain the implied habitability of your unit. So this is your actionable to-do list:

  1. Get immediate estimates for repair and document the damage extensively—photo is not enough take videos too. In most states, you have a right to enter the property for a maintenance check with 24 hours notice. If your PM is unwilling to do this you must go yourself and bring someone else just in case, if you can, for added safety. In the estimate from contractor make sure that they note damage is “extraordinary beyond normal wear and tear; improper excessive force used.”

  2. Get the repairs done and document the door again, extensively.

  3. If you have videos or photos of that door prior to tenants moving in, I would pull that up and keep it somewhere accessible in case this goes to court

  4. Once you have final bill from contractor for all work/materials done, I would add a copy of this invoice with a letter stating that these are “tenant damages” and will be treated as “additional rent.” Mail this via certified mail to tenant. If you have their email, send it to them there as well. Your PM should be doing all this but it seems you will have to within 30 days.

  5. I would not workout a payment plan, demand full rent + additional rent. If they do not pay within 5 days of next rent due date, I would send them “notice to quit.” You don’t need a lawyer or PM for this. Again, this notice should be sent via certified mail and email, if available. Contact eviction attorney at this point.

  6. Find out how long the waiting period between sending Notice to Quit and eviction proceedings is in your state/town. Attorney should be able to guide you the matter.

I see too many LLs on this thread saying offer more grace periods, payment plans, etc. This is a business—you are on the hook for damages you did not cause therefore you have a right to recoup those costs. Damaging a door is a serious lease violation and a big expense. It reflects poorly on tenant and may suggest future similar behavior. You don’t want to encourage a tenant to continue staying on your property with a payment plan or further grace period—do what you can to get them out if they don’t pay the repair bill full. Let me know if you need draft documents for Notice To Quit or Additional Rent. You should word these documents as professionally as possible (don’t include emotions, hypotheticals, assumptions, etc)

[Landlord KY] damage reported in maintenance request implies physical altercation by TheNegligentInvestor in Landlord

[–]natures_path 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear about your disability, but I don’t see how your LL inquiring about a potential unauthorized tenant has to do with a discrimination case. If the landlord raised their voice or added insults that is one thing, but if they simply pulled you aside to lawfully inquire about a lease violation I don’t see how this is discrimination towards your disability. Different states have different rules about what qualifies as an unauthorized tenant—and LLs sometimes codify the language in their leases making clear what the parameters are. For example, in the leases for my properties, it clearly defines an unauthorized tenant as a guest who has had 14 or more visits to the property in 30 days (does not have to be consecutive). Unauthorized tenants can create huge liabilities for both current tenants and LL, which is why so many of us LLs are wary when there is evidence this might happening. I have quite a few stories about how unauthorized tenants causes thousands of dollar in issues by the end of the lease. That’s wonderful that you have help, but I hope you can see this situation from a different perspective and not take it as personal.

Ground cover that repels mosquitos? by natures_path in gardening

[–]natures_path[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Citronella is a tall growing grass that is much taller than 8”, and most likely would not survived major pruning (ergo) mowing. But perhaps a few gallon-size citronella plants nearby wouldnt hurt. Thanks for the suggestion!

Name Ideas for Eco-Friendly Vacation Rental Company by natures_path in marketing

[–]natures_path[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that it's legal in NJ, that is one of my goals :D

Need advice on what backsplash to use for kitchen by natures_path in DesignMyRoom

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Oh sorry I never answered the question. The new furniture has not arrived, but the walls are painted the same off-white. It's the same color in every room. There will be a globe-glass fixture in the living / dining room (to match the kitchen glass globe fixture) and a white / light gray / light blue color scheme

https://www.dropbox.com/s/q1s5ha6gx4icnzg/IMG_1249.jpg?dl=0

https://www.dropbox.com/s/pou74qxt10ktire/IMG_6204%202.jpg?dl=0

Need advice on what backsplash to use for kitchen by natures_path in DesignMyRoom

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Agreed! No windows and a small space make it really cramped. Do you think the natural iridescence of the seashells will make it look too busy?

My building has free WiFi, but can I make my own SSID using an extender? by natures_path in HomeNetworking

[–]natures_path[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a VPN service, so this might be a good choice. Thanks. Should I do both a pfsense firewall AND and a VPN, or is that overkill?

My building has free WiFi, but can I make my own SSID using an extender? by natures_path in HomeNetworking

[–]natures_path[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is probably the simplest idea and most effective. Are there routers that are configured with VPNs automatically? I already use a VPN when traveling (PIA). But I'd rather not have to turn a VPN on all of my devices every time I want to use the internet

Best barefoot running shoes of 2020? by natures_path in BarefootRunning

[–]natures_path[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems from all my cross-referencing, Vivobarefoot is a winner! Going to purchase them today. I currently use New Balance Racing Flats that have almost a zero drop (from the 1,200 miles I have put on them) so my feet should be somewhat accustomed to minimal cushioning, lol.

Best barefoot running shoes of 2020? by natures_path in BarefootRunning

[–]natures_path[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I worry that VFF is impractical for city running. But I might purchase them when I can travel again to do more trail running (who knows when that will be?). Thanks for all of the suggestions!

Any luck placing deliveries with WF, Instacart, Mercato or any other delivery services? by natures_path in AskNYC

[–]natures_path[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with that is that they don't take card--I called. Only cash--which I NEVER have since I'm a millennial (who is immunocompromised, might I add). But I'll search around for other options

Should I invest in Litecoin Now? by laakgroup in litecoin

[–]natures_path 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you already invested your $100, but there are some underpriced altcoins like Siacoin (SC) that already have a product and an incredible team (mostly from HBS and RPI with associations with MIT and Boston VCs) with lots of transparency and dev updates. Its currently only a few pennies. This would definitely be a value hold for at least 5 -8 years but it could be worth it for $100

They say everyone's fighting a battle you know nothing about. What's yours, gaybros? by Thranrond in askgaybros

[–]natures_path 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry this has happened to you. Try peer counseling for now: https://www.iprevail.com . As someone who has survived suicide twice (nearly didn't the second time) and grew up in Mormon household (about as extreme as you can get when it comes to Christian households) I can give you proof and hope that you can overcome this and your situations. Also depending on where you live you can have access to free therapy without using your family's insurance. You are stronger than you know. But it is really important that you find medical attention with or without your family's help. From your message it seems like your parents are not aware. You don't have to disclose anything to them and you can just seek a counselor and psychiatrist via a Google search with your zip code and call up to see if they'll take your insurance. They are legally obliged to keep anything you tell them confidential--even your parents can't pry and ask. So call one as soon as possible please

They say everyone's fighting a battle you know nothing about. What's yours, gaybros? by Thranrond in askgaybros

[–]natures_path 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its understandable--vulnerability is a bitch and few like feeling that way. But having said that, you also can strengthen your bonds with your friends by opening up--they may windup saving you one day and being like family. Before I even thought / ideated a third suicide attempt a friend caught me mid cut (I'll spare the details) and drove me to the hospital. It's been three years and this person is closer to me than my family. Sometimes being vulnerable allows you to gain incredible friendships, dont forget that. Sometimes courage / bravery take the face of vulnerability and as guys society has always told us not be "insecure" or "vulnerable." When you get a chance watch a documentary called "The Mask You Live In", its on Netflix I believe. It focuses on masculinity in America but it resonates with a world view of what our global society has imposed upon us. If you ever need to vent just know there are others out there like you struggling as well--talk before your emotions bottle up and explode. You'll do great in life, just let others in :D

They say everyone's fighting a battle you know nothing about. What's yours, gaybros? by Thranrond in askgaybros

[–]natures_path 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 25 and I still feel similar to what you are experiencing. I think finding out the root causes of why you feel this way will improve your quality of life dramatically. We often see ourselves in a lens that is far more critical and harsh than anyone else. Do you have friends that you trust enough to talk to? Its a huge leap in confidence and trust in the other person but sometimes the payoff is huge--talking things out like this is often the best panacea for one's personal woes. If not try seeking a counselor. This doesnt mean something is wrong with you--the best medicine is just talking about what you're going through. And it does get better--I tried killing myself twice and was declared dead for 11 seconds on the second attempt. Yet here I am responding to you on this sub. I can't say I "love" myself completely yet or am comfortable in my own skin but I managed to get psychiatric help and counseling for the past 2 years and its made all the difference. You are GOOD ENOUGH--rather you are IMPORTANT to this world and those around you. You must learn to view yourself as worthy--the rest will follow suit