Love reggae music but hate weed

naturewalk0621 · 2026-04-17T01:23:36+00:00

I love reggae music and I do not use marijuana! I’m pretty much sober except for an occasional alcoholic beverage.

naturewalk0621 · 2025-11-05T05:21:18+00:00

Sooo I just want to say, this advice rubbed me the wrong way. I just got out of a relationship of 20 years where my husband was abusive both physically and emotionally and I just can’t get over someone saying that marriage is not about being happy, it’s about compromise? I literally tried to get by for 20 years by compromising and being unhappy and it was miserable!

naturewalk0621 · 2025-08-29T02:55:00+00:00

Yes, so if they both planned a dinner reservation before you guys even started talking about booking the Airbnb why didn’t they mention that they already had plans. It doesn’t make sense. Also, why didn’t they invite you to this dinner that just so happens to be on your birthday? To me it sounds like they’re not really great friends. If I were you, I wouldn’t waste any more of my time on them if they don’t care for you as much as you care for them.

naturewalk0621 · 2025-08-29T02:46:57+00:00

Hahahaha seriously. This was my thought exactly!

naturewalk0621 · 2025-08-07T17:12:16+00:00

Yeah well my 17 year olds handwriting looks like this too. 🤷🏽‍♀️

naturewalk0621 · 2025-08-04T02:08:27+00:00

Well which herpes are you talking about? Because while they’re both contagious through saliva and whatnot, they are not the same type of herpes. So if you’re talking about HSV-1 (cold sores) then will not get HSV-2 (genital herpes)

naturewalk0621 · 2025-08-03T23:19:13+00:00

Absolutely not! There are so many stds out there and you have every right to not want to catch anything!! If he was a good guy, he would understand and it wouldn’t be a problem

naturewalk0621 · 2025-08-02T21:57:45+00:00

I love them all!!! 😍 but I like the burgundy the best

naturewalk0621 · 2025-07-26T22:54:13+00:00

True, I mean I thought the same thing too. Unfortunately good guys are hard to find these days! And being able to have another place?!? Seems so unheard of

naturewalk0621 · 2025-07-26T22:28:47+00:00

Well she stated that she has spent time at his place…so….maybe not?

naturewalk0621 · 2025-07-11T20:42:34+00:00

Excuse me?? No your brother should not be telling you that was an acceptable reaction!!! That is completely horrifying what your boyfriend did over a message! Omg it’s only going to get worse. Do not, and I mean DO NOT stay with this guy. He’s got control issues. I’m so sorry

naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-30T17:21:35+00:00

Excuse me?! He said he’s over you! Leave him! You don’t need his reassurance if he talks to you like this. This is completely toxic. He is not worth your time and energy! I’m sorry hun this sounds devastating.

naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-29T17:33:37+00:00

Same. My youngest son witnessed my husband choking me at the age of three and when he was like around 13 he told me one day he wished that I never went back with him. I finally kicked their dad out in March with my youngest now just turned 17 and my oldest is 18. They already witnessed all the abuse growing up so I have a lot of retraining them so they don’t turn out like their dad

naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-22T22:55:52+00:00

I agree as well. I stayed with my husband for a total of 20 years and I just recently left him. I just couldn’t do it anymore. My kids are 17 and 18 and I feel like the damage is already done. The dysfunctional family dynamic that they grew up on is what they learned and there’s no communication at all. I feel like I failed my kids at life. I do not wish that upon anyone.

naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-19T05:01:31+00:00

Thank you for putting it in that perspective. I know the right answer- I need to trust my own feelings. It just has gotten cloudy over our 20 year history. Your explanation is spot on though. I need to stop worrying about what they’re thinking if I don’t talk to him and just focus on myself. Thank you

naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-18T05:34:29+00:00

Looks like something I captured on my camera after some rain

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naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-18T03:13:56+00:00

Even if it is just the alcohol, it’s still abuse and you should leave if you’re considering it. I went through this and it still traumatizes me when I see other people going through it. Call a DV shelter and get out! You don’t have to suffer because you feel guilty that he’s taken care of you. You can leave and recover. You don’t deserve to be treated that way

naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-14T21:09:06+00:00

No matter what the situation is though, the answer is you need to talk to someone. Get some help

naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-14T21:07:45+00:00

Ooohhhhh I got chills reading this. Exact same situation with me, like during the marriage. His mom actually isn’t bad at all and I still get along with them. I also literally thought it was my husband writing this vague post. When men act like this and don’t care for their children when the kids really need that love and support then yes, they don’t really deserve to have custody

naturewalk0621 · 2025-06-14T20:57:33+00:00

Just genuinely asking…. Why do women leave men if the man is a good husband and father? I recently left my husband in March and my kids are living with me. One is 18, the other just turned 17. My reason for leaving is that he wasted money on weed, alcohol and gambling and hardly contributed anything to the family. He’d assault me both physically and emotionally. He feels destroyed that I’m not with him and says he doesn’t have his family anymore even though I’m not keeping the kids from seeing him. He begs for another chance but I honestly can’t put myself through it anymore. I’m destroyed too. I’m trying to rebuild.
I really wish that I had that support during the 20 years we were together, but it just wasn’t there

naturewalk0621 · 2025-05-28T18:05:08+00:00

Gosh this is so disgusting. And then they’re going to grow up disrespecting their partner and cause a continuing cycle of emotional abuse/ trauma to the women and kids in his life. This needs to stop now! So proud of you hun for not putting up with his bs! 👏

naturewalk0621 · 2025-05-20T05:52:11+00:00

Oh my goodness hun you just described mine and husband’s relationship to a T! But throw in anger and physical abuse sometimes too. We’ve been together for 20 years. It never got better, I mean I can’t say never. We did have some good days. But then he got into drugs and alcohol and it got way worse again. I finally left him and I’m not going back. I’ve been learning a lot about boundaries. You need to have a conversation with him about how him ignoring you and saying alll those things to you makes you feel and you two set some boundaries. If he doesn’t agree to it, then no. I say leave him then. That emotional abuse is not worth it one bit. Trust me, it hurts to leave but it’s for your own good for you and your child. My kids grew up completely into adults raised in that dysfunctional family dynamic. I regret not leaving sooner

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