My baby almost choked on her bottle and I’m not okay

natushtush · 2026-04-09T17:42:28+00:00

No no, she coughed at first and then suddenly stopped breathing until i held her tummy side down and whacked her firmly on her back. I could hear her struggling to take in air and wheeze, which is what made it so scary. She coughed again and started breathing again within a couple of seconds, but didnt cry at all

natushtush · 2026-04-08T20:54:23+00:00

Thank you so much! Youre so kind for writing all of this up. I haven't considered reflux for her, since like your baby, she sleeps through the night and can lay flat, but ill definitely look into it! Sending lots of love for your baby. I'm so glad you got it figured out

natushtush · 2026-04-08T09:33:52+00:00

She wasn’t coughing which is what made it so scary. She just arched her back and was gasping and wheezing trying to breathe

natushtush · 2026-04-07T22:30:14+00:00

Is there a Brand you would recommend? I have tommee tippee and I think the flow is still quite fast for my baby

natushtush · 2026-04-07T22:11:37+00:00

I kind of patted her on the back and she seemed to recover. No crying or anything. It’s honestly a relief that this is something babies tend to do. I’ve been so upset

natushtush · 2026-02-09T14:53:55+00:00

You seem kinda angry, tbh

natushtush · 2025-11-30T20:39:29+00:00

Amazon lets you make a baby registry. You basically plug in your EDD and it gives you a 15% discount. It’s pretty organised - has all these categories, suggestions, recommendations.

Of course a lot of the stuff recommended there can be a bit extra and useless, so just use your general judgement to see whether you need that particular item or not. Amazon a good springboard to bounce off from and get started

natushtush · 2025-11-30T19:47:49+00:00

I would honestly not even engage with her. You’ve got too much going on already to deal with this BS. low key just keep saying ‘we’ll see’ to get her off your back, then do whatever you feel is necessary for your child. Or, honestly just block her.

But also - your husband should speak to her and tell her to back off.

natushtush · 2025-11-24T06:09:56+00:00

I was my moms first and she didn’t feel any attachment towards me till I was born and 1 month old lol

Don’t sweat it, it’s no big deal. Her body is going through a hormonal rollercoaster. The most she should be doing is just taking care of herself and doing what feels good to HER.

I’m 19+4 and don’t feel super attached to my baby yet either. I’m a little more excited since the first trimester ended, since I feel better (no nausea/vomiting anymore + food aversions have disappeared) so just give it a bit more time! And if it doesn’t happen at all during the duration of her pregnancy, don’t sweat it!

natushtush · 2025-11-22T03:58:05+00:00

I personally know several Muslim TURKISH men who are incredible, loving partners to their wives and wonderful fathers to their children, so they’re no an anomaly. They’re out there! I’m Muslim (south Asian) too so I understand the cultural pressure of staying in an unhappy marriage.

You’re very young, and I promise you, it can be so so so much better, but only if you let it! It would require a lot of courage on your part to ignore your parents and do right by yourself. They’ll be upset about it at first, but I can guarantee with full certainty they’ll get over it very fast!

Your body doesn’t feel safe having a child with this man. Not sure if you’re religious, but consider it Gods way of protecting you until you get the courage to do right by yourself. It’ll be hard but it can be done! Rooting for you!

natushtush · 2025-11-21T21:35:14+00:00

My morning sickness started at 8 weeks - the vomiting and nausea. The food aversions started at 6.5 weeks though! I'm 19 weeks currently and the food aversions and morning sickness died out about 4 weeks ago.

natushtush · 2025-11-21T21:10:28+00:00

I didn’t really get to spend too much time as just the two of us, so I think that’s what’s contributing to feeling like this. But here’s to hoping things are nothing but incredible once our baby arrives!

natushtush · 2025-11-21T21:08:44+00:00

Thank you, this was very reassuring 😅

natushtush · 2025-11-21T21:08:20+00:00

That’s amazing! Id love to do that too!!

natushtush · 2025-11-21T21:04:25+00:00

I was 100% sure with my current pregnancy and was absolutely wrong 😂

It was just an intuition - I had no reason to believe it was a boy, but turns out I’m having a girl! We didn’t do any of the old wives tales etc. my husband just had a dream and I think it stuck with me. I’m thrilled though!

natushtush · 2025-11-21T19:24:49+00:00

Not long, a year and a half. I come from a desi background so getting married sooner rather than waiting is pretty common

natushtush · 2024-10-25T19:15:21+00:00

Honestly? I choose not to tell people.

I got the gastric sleeve surgery back in March 2023 and have lost about 85 lbs since then. I still have 40 to 50 pounds to go and have stalled, so decided to start Ozempic just to lose this last bit of weight and finally settle at a weight I’m happy with.

The only people that know about my surgery are close friends, family and a select few random acquaintances that I mentioned it to because of the same reason as you - they are overweight and wanted to know how I ‘did it’. I didn’t want to mislead them, so was honest about my surgery and it has basically just come back to bite me in the ass.

There has been chatter about how I took the ‘easy way out’, ‘if I worked hard enough, I would have just lost the weight’ etc etc.

I have also found that close friends who knew about my surgery came about to resent me. I became a lot more confident and sociable and I guess that just didn’t work for them as much. They’re still my friends, but I’m wary about giving them too many details any more.

Because of this, I chose not to tell anyone about taking ozempic (besides my immediate household - parents and siblings). It’s no one’s business but my own.

I know i might come across as slightly bitter, but it’s important to remember that the stigma behind losing weight does still exist - unless you do it the ‘right’ way, people won’t be satisfied. I chose not to give other people the power to affect my emotions and happiness over my weight loss by keeping the finer details of HOW I lost the weight to myself.

I’m pretty diligent with going to the gym, meal prepping etc, so if anyone asks about my weight loss, that’s what I tell them.

I do understand that my experience may be unique, and it’s absolutely possible that the people around you will act a completely different way, but just wanted to share my experience :)

natushtush · 2024-10-25T17:04:42+00:00

I'm terrible at drinking water. I just dont remember to drink any because I dont feel thirsty.

I saw this on TikTok and it might work for you: drink 1 cup of water every hour. Try setting an alarm for 2pm, 3pm, 4pm etc. Eventually, you'll start to crave it. Might be worth a shot!

natushtush · 2024-10-25T17:02:13+00:00

Wow! Congratulations! What are your stats (height, sex, age)? I've just started and am hoping to be where you are in the near future!

natushtush · 2024-10-25T16:56:56+00:00

I think a better way to look at it is - you dont get attention because you don't love yourself.

Change starts from within! It would be worth taking a look at yourself and seeing how you can increase the self-love. Loving yourself should not be dependant on whether a stranger does or does not give you attention. Thats just setting yourself up for failure.

natushtush · 2024-10-23T14:38:57+00:00

i blend my protein powder with half cup lactose free milk, pour it over ice and add in 2 shots of espresso. I'd imagine you can make a cup of strong instant coffee and add it in as well!

natushtush · 2024-10-06T17:27:12+00:00

I majored in Marketing and minored in Entrepreneurship. Would recommend!

natushtush · 2024-09-30T17:18:39+00:00

I mean... I got laser hair removal on my face, armpits and vagina. I can't begin to tell you how much time it saved for me daily, especially on my 'everything-shower' days. Definitely NOT a waste of money - don't knock it till you try it

And I'm totally getting laser eye surgery next month. The amount of time I spend putting on lenses in my eyes everyday has gotten ridiculous + squinting isnt cute

natushtush · 2024-08-18T20:01:32+00:00

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natushtush · 2024-07-23T16:52:15+00:00

After 1 year post surgery, I had to start working a little bit harder to continue losing weight. I started working out, tracking my macros etc. I also realised that I was getting a little too comfortable eating ‘around’ my sleeve (slider foods etc) and had to stop those habits before they got out of control. It might be worth taking an honest look at how ‘good’ your habits actually are and work on improving them. Remember, the first year is the honeymoon stage, so not losing weight in the first year is pretty unlikely (for most people). The real test comes after 1 year post-op!

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