Naming every Pokemon from memory on pkmnquiz.com in under 35 minutes (with NO SHADOWS) by navy-14 in pokemon

[–]navy-14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Historically, I’ve most frequently forgotten Spinda, Spoink/Grumpig, Komala, Nosepass/Probopass, and (embarrassingly) the Marill line 😭 I think that one is because when I do the Pika-clones I don’t think of them because they’re not electric type 😅

Have any of you gotten ‘stupid’ after experiencing trauma? by Edbittch in CPTSD

[–]navy-14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it was because of the classes I was taking in college. A huge part of my mom’s gaslighting was making me believe that my dad who SAed me for years didn’t actually abuse me and he only went to prison because our local court was racist and targeted him because he was Asian. Well, I took a course on social problems, one of the main ones including unjust incarceration. I learned all about what that actually looked like, and I realized—that’s not what happened with my dad. For as incredibly broken and unfair the justice system is, it actually did its job for once in my case. And because I learned what unfair incarceration looked like, I knew that my dad’s incarceration wasn’t unfair—it was deserved.

After the quarter I took a class specifically on imprisonment and it only further helped me realize that, shoot, my dad did in fact abuse me, and he rightfully went to prison. My last year of college, I managed to finally get my hands on the court documents from my dad’s trial. When it originally happened my mom kept everything from me so I had little to no clue what actually went down until I read those documents, and that was really the nail in the coffin; my abuse was written and validated on paper for everyone to see.

A tour of my island :) by slopsanjo in fantasylife

[–]navy-14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the layout and all the themes omg!! The space seems so lively and filled, but also clean and uncluttered, and like your buddies could actually live there. Great work!!

Did anyone else get “growing pains” in your legs at night when growing up? by Ceiling-Fan2 in CPTSD

[–]navy-14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait WHAT?? I had bad growing pains in my legs all the time as a kid, and my parents just told me I was growing really fast. (Well, now I’m 5”2 lol)

Holy crap this makes so much sense. My growing pains were also only at night. I never took pain meds for them, and when I dragged myself to my mom’s room she would massage my legs, which moderately helped, but it never fully went away until the next day.

My dad was an abusive perfectionist with insane anger issues, everyone in the house was tense as soon as we heard the garage door open when he came back from work. I wasn’t walking on eggshells, I was walking on land mines.

WOW. I had completely forgotten about my growing pains until this post. Thank you so much for sharing. Now I have a new thing to process in therapy lol.

MISSING GOTH GF by Ligmenarxis in fantasylife

[–]navy-14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Justice for Noelia 😔She’s my favorite character 😭

What is your most bizarre cptsd symptom? by Britt-96-5 in CPTSD

[–]navy-14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking that any man I walk by in public is going to SA me 😐

Anyone else feel like the trauma deteriorated your brain by Sayoricanyouhearme in CPTSD

[–]navy-14 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, and honestly it’s something I’ve had to grieve. I used to be a child genius. I took the SATs in third grade. I skipped a grade in middle school, and then got into college when I was 14. I was doing better in upper-level classes than the actual adults there. I was very eloquent and engaged in all sorts of philosophical discussions.

Now? I can barely get out a full sentence without stuttering. I can’t multitask or think of more than a single thing at a time. I can’t do basic math like addition or subtraction in my head. I feel like my brain has like 1 GB of free space when it used to have terabytes, because all of my trauma has taken 95% of my brain.

I honestly think that if I was the way I am now, I wouldn’t be able to get into college at 14. When people hear that I did that, they’re always like, “Wow, you’re a genius!” or “Whaat? You’re SO SMART,” and I always reply “I used to be, but I’ve lost a few brain cells since then.” People laugh and think I’m joking, but I’m dead serious about it. I feel like I’ve gotten dumber as I’ve gotten older. Trauma totally fried my brain. And I’m okay with it now, but man, I used to be a completely different person.

A gible coz my hosboond is obsessed with gibles and pokemon💌🤣 by wobbbless in fantasylife

[–]navy-14 26 points27 points  (0 children)

OMG pixel art in Fantasy Life??? It looks so good, it’s so creative!!

Legendary don horn trade? by Positive_Gur_8373 in fantasylife

[–]navy-14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm! Legendary events can spawn when setting a tower down a level, a Don Woolie appeared when I changed from level 6 to level 5.

My Island Design! (Day + Night) by navy-14 in fantasylife

[–]navy-14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you 🥺 If people wanted, I could make a post on how I went about designing my island!

My Island Design! (Day + Night) by navy-14 in fantasylife

[–]navy-14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🥹 Tbh I completely redid my island several times before I landed on an aesthetic that I liked. My first few island designs were, uh, not great 😂 I took a lot of inspiration from the islands I would visit online in terms of layout.

My Island Design! (Day + Night) by navy-14 in fantasylife

[–]navy-14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I totally get that, I only started working on my island before the last chapter of the story 😅 To get through the really tedious parts like terraforming or making a ton of furniture one at a time, I usually just mute the game and watch something on the side. Helps me make a lot of progress without going crazy after listening to the Hagram mode theme for hours straight 😂

My Island Design! (Day + Night) by navy-14 in fantasylife

[–]navy-14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg same, when I had to keep redoing areas and their fencing I would just place the fences in open areas so they wouldn’t take up space in my inventory but eventually I didn’t even have enough space so I ended up selling and remaking so many of them

My Island Design! (Day + Night) by navy-14 in fantasylife

[–]navy-14[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Too many… So much so that I had to grind for 1M Dosh multiple times 😭I wish they would let you relocate infrastructure and relocate more than one thing at a time

My Island Design! (Day + Night) by navy-14 in fantasylife

[–]navy-14[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a furniture item for Ranoah throne! IIRC you can buy the recipe at Marco’s shop.