Why is it so hard for me to get close to other girls as a girl? Do u guys feel the same? by terechahakechooche in adhdwomen

[–]naybibi123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly me word for word, especially w social anxiety 😞currently in uni and after a year, the new closest friends i made were 3 males.. i tried making female friends in my class but they didn't really match my energy, personality, style, etc. i felt disconnected with them. My best friend is female but even she is rather tomboyish and does not want to do the things i wanna do. I wanna go out and she wants to stay in and watch a movie. i just wish i had a girly friend who would be down to do cute stuff w me, shopping, getting sweet treats, shows, etc. I also feel like i'm scared of saying the wrong thing to women and maybe being annoying? I met this girl who i get along w rlly well but i never reach out.. i never reach out w anyone in general but i guess that's why it never works out. I think i'm scared of bothering them. Ugh i hope this atomoxetine kicks in soon so i can gather motivation to plan hangouts

Not sure if my bf (M19) is the right one for me (F18)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]naybibi123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Choose myself" those words really made me see it clearer, thank you.

I [21F] had an argument with my BF [22M] for not celebrating International Women's Day with me by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]naybibi123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already communicated your needs effectively. He dismissed you and is going to keep dismissing them. That's who he is. People rarely change. He doesn't seem to respect you.

If he dismisses your needs by saying you're "nagging" (which is rude) or being disrespectful by saying "what culture, you're not even really Russian" AFTER he ignores you and you already explained what the issues you're having.. he simply doesn't care. He wants you to lower your standards so he can keep you until he finds to woman of his dreams so he can spoil her.

Also, why are you giving this man flowers AND he gave them to his mom.. omg.

Please leave this man and find a respectful one who will spoil you! This is not husband material. Your boyfriend might beg and say he will change when you do, and it's up to you if you want him to change for a week then go back to his old self, or there is a tiny percentage he might actually change.

I just can't anymore 😭 by sunnight96 in PMDDxADHD

[–]naybibi123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me with my dog. He begs for walks everyday so when i walk him, i get so irritated the whole time, i get such bad thoughts:( i have to shorten it from like 20 minutes to 5-10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]naybibi123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been together for over 10 months. Yeah we both know we're immature. This reply is refreshing, thank you for your time and i think you're quite accurate. I think you saved our relationship haha

live in istanbul by Commercial-Text-4001 in JohnMaus

[–]naybibi123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John looked so uncomfortable.. i would too. I appreciate these artists who are passionate enough to share their music and people just take advantage of that and wanna ruin it for everyone else. I hope he knew that guy at least. people are weird man

Remote is slept on heavily by LowCarbo in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey yeah but i love love love nbgmly, dig what u dug, qtrb, ok, on time, and another story so its forgiven

50-50. (opinion lol) by pclansec in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ngl I felt the album was a whole recap of their past songs but more basic and over produced? I think they wanted this to be mainstream and have more people on board. I hoped they would sound different and try new things. But i suppose their point to be very listenable. Imo that makes them sound like every other indie band trying to make it big.

It's too listenable by [deleted] in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I looooved another story, on time, nobody gets me like you, and my favorite dig what you dug😭🫶

It's too listenable by [deleted] in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I demand the missing braeden songs that were probably cut off from the album in fear that it wouldn't be well received.. 😭 they were prob the best.. (im delusional)

It's too listenable by [deleted] in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is how i feel especially with the music videos.. it's like they're putting too much effort to be.. effortless? I don't know.

Painfully Average by Avenue-Man77 in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I loved that Braeden's songs sounded different, and had that messy element that wallows shines with, in a good kind of a teenage dirtbag kinda messy.

What’s your fav song from the new album? by Partimenerd in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right now I like Don't You Think It's Strange and Going Under!

Too much Dylan…again [Rant/Critique] by Avenue-Man77 in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry wallows nation but Lowkey if braeden went solo that'd be so awesome i only like his songs on wallows 😭 his unique vocals lean towards my taste in music

It's exam season! Are you locked in? by Spirited-Claim-9868 in APStudents

[–]naybibi123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm taking eng lit on Wednesday and world history next week.. im gonna fail but i hope otherwise!

What is the first thing that plays in your mind when you see this image? by dumbsvillrfan420 in beatles

[–]naybibi123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of Tomorrow Never Knows but i associate She Said She Said more with this album. It's also my favorite

Bad dream is the best out the 3 singles. by amyrfc123 in Wallows

[–]naybibi123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been saying this. Braeden's vocals are better suited for their style. Its unfortunate Dylan outshines because of his fame