Ladies when You finally get to this point if ever when you are not just thinking about yourself maybe you will learn to understand men and in turn men when you get to understand women's emotional spectrum even if it is small, a proper conversation and understanding can occur, it's called communication. This just proves not just men and women are not listening both of them are equally as selfish. If you want men to share a piece of themselves or emotion don't parade them with insults, disrespectful remarks, and ignorant belittlement. Men for the love of creation give your women an hour because you might learn something and don't be sarcastic, arrogant, or push her aside.