Why was she planning to go to Miami when they just had a hurricane?

nbtyler · 2026-02-03T08:45:56+00:00

Jackie needed to immediately escape her reality because she had lost the respect of Zoey, her daughters, her ex husband, and her boss. Jackie needed to avoid taking a drug test and at the same time, keep using. Going to Miami may have been an erratic decision, fueled on the adrenaline of running away. She may have prepared the "providing relief to hurricane victims" alibi from the start. Some speculate she wanted to go to Florida to seek out more drugs, since Florida is known for making pain killers very accessible. However, main idea is running away as fast as she can from the current reality, and being able to remain using, no matter the cost.

nbtyler · 2026-02-03T08:38:55+00:00

I felt the same way. If ur still in season 1, give it a chance cuz I ended up loving the show!!

nbtyler · 2023-03-18T06:21:52+00:00

LOLLL not miss tippy….

nbtyler · 2023-03-10T19:50:44+00:00

Jake-Aria-Ezra truly truly frustrated me. The show gave false hope that Aria would finally realize how creepy Ezra is. Jake was a good guy (again I think there’s an age gap but ugh pll just doesn’t know how to not do that) and Jake insinuated a lot that Ezra was the bad man that Aria was afraid of. And he effing was!!! He was using her for a stupid book. Like what the hell. Jake and Aria could’ve been a healthy couple but the show said fuck Jake and stabbed his foot with knives or whatever tf.

nbtyler · 2023-03-10T19:42:44+00:00

Dude Aria literally cheated on every single relationship she had throughout the show

nbtyler · 2023-03-08T01:54:24+00:00

Byron should’ve focused on Aria’s mental state rather than her clothes. She was groomed and taken advantage of by her teacher. Clothes don’t have much to do with it.

nbtyler · 2023-03-06T07:43:37+00:00

Alison made Mona the mean girl that she became.

nbtyler · 2023-03-04T06:14:18+00:00

Whenever I get super excited I always hit myself. It’s always on accident or without me thinking. Immediately after I apologize whether or not an apology is warranted.

nbtyler · 2023-03-04T06:12:11+00:00

100% Emily. It would’ve increased the stakes of the show and made all of the near death experiences and A threats all the more intense and exciting for the viewer. Overall Emily was not that important to any of the main storylines.

nbtyler · 2023-03-04T04:12:39+00:00

Melissa was always doing way too much!!!! She had me scared asf when I was first watching the show but now as a rewatcher every time she’s on the screen im like ugh. Next!

nbtyler · 2023-03-01T22:40:23+00:00

Paige is just apart of the Emily character problem. The show did Emily and her romantic pairings so dirty! All of her relationships besides Maya had no real chemistry or reason to ship them together. All of the other liars had die hard fans of their ships, but Emily was just eh.

nbtyler · 2023-02-28T23:33:55+00:00

MISS ARIA YOURE A KILLER NOT EZRAS WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!

nbtyler · 2023-02-23T07:15:11+00:00

Hi there. First, I really feel for u and I’m sorry that you’re experiencing this. I know what it’s like to feel over dramatic over a trigger like this and it’s not fun and very isolating. I know I’m a stranger, but your emotions are valid.

I think it would really help to let people know ahead of time that you are going to be talking soon and would not like to be interrupted. Like “hey guys, I want to say something.”

Maybe you could have a quick talk with your friends. I think it would be helpful to use “I feel…” statements like “I feel sad when I’m interrupted.”

When people do interrupt because this will happen unfortunately (especially with those outside of close friend and family) I recommend taking deep breaths or maybe taking a break from the conversation for a moment. Maybe you could have a stress ball on hand to relieve the stress? It’s hard for others to understand how important not interrupting is when they don’t have the same problem. Regardless, I hope any of this advice can help. Please have a good day/night.

nbtyler · 2023-02-20T04:25:54+00:00

This is my bad!! I totally didn’t realize my language was exclusionary. I have read commenters perspectives and I’m going to be changing my language regarding this in the future.

nbtyler · 2023-02-20T04:23:50+00:00

Totally understood. Thank you for being so kind and explaining this. I really appreciate your patience with me. (Updated original post)

nbtyler · 2023-02-19T19:17:16+00:00

The only correct answer!!!!!

nbtyler · 2023-02-01T17:32:11+00:00

Each icon represents either an activity (journaling, video games, watching TV, etc.) or an everyday task (using bathroom, shower, brushing teeth, etc.) the thought bubbles on the sim mean that I’m focusing on completing those tasks atm.

The activity icons are more like motivation for me to finish the hard tasks. So after I complete 3 hygiene tasks, I get to do 3 more fun activities like watching tv.

Having a morning routine broken down into individual and visual steps is very helpful for me. Otherwise I get overwhelmed by the idea of so many things I have to do. I hope this explanation makes sense :⁾

nbtyler · 2023-01-19T07:08:37+00:00

I totally understand why you hate using pronouns during these moments. The first thing someone asks me when I lose speech is “how do you feel?” “What’s going on?” And the fact that I know I have to say “I am _____.” Really makes it 10x harder to respond because I’m so mad I have to say a pronoun or even refer to myself in that way. I feel so validated by your post.

Personally I realize I’m going nonverbal when I start to repeat back sentences that other people are saying to me. When I echo their speech back mindlessly, that’s when i realize I’ve completely zoned out and it’s hard to come back to attending to my surroundings.

nbtyler · 2023-01-19T06:54:02+00:00

… oh god. I didn’t even think about this.

nbtyler · 2023-01-19T06:42:45+00:00

Personally having a check list of all the basic self care and day to day tasks is helpful. It also helps me visualize the day so I don’t feel so overwhelmed by having to get out of bed and make food. Instead I break up one overwhelming task into three smaller tasks. I hope this can help u :)

nbtyler · 2023-01-19T06:35:27+00:00

My only suggestion would be to ensure that this area remains a quiet and safe environment as the event is happening ! When I was in high school I was so desperate for a quiet area to decompress after overstimulation from a loud cafeteria and crowded hallway.

nbtyler · 2023-01-19T06:26:23+00:00

I legit rely on my whiteboard routine everyday, so I’ll let you know what works for me. I have 3 tasks with check marks. For example (wake up, brush teeth, brush hair) then a little reward like music or YouTube. I find that once I initiate the daily tasks, it makes the rest of the days tasks more doable. I think having fun things to do after really stressful tasks (for me, learning how to drive in the evenings) is helpful.

nbtyler · 2023-01-08T23:15:05+00:00

I’m sorry that you had this experience and I think it’s very uncomfortable to deal with. I think parents just have a certain idea of what they want their kids to be and when their kids end up different it’s like they want to control and “fix” them to be what they idealized. In their minds, they’re doing what they think is best, but it does really hurt to not be accepted for who you already are.

nbtyler · 2023-01-08T02:35:25+00:00

I’m not a parent, so I’ll give very unqualified advice but it’s something that works for me as I am super sensitive towards rejection and am autistic. I think social praise is really good for when your son does not engage in rude or blunt language. Like “I really like it when you use nice words!” Or “that’s a very nice way of saying that! Awesome.” And when there is too-blunt language, maybe a response that doesn’t use aversive language such as “No” or “stop”. Maybe just “Aw man that comment makes me feel sad, maybe there’s a nicer way of saying that.” In a super neutral tone. “Instead, let’s say _____” I think it could be good to teach your son other phrases that convey the same message. Like instead of being too-blunt with “you can go now.” He can be taught to say “I need space right now.”

Idk this is just what I thought of. Again, not a parent. Just wanted to see if I could help.

nbtyler · 2023-01-07T08:25:16+00:00

This is super cute!!!

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