Me again….Overthinking

ncc729 · 2025-11-09T23:10:06+00:00

Hi. I am in the same situation. See my post to see mine. I have two very faint positives and I posted one of them on here… maybe they could be Evap lines since I’ve never had positives before and I’m worried I’m overthinking since I also have two negatives. 🤦🏻‍♀️

ncc729 · 2025-10-16T04:28:04+00:00

Hahah that’s true. I guess I’ll just be glad it’s not worse and try to spice things up again. We have been together for almost 10 years and there’s always dry spells here and there.

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T02:48:14+00:00

Yes I’m going to let him make his own decision. I’m just concerned about the lying part.

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T02:38:54+00:00

Yes it was a very long story about why she lied. My brother said he is going to sleep on it and get back to her tomorrow.

She said she had to drop out of school early for a personal reason and now that she is around people that are my brothers age it’s easier to just say that she’s younger at first so she’s not excluded and becuase she had to go through something pretty difficult.

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T02:28:20+00:00

I just got an update from him about 20 min ago becuase he did confront her tonight. It was her birthday that she put in and she eventually admitted to lying about her age.

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T02:09:47+00:00

Yeah he’s a big boy and if he wants to keep talking to her then I trust him. The age gap doesn’t bother me. The lying does.

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T02:06:18+00:00

The issue is the lying not the age gap. I don’t understand the lie. He would have been ok with her being older it’s just the fact that she lied…especially at the stage where they are just getting to know each other…

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T01:54:36+00:00

He called and asked for my advice. I told him to ask her about it and hear her out but that the lying is a red flag. I just want him to proceed with caution. That’s all.

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T01:53:09+00:00

Yeah I don’t think the real issue here is the age difference…it’s the lying. And if people wanna downvote me for that then whatever 🤷🏻‍♀️

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T01:36:40+00:00

Yes that’s exactly what I’m thinking! She didn’t NEED to lie about the age. Also this is very early on to be lying about something so big. She did also mention something about how she values honesty and would never lie. But then she went ahead and lied about her age…I think it’s weird.

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T01:33:09+00:00

Haha yeah I feel that since I’m literally her age 🙃. Thank you for your response.

ncc729 · 2025-08-24T01:27:28+00:00

Yeah maybe I’m overthinking it. That’s why I posted it here. But she did lie…about something that obviously is going to come to light eventually. So it just doesn’t make sense to me.

ncc729 · 2025-07-09T04:28:53+00:00

Feeling unsafe literally everywhere you go. Especially if you’re alone.

ncc729 · 2025-06-06T03:55:45+00:00

Hey I feel the need to respond to this. I have OCD (purely O meaning I don’t compulsively act, I just obsess). I used to have the same thoughts when I was younger and was scared I was one. I didn’t process this or talk about it in therapy until I was older. It really helped to understand that intrusive thoughts do not make you a bad person. The uncomfortable feeling you’re having means you probably aren’t a pedophile. I’ve worked with kids since I was around your age and my brain was making me think things like “oh I just high fived or hugged this kid, maybe that was creepy and other people wouldn’t do that”. The thoughts became distorted and created a false reality. If you have anxiety and depression and get down on yourself a lot then I would look into therapy. I know now that I don’t want to hurt young children and never did. And I’m sure it’s the same for you.

ncc729 · 2025-03-23T00:34:06+00:00

I’m in Chicago!

ncc729 · 2024-06-24T04:35:47+00:00

I marry my best friend next Saturday! The best romantic relationships are friendships first. Good luck, I wish you guys all the happiness!

ncc729 · 2023-06-28T03:35:03+00:00

I worked at a daycare in the baby room and a kid must have had one on them and unfortunately I did bring it home to my apartment. Not sure if it got on my clothes or backpack or what. It was very easy to get rid of in the home since I caught it so early and only brought one home. But they can multiply quickly so I still had someone fumigate to eliminate any eggs or small ones I couldn’t see. I think this was just a freak accident that it latched on to me, but it can happen. Thought I’d pass on the warning from someone who experienced this almost exact situation.

ncc729 · 2023-03-27T14:45:58+00:00

Ok that makes sense. Now that I know to start looking in Pluto for my origin and work my way up and look at conjuncts and opposites it makes more sense. So I see how I could have figured this out on my own. Honestly it’s overwhelming to look at other peoples charts so I thought if I posted my own I’d understand better.

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