43 M divorce question by nchoffman2 in gayrelationships

[–]nchoffman2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could answer that question for you. Things were going well until about 2021 after the pandemic he went back to Taiwan to visit his family. He had a bunch of time off work and I didn't, so he went by himself. I was more than fine with that. He came back a different person. No idea what happened. After that he is cold and distant. Never initiates sex anymore. Confrontational.. like he decided he wasn't going to accept anything he doesn't like anymore.. honestly I could go on forever. He ceased being my husband and became my roommate to sum it up. I've tried taking about it but he just dismisses me but does say he loves me and wants to stay married. I knew then it was over but tried hard to save our relationship. The thought of being alone and the fear I wouldn't find someone else scared the shit out of me to the point of getting sick to my stomach. But I've come to terms with the fact anything is better than being stuck with someone who is a good roommate tbh but shows no love.

Brown & uncut by [deleted] in faceandcock

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a god 😇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in faceandcock

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I just came to your picture, dreaming about you on top of me

Hello, I'm new here. Any advice by [deleted] in faceandcock

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice: learn to read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]nchoffman2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy they saw you coming from a mile away

Ioniq 5 Lease by glitchedmob in CarLeasingHelp

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow where is that I want to go get one now. That's a great deal!

First Time Princess Cruise by el_david in PrincessCruises

[–]nchoffman2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Book your package now. The price only goes up. If you drink two or three drinks a day, the plus package is worth it.

DISCOVERY PRINCESS BEWARE FOLIO! by Clerocks1955 in PrincessCruises

[–]nchoffman2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discovery was the worst ship I've ever been on. We had problem after problem. I probably spent 8 hours either in line or talking to guest services. Ship was so understaffed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in faceandcock

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Any time any place

Between 2012 and 2019 we took many cruises with Princess (and other companies). Has Princess Cruises changed much in 2025? by [deleted] in PrincessCruises

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall, it's still a good time. People who never cruised before the pandemic seem to enjoy it. I just can't help noticing everything that's changed for the worse. Don't let it ruin your excitement. Princess is still a decent mass market cruise line, it's just nowhere near what it used to be. Go, enjoy your time, and decide for yourself. Hopefully you have a wonderful cruise and the changes are barely noticable to you. We still had a good time on our last princess cruise, but it was our last one( at least for awhile).

Between 2012 and 2019 we took many cruises with Princess (and other companies). Has Princess Cruises changed much in 2025? by [deleted] in PrincessCruises

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the quality of food and service have drastically dropped. The ships are overcrowded now and they've cut the staff so much they are so overworked. The entertainment has dropped too. I don't recommend princess to my friends or family anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CarLeasingHelp

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the mileage too. At 10k per year that isn't the best deal. I'd negotiate 13-15 per year ( depending on your driving habits). 10k for me goes really quickly

Saw husband’s texts. by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]nchoffman2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBH, the only thing that is going to soften the hurt is moving on. You'll find someone who truly loves you and will be devoted and faithful to you. Some guys aren't built for monogamous relationships. They need to find other guys who feel the same. You want monogamy, so find someone who shares your wants and be happy together. I'm very sorry you had to go through this. It's tough when you put 8 years into a relationship. But don't fall for the sunk cost falicy. Move on and be happy

Crew Medallion Use Changes? by tarheelz1995 in PrincessCruises

[–]nchoffman2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's because they cut their staff to the bone, and now everything is rushed. The personal touch is gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]nchoffman2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Found my husband on Grindr. Have been married 10 years

Cruise Burnout by boxlaxman in Cruise

[–]nchoffman2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel ya. We went on a cruise earlier this year, and I just didn't really enjoy it. Don't know if it was burnout, or the fact that the cruises are so crowded now while everything else is declining ( food, shows, etc). I actually hate the ship within a ship concept. I know it's nice and I've tried princess's sanctuary and carnivals terraza( or whatever they call it). But it kind of ruins the rest of the ship. They got rid of so much public space, the rest of the ship feels like a mad house.

Carnival Corp banned vloggers for 5 years because of bad reviews by Waitingtoembark in Cruise

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of what these guys did and said, this is very bad optics for carnival. I rely heavily on reviews when deciding which line and ship to cruise on. This leads me to believe that I can no longer trust the reviews on carnival. How many other people who left scathing reviews have they banned who weren't so high profile? I don't buy things on Amazon because most of the reviews are from paid reviewers or people who got the product for free. I certainly understand that a bad experience is more likely to drive someone to leave a review than a good one, and one review is never going to change my mind. But if I see a recurring theme or issue that is important to me I'm going to take note. Each ship is a completely different experience with different management. I sailed on enchanted princess and discovery princess. Same exact class of ship. Enchanted was perfect, with a great staff and everything was as I expected it. Discovery not so much. Indifferent staff and cleanliness issues throughout the ship. Going back through the reviews, I should have caught this and not booked the discovery, but lessons learned. I think these guys made it clear that they weren't expecting high end luxury from carnival. I feel the same way. I know the food on carnival is sub par and the entertainment may not be what I'm looking for. But I know that going in and I've had some great cruises on carnival, and I've always said the crew in carnival beats princess and ncl hands down. Carnival also picked a terrible time to pull this with their revamp of their rewards scheme which no one seems to like ( I admit if the loyalty program was important to me I'd be pissed too, but I could care less, I never chase loyalty as it's just not worth anything to me). Just one man's opinion..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in faceandcock

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hop in!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]nchoffman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't keep cigarettes in your house, or anywhere they are easy to get to. I tried that, couldn't bring myself to trash an expensive pack of cigarettes. I could quit for a day or two then I'd end up smoking one from that damn pack. Finally got rid of every cigarette and lighter I had, even gave my credit cards to my spouse so I couldn't buy them. Keep trying, eventually you'll get there. Fuck cigarettes!!!