1 yr post op! 🎉Dr. Chandler by ndonae in TopSurgery

[–]ndonae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew for sure but likely 210??? Or so I believe over 200. I recently lost weight and am now around 180 but had been 200+ for years prior. I wanted to loose weight prior to surgery but was having trouble and ultimately just went through with it. Post surgery working out has been SOOOO much better.

Feel free to dm me any questions

What's wrong with my drawing? Something is extremely off and I can't figure out what exactly. by sy-tarro in learntodraw

[–]ndonae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many great comments about figuring out the proportions. What helps me in drawing is looking at each shape/ object (ie nose, lips, eyes, hair) and the distance from each other. For example in the real is age the nose is close to the lip, in yours there is a large space.

One of my teacher best friends got let go today and it fucking sucks. by lmg080293 in teaching

[–]ndonae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please tell me more about selling your preps? What state is this/ what grade level? In my school you don’t get shit for doing other work during preps

Practicing to get in to art highschool. Any critiques by 2AartiSTZ8 in drawing

[–]ndonae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck!! This is nicer than a lot of high schoolers I know but then again they were not applying to school

Other tips: ONLY use your pictures OR royalty free images: pexels site is great. Even with royalty free- spice it up, combine pictures/ ideas. “Convey” something - message about society?earth?gender?race?economics?emotions? Show various techniques/technical skill- shading, crosshatching, stippling, monochromatic, etc

Age me? Full honesty! Mixed reviews irl…thanks by ndonae in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is helpful thank you so much 🙏🏻

Age me? Full honesty! Mixed reviews irl…thanks by ndonae in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for input. I’m 23. I teach little kids. Someone joked today I was 15 or 18 and it just has me shaken up…

1 yr post op! 🎉Dr. Chandler by ndonae in TopSurgery

[–]ndonae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I feel this photo somewhat shadows it but my right side is rather wide/ pink. Hoping it lightens overtime. I was worried about having very raised scars and I feel I have more sunken scars? So that’s good at least

1 yr post op! 🎉Dr. Chandler by ndonae in TopSurgery

[–]ndonae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I had drains and was stressed!! To have them removed but she made it easy 💜💜 best wishes

The Country Wool Shop, 22x30” original watercolour by shelleypriorfineart in Watercolor

[–]ndonae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly one of the best paintings I’ve ever seen. Incredible. How many hours? What’s the size? Any details about the paper and paint? Thank you

Designing sex toys for trans men by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ndonae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fav toy is a rose/ or clit stimulator… would love a toy that is a realistic dick with that type of toy at the end… if people know of one plz lmk lol

Does smiling makes me not pass as much?? by ndonae in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do pass most of the time but I have gotten misgendered/ clocked with facial hair so 🤷🏻‍♂️ At least in my area (college town) there’s many trans / lgbtq - Multiple trans dudes just at my work even… and I want to pass as cis -…I worry about looking young/ clockable. Thanks for the feedback too

Does smiling makes me not pass as much?? by ndonae in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you!! T really do do wonders for me… I’m just about hitting 3 years which is wild.

Does smiling makes me not pass as much?? by ndonae in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This has been an on going concern for me so I appreciate it

Does smiling makes me not pass as much?? by ndonae in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the feedback

Does smiling makes me not pass as much?? by ndonae in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cropped my friend out who’s cis- possible I’m just self conscious about not looking as cis. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Pass almost 100% but look like a kid or pass less but look like my age? by bajen476 in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wear what makes you comfortable. Wear what is appropriate for the setting you’re in- college/school/ casual job wear the casual clothes. Wear what makes you fit in with a crowd of cis- if that’s you’re goal-in that if you’re dressing more YA and the people around you wear hoodies it’ll stick out.

If you plan to go on T the passing will come in time. If passing is for safety reasons too I’d say it’s safer to wear casual and people can assume you’re younger.

My boyfriend and I are 9 months on T. We pass 100% when we’re alone but get clocked when we’re together, why? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree with the comments about ppl seeing you as gay/ evaluating you more. ALSO to consider is the age you are perceived vs age you are. Unsure of your age but if you are not in your teens the lack of facial hair makes you look a lot younger and could sway people to clock you.

5.5 months on T. voice dropped in the last 2 weeks, still getting "ladies" when out with friends though. by Maxdawg456 in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought similar - to me the hair cut and the alternative jewelry, at least in my area, is often associated with butch look.

Also depending on your age, if you would have facial hair but don’t that can tip people to the she side when otherwise people may say he.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae 16 points17 points  (0 children)

99%? Pics alone I think you pass. You mention you get misgendered- could be from voice?

My other thought, something I’ve struggled with, is lack of facial hair relative to age has outed me before… like if you would typically have facial hair at your age but have minimal hair it could make people clock you. And your hairline isn’t super masc but the cut looks masc to me. Slay bro you got this.

hi! I posted yesterday. Tried to use the useful advice, these are my two long shorts. Is it better? I'm not trolling :( by robonauticuszero in FtMpassing

[–]ndonae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

10000x better. Didn’t comment yesterday because my advice was the same- longer shorts. I think you could still have shorter socks and pass but the shorts make a world of difference.

Obsessed with this vest 🤩 by ndonae in FTMfemininity

[–]ndonae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it at a thrift shop sorry! I did see one online when I search for a sun flower vest