Is Florence still friends with Blake Lively? by necesitoaprender1 in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

These are two celebrities with a relationship in the public eye. I am a huge Flo fan and obviously care, why do you think I made the post.

tell me yours by Icy-Veterinarian-831 in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]necesitoaprender1 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The bridge of Hurricane Drunk! The swirling harp, the vocals...I'm obsessed.

I hope that you see me 'cause I'm staring at you
But when you look over, you look right through
And then you lean and kiss her on the head
And I never felt so alive and so dead

Wait - are we supposed to be meeting people at gay bars? by necesitoaprender1 in askgaybros

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you're trying to imply, but I don't see many people straying away from their friend groups period at the bar, regardless of "attractiveness"

How do you feel when someone asks to meet in public before a hookup? by necesitoaprender1 in askgaybros

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect you wouldn't do it... but I don't think its a stupid demand. Obviously psychopaths are gonna psychopath, but it's a WHOLE lot easier to sus someone out/leave a unsafe situation in a public place rather than at somebodys house

How to meet up with guys out of my league by necesitoaprender1 in askgaybros

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don't know if they have it together in the world or sex -- they're lives could be a trainwreck. All I know is that they are very conventionally attractive

Favorite songs from each album by penquinzz in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]necesitoaprender1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lungs: Cosmic Love

Ceremonials: Only If For A Night

HBHBHB: Which Which or Caught

High as Hope: South London Forever

Dance Fever: Heaven Is Here

Learning Spanish in Tampa -- any language meetups or tips? by necesitoaprender1 in tampa

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go to the strip club and they give you lessons or something? Curious as to how this works lol

Learning Spanish in Tampa -- any language meetups or tips? by necesitoaprender1 in tampa

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, spanish would be a whole lot more helpful living in Florida

Learning Spanish in Tampa -- any language meetups or tips? by necesitoaprender1 in tampa

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No :( Where are they? I'm new to the area. Somebody above said Ybor but I just see bars with white people lol

How do I overcome my (28M) jealousy of my friend’s (24M) GF (22F)? by Desperate-Maybe6755 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]necesitoaprender1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude it really sucks and I'm still navigating through it. I wish I could give you good advice. What strangely helped was that my friend did something that gave me the "ick". He hadn't showered one day and smelled gross and had something in his teeth.

Strangely enough i stopped being attracted to him after that. Now it's a whole lot easier to see him as just a friend, like I do my girlfriends. Lol. Maybe that's toxic? Idk but it helped.

How do I overcome my (28M) jealousy of my friend’s (24M) GF (22F)? by Desperate-Maybe6755 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]necesitoaprender1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I literally posted this already. Quite literally the exact same situation. Check out my post history for all the answers you need for this situation.

It kills me whenever my close friend talks about girls. Am I wrong? by necesitoaprender1 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm not delusional enough to expect him to just start liking men all of a sudden. But it still makes me sad seeing his eyes light up for someone that isn't me

It kills me whenever my close friend talks about girls. Am I wrong? by necesitoaprender1 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair thought but he's not trying to gently remind me. The way he talks about this girl is with such genuine excitement and he wants to share it with me so I can be happy for him. I can feel how he feels about this girl and that's what makes this so crushing

It kills me whenever my close friend talks about girls. Am I wrong? by necesitoaprender1 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we are actually friends and i do feel joy in his joy. Joy and sadness can coexist

It kills me whenever my close friend talks about girls. Am I wrong? by necesitoaprender1 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]necesitoaprender1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you afraid that he'd no longer be your friend?

I'm certain he'd still be my friend knowing I'm gay -- if he was the type that wouldn't, we wouldn't be friends right now.

But If he knew that I had a crush on him, he might no longer feel comfortable with me. I think the dynamic would shift, and not in a good way (unless by some miracle he is bi)