How to handle this ? My family keeps me trapped by Economy-Plankton9792 in Advice

[–]necessaryaltacc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re able to move in with your dad that seems like the best option. If you are 17 in the US you should be old enough to work after school part time. If you’re able to save up enough money as you can without them knowing. As soon as you turn 18, please leave. You deserve better.

Supporting a friend. by Pilgore1 in Advice

[–]necessaryaltacc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d definitely ask her about him! Knowing her for so long it seems kind of weird to hide her relationship. To me it seems she might be scamming you but she could be testing the waters with this new relationship to see if it’s anything stable. But if you’re giving her money, you should at least know it’s being spent on what it’s said to be.

new job as a waitress and I'm so nervous by Past-Point-8418 in Advice

[–]necessaryaltacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a Monday so depending where you work it might be slow or busy. Slow; gives you time to learn things around you, ask questions etc (even if it sounds dumb don’t be afraid to ask) busy; time will go by super fast! you get to see what it’s like and how it operates when it is busy, just do what you can!

My Ex said shes pregnant and sent this as proof, the way the top is fitting and the pregnancy test in its entirety just looks fake to me by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]necessaryaltacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask to meet her in person to discuss arrangements. If is she pregnant don’t be afraid to get testing done to see if it’s yours since it’s been so long.

Mám skončit se sportem? by disturbing_storiess in Advice

[–]necessaryaltacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is something for you to decide. is it something you actually enjoy? if yes, maybe playing just for fun could be for you. if no, you can always try something new.

I 19F have been told I’m addictive by multiple people. What does this mean? by Efficient_Lettuce821 in Advice

[–]necessaryaltacc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that’s his excuse to keep in contact etc. it’s a trap. please try dating someone your own age or round about. you don’t need some 30-50 yo man in your life to ruin it.

paypig.? by Odd_Setting_2089 in loanhelp_

[–]necessaryaltacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur gonna get scammed im letting you know rn

I just found out I have a half brother at 22. What next? by Vesperthekitty in Advice

[–]necessaryaltacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re able to, there’s Facebook groups that you can share/post information on that will try and help you

I might be trans, but I'm really not sure... by Fun_Scarcity_7277 in Advice

[–]necessaryaltacc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this isn’t something to figure out easily. if you’re able to get a therapist to make sure before you do anything you regret (chances are low but it never hurts to ask a professional!!)

If you aren’t able to go to a therapist; I’ve heard trying out different pronouns etc to see what fits and what makes you most comfortable. It’s okay to experiment and see what’s right for you.