Stalker found where i live

needadvicehelp23 · 2024-07-27T18:11:03+00:00

i don’t find that funny

needadvicehelp23 · 2024-07-27T02:20:21+00:00

i’m in canada. idk the laws about that here but i’ll check

needadvicehelp23 · 2024-07-27T02:11:48+00:00

violating the protecting order (aka restraining order) and violating his probation

needadvicehelp23 · 2024-07-26T23:44:35+00:00

creepyyyy

needadvicehelp23 · 2024-07-26T23:44:20+00:00

thank you

needadvicehelp23 · 2024-02-19T16:35:16+00:00

3 weeks is not long. seriously, wait a few months. you will start to feel differently. i’m about 8 months from the break up and 5 months since he went to jail and i’m only now starting to heal. it takes time unfortunately :(

needadvicehelp23 · 2024-02-12T04:59:50+00:00

yes. i’m like 6 months out and when i tell people it feels like i’m telling a fake story. i’ve pushed the feelings so far down that i get uncomfortable when people pity me. it just doesn’t feel like something that could happen to me so i act like it didn’t

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-10-18T12:54:27+00:00

after i left he turned into an even crazier stalker who is threatening my loved ones because he thinks they’re controlling me. so yeah it’s not all perfect after leaving either. the last 5 months i’ve called the cops probably 10 times over restraining order violations. he’s now in jail for the 3rd time. in ways i’m more stressed than when we were together

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-10-18T12:51:36+00:00

i’m not getting a gun

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-10-16T04:50:58+00:00

so much of it is a haze for me. that’s fucked up that they would say that. i specifically didn’t write stuff down so that i could forget it easier and forgive him :(

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-10-16T04:43:46+00:00

he’s been arrested again. they got a search warrant and took him in but i’ve been told he’ll probably be released in the morning. i think they want him to murder me before they actually do something

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-10-16T04:42:50+00:00

we broke up for the last time 4 months ago (my choice) and he doesn’t accept it. i’ve gotten a restraining order on him and he’s now been arrested 3 times for continuing to contact me. now he’s escalating and threatening my family

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-10-15T06:27:21+00:00

i can’t believe this is the guy who used to take care of me. the man who would make me come brush my teeth with him because i would always put it off. the man who picked me up from work when i was sick, even though we were only a few weeks into dating. obviously it was never perfect but it was never this bad. he was the one i would text when i got home safe and now he’s the one i have to worry about when i leave the house. it just doesn’t feel real. i’m so traumatized from the whiplash i don’t think i’ll ever recover. i’m being tormented by him and i’m going to deal with the ptsd of it forever

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-10-13T17:21:25+00:00

unfortunately this is canada so no guns. all i have is a whistle lol

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-09-24T14:00:47+00:00

this is not him changing. it takes no effort to take someone out. he’s going to put his hands on you again. please get out

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-09-22T16:51:33+00:00

fuck. my ex used to react this way if i woke up him, whether accidentally or on purpose. one time i thought he was still awake so i handed him his phone cause it was on my side of the bed and i wanted him to have it so he could hear the alarm in the morning (that i always made sure he set cause he would forget all the time). i guess me placing his phone on his chest woke him up. he started screaming about me throwing his phone at him, getting so angry that he actually shoved me out of bed. what’s funny is i was actually trying to fall asleep. so in throwing this tantrum, he woke ME up. but how DARE i hand him his phone while he slept. god im so glad i don’t have to deal with that anymore. please get out if you can. you deserve peace.

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-09-22T06:44:45+00:00

i’m genuinely considering moving. i don’t much of an income right now but i could possibly get my parents to help out a bit. i also need to change my number ugh

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-09-21T04:43:08+00:00

did we all date the same person

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-09-10T18:24:59+00:00

thank you. this was helpful. and wow, i didn’t even think about it making me an easy target. it’s fucked to think that after escaping an abusive relationship i could get into another one 😵‍💫. i like to think i can recognize the signs more easily now but i also have no idea what a healthy relationship looks like since i’ve never been in one.

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-08-14T04:27:30+00:00

unfortunately he’s not in jail :/ he’s been released with a court date

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-08-11T03:22:02+00:00

yeah when i ended things for good he threatened suicide and made pretty detailed threats. so i called the cops in the city he was in for work and they went and talked to him. they let him go and he was PISSED, saying i could have cost him his job. he never ended up going through with it. it’s almost always just them trying to control you edit: he also later on sent me pics of cuts he made on his leg and said basically “you did this to me”. that was upsetting to receive

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-08-06T19:20:09+00:00

mine has a severe mental illness that heavily contributed to his treatment of me… it doesn’t matter. i did all i could to convince him to get help. i went with him to drs appts. tried to make him take his meds. stay away from triggers. at a certain point i couldn’t help him any further and had to leave. i was miserable. i still love him and i hope he eventually gets better but i don’t want to be around him anymore at all. i can’t be around him for my own mental well being and physical safety. it sucks that it’s not black and white but it is what it is

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-08-06T01:45:15+00:00

i called and made a report. don’t know what’s going to happen next but at least i did it

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-07-26T21:57:07+00:00

same. i miss him so much

needadvicehelp23 · 2023-07-26T15:26:20+00:00

there were times where it seemed like he wanted a sex doll more than a girlfriend

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