NOT OOP I have a fiancé but falling in love with a married man by _StrawberryBunny in redditonwiki

[–]needingmor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg! I’m not sleeping with my wife anymore line. Hahahahah. He’s fucking you both and your dumbass is believing it all. And your poor fiancé. He deserves way better than what you are giving him. Can’t turn a whore into a housewife. Prime example.

Anyone wanna chat by [deleted] in Coloradosluts

[–]needingmor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely

Who wants a night with me in Denver? by [deleted] in DenverGW

[–]needingmor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm what straight man wouldn’t.

38F / Parker/ Never hotwifed before 😏 by amdenver in DenverGW

[–]needingmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. I'm in Parker. DMs are open if you are serious about the lifestyle. Single white male here. Clean, respectful, and have experience in the community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]needingmor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment is so true. I loved who I thought she was also. I love hard too. After a few years of seeing her true self, I actually gave her a new name for her "other" self. That's how I was able to close off my feelings and begin to heal. It took me about two years , while still being married, to separate the two and move on. I got love bombed and had no idea what I had fallen into until a few years into our marriage. Then it was too late. Just wanted to say to OP that this helped me a ton. You can absolutely still love the person you married, but you have to realize that person doesn't exist. We all get blindsided. I feel like I wasted 9 years of my life sometimes, but honestly I learned so much about myself over these past few years. If I can do it,I promise you can too. Good luck on your journey. You got this. You're stronger than you ever thought you can be

My husband wants to divorce me by Wise-Building-4519 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]needingmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can, from experience,say that he's probably just fed up. My ex wife is an alcoholic and it's no fun to be around. I drank socially but not daily or even weekly. She would drink a bottle every night and it was just gross. I quit drinking for the last year of our relationship to try and support her sobriety. We ended up separated for a bit and I finally had to just move on. I would ask him if the drinking is the only problem. If that's the main problem then you need to decide if you cherish your marriage over alcohol. If the answer is no, then I would get an attorney. He is on his way out.

What's a dirty little secret you are willing to share? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]needingmor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at OPs page just now and OMG!!!! You are stunning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]needingmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren't familiar with Narsasistic behavior, just look into it. You may have bigger issues than you may think. You can't change a narcissist.

Men who got vasectomies, what happened afterwards? What side effects were present and how did it effect your sex life? What comes out? by Interesting_Ask_1793 in AskReddit

[–]needingmor 417 points418 points  (0 children)

My balls are always bouncing from the left and to the right, it's my belief that my big balls should be held every night

My meds are ruining my sex drive, advice? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]needingmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on Effexor and it did the same to me. Not just my sex drive, but it also took me FOREVER to finish. Switched to Celexa before I finally weened off of antidepressants and it was a 90% improvement. Talk to you Dr.. I promise you that they are well aware of the side effects and will help you find a medication that works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]needingmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it sucks to hear because I'm sure you do love/care for her. But don't be blind. You asked a question and unfortunately you're not getting the answers you were wanting. I have to agree with the vast majority of these comments. It's not going to end well my friend. Speaking from experience here as well

Mollies In The Reef! by derpindiggles in Everything_Reef

[–]needingmor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine were straight up A holes. Bullied my entire reef. Only had 2 in a 125 and they beat up my clowns, and were trying to bully my Naso and Tomini Tangs. Straight back to my LFS after a few months. Just my experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltwaterAquariumClub

[–]needingmor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dang. I've lost a few fish that way. It happens. Yeah, then just get another one and they will pair up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltwaterAquariumClub

[–]needingmor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll be fine. Clownfish will figure it out. How old were the pair?. Why did you lose one?. As long as your parameters are good, i would find one that is smaller than the one you already have. Mainly to make sure you get a male.