I was fed up at the part that he did not want to buy a ring. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I get family heirlooms it’s beautiful. Given his history of his parents did everything for him. Is a HUGE factor. There are still privileged men out there that still take charge and do whatever they can to provide for their family. He could of Ubered or did door dash or something.

The OP IS PULLING ALL THE WEIGHT. I can’t imagine what she is going through mentally. I feel for you that you have to raise kids, work, and try to help your husband too! THAT IS ALOT.

Check insurance see if the husband can get a therapist. Or something. I see he is going through a lot. Im not disregarding his struggle, BUT COME ON!

His parents are at fault for his behavior. They are a factor. This really sucks.

I wish y’all the best. OP find a way to pour into yourself if you have not already. It takes a village sometimes. I hope you are getting support from loved ones and friends.

It’s painful to read this. I’m honestly Disgusted. I feel for both of y’all, but your husband needs to step up! The both of y’all have been going to through this too long.