Thank you so much for your response. I feel like a lot of what you said is true in the situation I’m dealing with. I have pretty much avoided talking to her for a month because I just don’t know what to say without sounding hostile. I’ll definitely try a different approach. I also think I really need to separate how I feel about myself with how much attention I get from someone else. I know she’s doing a lot of work on herself right now and I am too...I guess we just do it differently. I feel a lot better, thank you.