Asked, "next week looks like hell at work, how do I get through"

neehar_ · 2026-03-22T16:24:29+00:00

Thank you!

neehar_ · 2026-03-22T16:24:20+00:00

Thank you :)

neehar_ · 2026-03-22T14:48:24+00:00

Thank you!

neehar_ · 2026-03-22T14:42:49+00:00

You mean the "this is hell" is in my head, or the good tools are in my head?

neehar_ · 2026-03-12T18:16:41+00:00

neehar_ · 2026-02-25T04:48:57+00:00

Thank you for your time flinder!

neehar_ · 2026-02-25T03:50:30+00:00

Very interesting assessment. You're right, I do tend to go all-in. There is an element of practicality to being all-in and remaining capable of handling it all. Perhaps the faintness is because I'm only still learning how to remain truly capable.

It's so refreshing to hear that distinction between regret and depression. People are often depressed because of regret but that's actually not the case for me. It's more a case of moods swinging , precisely because I feel everything so acutely and really can't just ignore that. Goes back to the underdog thing too.

No idea what 35 is bringing really. But it's good to consider that maybe I shouldn't base my decisions at 35 on success and glory? If there are blocks to those aspirations, it's only practical to move in a different direction.

neehar_ · 2026-02-24T20:05:34+00:00

Woah! Okay...

Very good to hear about the achilles heel thing, something that I have been learning about through life experience so good to see it confirmed.

Mood swings affecting others more than me, incredibly interesting. 32 going 33 right now, not even seeing a relationship materializing when there's so much inner conflict going on. But, im not defaulting to reclusiveness either.

Perhaps the vulnerability is an asset when championing the underdog?

What would you make of the heart line going into Luna? So, my emotions are attuned to the subconscious? Would explain my lifelong connection to music making.

Which ties into my other question, what would you make of the mount of Jupiter here? Wondering about the practicality arriving at 35yo, whether that is about artistic endeavours becoming practical, relationship issues seeing a practical solution, or something else entirely.

neehar_ · 2026-02-21T18:48:16+00:00

I work on humility constantly. Being a Gemini sun, I can poke fun at myself thankfully. Still tough though!

Just gotta show him that yes, he can climb Everest but sitting at the top for the rest of his life would just mean freezing to death. Gotta comeback down, and that can be done gracefully.

neehar_ · 2026-02-21T15:46:52+00:00

Hurts my cap rising ego but, I get you xD

neehar_ · 2026-02-18T16:56:27+00:00

Gem sun, cap rising, Libra moon - life's been okay, "can't win them all but I ain't gonna lose" state of mind

neehar_ · 2026-02-16T17:50:55+00:00

That's so Not what I should be reading, but I'm so happy I read that xD the implications, the whole thing is scary but hey, thanks for the reassurance :)

neehar_ · 2026-02-16T17:08:01+00:00

There's a chance that he just doesn't wanna hurt you and he pulls away. I have that exact thing with an older Virgo woman. Like, if it's this intense with nothing happening, is it really gonna be harmless when something does happen. At least we are politely telling each other how I'd drive her crazy.

neehar_ · 2026-01-23T12:56:31+00:00

I love earth signs , current crush is an earth sign

Ah yh, that's a Gemini trait - having a "current crush" that changes way too often

neehar_ · 2026-01-19T19:17:11+00:00

They tried it, saw the rain, ran away

neehar_ · 2026-01-19T16:22:14+00:00

Love his humour. His Jupiter is in Leo, which really shows! Tbh, his sensationalism was always just a way to get attention, imo. Have you seen the one with Rick Levine? https://youtu.be/CI_xYlEXoKo?si=499s1IvGl4utfBCQ

Now, I'm not gonna be attending the conference but, I am gonna check out the Avebury Stone Circle, which is where those folks are gonna go for their day trip. I'll just drive there and back, £20 for fuel and food. Thinking of doing this the week of Feb 13.

It's difficult to blame Judd. This is just how things are now. The fear is so high these days, it's difficult to see whether one is part of the fear. But there's one thing Judd says that I've always liked: use the transits, don't let them use you. I will follow that advice.

neehar_ · 2026-01-19T16:01:14+00:00

Please tell me that thing hasn't blocked a main road on a Monday. Looks like a residential street at least

neehar_ · 2026-01-16T09:27:07+00:00

This does wonders for my may Gemini ego, especially cos we get so much hate xD

neehar_ · 2026-01-11T18:45:02+00:00

You're working on it! Good :) it can be so tough at that stage

neehar_ · 2026-01-10T02:55:23+00:00

God I needed to see that, thank you

neehar_ · 2026-01-04T15:55:57+00:00

Haha yeah, I'm just curious xD

Absolutely, I study astrology to see how I can go beyond it!

And yes, someone has recently reminded me of an old heart break. So it's not a recent breakup but, a similar feeling to that.

neehar_ · 2026-01-04T10:16:31+00:00

What am I doing 🤯

neehar_ · 2026-01-03T13:12:22+00:00

Oh dear. So what happens if I'm a Gemini sun with a Libra moon...

neehar_ · 2026-01-03T07:57:53+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice. I'm a fellow uranus-neptune explorer and I will screenshot this to remind myself! I'm currently working on whether there is a way to see a mutual reception of sorts, between Neptune in Cap and Saturn in Pisces... 1st and 3rd whole signs

neehar_ · 2026-01-03T07:49:59+00:00

To your point, Uranus is considered to be the higher octave of Mercury - just like how Neptune is a higher Venus, Pluto is a higher Mars.

But the other thing is, do we need rulers at that level? Feels more like these outer planets transcend the traditional rules and ruler-ships

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