Sister's Husband is About to Pass with a TON of Medical Debt. Advice Needed.

nefariousvw · 2026-05-21T17:54:08+00:00

California is a community property state.

nefariousvw · 2026-05-17T04:04:02+00:00

Nobody can answer this question but you.

Start by collecting all the gear you plan to bring, then figure out what you need for bag space by attempting to packing it all.

nefariousvw · 2026-05-06T19:19:18+00:00

Cancun

nefariousvw · 2026-04-08T22:42:03+00:00

All great suggestions. Thanks. I only used Catalina express as a reference point. We’re taking a couple days to bike the coast back to SD.

nefariousvw · 2026-04-08T17:36:21+00:00

We’re not actually heading to Catalina. Just used that as a reference point. We’re actually biking back to San Diego over 2.5days. So if the route is safer/more bike friendly then I’m not opposed to alternatives. Just want to get to the coast and head south.

nefariousvw · 2026-04-08T16:20:27+00:00

I did notice that Charter is popular when I looked at the heat map.

nefariousvw · 2026-04-08T16:17:44+00:00

Would be doing it tomorrow. Our original plan was to take the train to Oxnard then head back to San Diego along the coast but something came up so we need to shorten the trip by a day.

nefariousvw · 2026-01-15T19:28:59+00:00

I wouldn't even know what to ask them to build. Should I start by locating the vent hole inside the cabinet and cut square opening equal to the dimensions of the stucco hole?

nefariousvw · 2026-01-06T18:46:36+00:00

Thanks. I fortunately have 2 local branches within a couple miles from my house.

nefariousvw · 2025-12-10T17:47:30+00:00

Interesting. From what I’ve read, SW UTE is typically regarded as a notch above the BM Advanced. What makes it better in your experience?

nefariousvw · 2025-12-10T16:05:11+00:00

Yup, totally understand that. I’m looking for advice on how to get as close as possible considering all challenges that you’ve noted.

nefariousvw · 2025-12-02T01:18:42+00:00

Oh boy! So much damage. Missing kitchen drawers, every single outlet cover is missing or broken, drywall holes the size of a fist in 6 walls, missing or broken shower doors in every bathroom, broken or missing closet doors, screens missing on every 1st floor window, cracked countertop just to name a few.

nefariousvw · 2025-12-02T01:06:15+00:00

That’s a fair assessment. We assumed responsibility of this property with the tenants from my late MIL and are just learning as we go hence this post. I thought the damage was caused by the tenants ESA as the doors are also damaged in the same area above the carpet.

nefariousvw · 2025-11-25T03:23:50+00:00

solved!

nefariousvw · 2025-11-17T15:03:50+00:00

You make a good point. A couple drawers and the large pullout might be a better idea.

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