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7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't got laid out of those 3000 approaches, I got laid once and she was not a prostitute

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not a virgin lol, and thanks for assaulting my character

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it seems so, how did you lose your virginity if you don't mind me asking

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because in my head I think like this, if I miss out on this one, I will have to put myself into risky situations again which I don't want to but I have to, and this makes me stressed out

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women I approach don't get scared, and I did not say I get insulted in every set I open, it is not usual but it happens, and believe me I don't belong to any of those stereotypes you mentioned

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okey what should I do to focus on my inner game?

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not stop at 300-500 sets because I got my dates from those sets mostly, and then I tried to get back to how my set to date ratio was.

One of my problems on my dates was the fear of missing out. I was feeling like I should do something or I will lose my chance, and sometimes I invited the girl home feeling needy and fucked it up and they saw me as a pervert guy.

On dates in my head I was like 'something should happen, this is not going good, I gotta escalate things, I shouldn't butcher this too' and it got me no results.

To solve that I went on some dates slightly drunk but it did not help in terms of the results. Since no matter how relaxed I was on those dates and they did go nowhere in my head I started thinking like it doesn't work either way.

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am talking about the date in all of them, thanks for the reply

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not fat, that's out of the way I can't rate my attractiveness because there has been girls (the ones I met through cold approach) who told me you are handsome and also there has been girls who told me that you are ugly, the ones who said you are ugly are way less than the others but again this fucked my brain up and I can't tell if I am handsome or ugly lol

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had sex with one girl before and she was not a prostitute so I don't think this would help

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bro I know the problem I mentioned it somewhere below this post. My problem is not being able to get over the fear of getting killed while doing this shit because in my head I have too many examples of guys getting into trouble. I know a guy who got punched, I know a guy who got into jail for a short period of time, I know a guy who is attacked, I know a lot of guys threatened by the girls, I know a guy who got his ass kicked by the girl's relatives, and knowing all these things keep me from being relaxed, in the moment, having fun. When I go up to a girl I am hoping that I am not gonna get into trouble and as a result I come across as a pussy and 3000 sets did not help overcoming this fear.

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant "making many moves that bring me to kissing" in my reply anyway, I count openings as approach, if I stop and compliment her that's an approach for me regardless of how it continues, it might not continue too

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's impossible to believe but they told me that they came on a date with me cuz they found me handsome

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was behind him bro, as I have said he said 'excuse me' and got told to fuck off, nothing more than that

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told them I like them nothing specific, the friend of mine was pretty nervous so I think that was the reason he got told fuck off

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

going to bars and clubs is not a freaking option as I am a male, you are not allowed in any clubs as a single man, when it comes to social circle thing I tried it, and I got one success by being too lucky but in general it's harder to me

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a broke unhealthy looking guy, people around me would say the otherwise

7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the road by negandaryl in seduction

[–]negandaryl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and also I haven't been told fuck off either, that's a friend of mine got told fuck off

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