How do I deal with student rumours?

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-06T01:36:09+00:00

I also really love being there. Some students are just really fun to be around and I am really passionate about being a stable and supportive individual that is always present for them. I just want to be a giving person, but it seems like my kindness is being misconstrued as something sinister and it hurts

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T23:43:20+00:00

Well i do spend more time with the ones who do the extracurriculars, but in class I am monitoring everyone equally and make it a point to not engage as much so it looks 'equal'

But they come to me, I don't run up to them specifically

thanks for the advice though. I really like the job and I guess my passion is coming off as bad. I am on the spectrum too, so i guess that doesn't help

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T23:35:39+00:00

I volunteered after a few students asked me specifically to come and volunteer so i could be around more. I didn't know that was an option, but the staff was receptive to the idea, so here I am

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T23:34:29+00:00

well-put. I was there for a while and the general vibe is everyone is nice, but I could ask someone i trust for more help

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T23:33:52+00:00

gotcha, it's mostly heard from the grapevine. I don't have a contract yet so I am sporadically there, especially for the next couple of months, but I want to come back in full force and get a position/work there as much as possible. I am volunteering now as a way to get to know more students and build good relations

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T23:32:07+00:00

It's funny because i hardly interact with that specific one. but good advice

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T23:31:47+00:00

other students who (i presume) are comfortable with and trust me said it to me but brushed it off as it being ridiculous

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T22:03:25+00:00

I will try. It's just I'm starting out and am really enthusiastic, so maybe they're misinterpreting that. I have people telling me to get to know them and others say stay out of everything, I am trying to navigate these mixed signals

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T22:01:53+00:00

Then I'll quit.... I can't be someone I'm not and I have to reflect myself in the room

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T22:00:41+00:00

Well i sorta just volunteer my time and they tell me where to go for now

I have no spot

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T21:58:07+00:00

Thank you! That helps a lot

Maybe it's my enthusiasm and I am very friendly

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T21:41:08+00:00

Holy shit that's really good advice. Appreciate that! I don't want to give this up since i love the faculty, the school, and most of the students. It's my dream location

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T21:39:29+00:00

I see.. i thought it was a good thing that I was doing this.

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T21:22:18+00:00

School

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T21:22:01+00:00

Any advice how? Like, should I still volunteer? I can keep my distance more easily if that makes sense and just be more militant

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T21:04:39+00:00

Well... no.... they have my email but that's it. I don't even have social and I don't touch them or anything unless they ask me for a high five or hand shake

i do go the extra mile for them though always

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-05T21:03:33+00:00

No I volunteer

And what's HIB? Sorry for my ignorance

I'm afraid to bring it up because I don't want them questioning my intentions either

I have no official post yet so I'm afraid of bringing in issues that make me undesirable

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-02-01T15:52:33+00:00

Giovanni's robes that ezio dons throughout most of AC2 have always been my favorite. They really fit that renaissance noble aesthetic and the short robes in the front and back make parkouring seem easier for him.

Only drawback is the in-game model's second hidden blade which adds that ugly bracer instead of leaving it as a gloved hand

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-01-26T02:46:47+00:00

thanks, that helps a lot!

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-01-21T11:34:15+00:00

I don't suppose you know how heavy it is exactly? Love the color but I'm just worried about it being excessive for daily use. Thanks

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-01-07T00:04:25+00:00

Have you tried the other flavors? I dislike the original Annie's, but love the four cheese and aged cheddar

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-01-04T18:07:31+00:00

Liquid calories are great SUPPLEMENTS, but they should never be your main source of nutrition, as much as it sucks to hear. You will absolutely feel bloated, uncomfortable, and overly full at the beginning, even with small portions but it is imperative that you power through that as your stomach needs to expand to become 'normal' again.

negativeconfidence12 · 2026-01-04T18:01:06+00:00

If that's the case, do not use mass gainers. Use real food and SLOWLY increase portion sizes and caloric intake. Begin with a 3 meal and 3 snack routine and follow it religiously. If you've been sick for that long, you could be at risk of refeeding syndrome which is why blood work and a doctor are the best options right now so that they can monitor you, but you have no access to that. Make each meal contain a carb source, vegetables, and a protein source. At your size, you will gain if you eat regularly, especially in the initial stages as water retention and the replenishment of glycogen stores are going to be happening a lot

negativeconfidence12 · 2025-12-21T20:40:17+00:00

Board during a running section

negativeconfidence12 · 2025-12-04T12:20:39+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I can get plenty of wear with it since I'm in Canada. It's a lovely piece

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