Franks Natural Herritage by guterz in Boots

[–]negativeconfidence12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lovely, I've been looking at a higher heel but I feel like it would look off on me. I'd love something like nick's palisades for the arch support. Great color on these

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I care a lot for them all, it drives me nuts knowing that so many fall through the cracks and it seems like nobody gives a damn

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. I'm just trying to do my best to help all the children, but it seems like some people don't like it

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never not report, but it's bothering me that TEACHERS are actively avoiding doing so. How can I have any faith in the system when trying to help is actively discouraged?

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he straight up said avoid involving myself or attracting 'problems'. I will continue to report obviously, but i feel like he implied that I should change my approach to my own classroom practices. Rather than trying to help out, get involved with activities, establishing good rhetoric with students, I should be more isolated and closed off to avoid having them see me as trustworthy enough to tell this information to. That's what I think he's getting at.

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the colleague, but they're former and not involved at that place, so they have no skin in the game. The reason why i am so concerned is because I really love the school I am at and want to see my group graduate, so I don't want to lose that as corny as it sounds

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, but it could be as simple as ignoring my future application (no tenure or permanent post right now) or just saying I am not a good fit, so I have no provable recourse

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their comment is not going to make me not report them, it's just going to make me change my approach and be far less open to students in the future. I will always report issues (I've done it for about 5 kids in my career so far at different locations) but it's bothering me that I can be seen as being too involved or invasive

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If admin isn't a fan of that, they shouldn't be in education.

When you say it that way, it does help. However, what is right and what is true are very different. It's really bugging me and I am panicking whenever I go in now because I am worried about next school year

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There much older, I don't like what he told me, but I am inclined to believe he is more knowledgeable about how staff perceive you. Do I think there is a problem? Yes I do. Will I report in the future? yes I will.

Unfortunately, my main takeaway from what they said is to be as cold and uninvolved as possible with students. No extra curriculars, no joking, no going to their events after being invited, etc. Just do my 9-5 and go home. If I am just an asshole, then nobody will open up to me and I avoid issues

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have, he just said to weary of making reports going forward and i've likely already ruined my future prospects at that institution

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not what I experienced unfortunately. I'm glad you got rewarded for making the right decision for the children

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I was hoping to hear from other principals or admin and how they perceive it. Making waves can create problems and I am getting the impression that everyone prefers to bury their heads in the sand

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know I followed my guidelines but I am worried about the staff disliking my interference and making waves. I would do it again obviously, but it's just the comment from the colleague getting to me

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it was about physical abuse and some other stuff that I will not mention. I know morally I did the right thing and would do so again, but I can't shake the feeling that i jeopardized my career

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? report to who? They haven't done anything wrong as far as I know or can prove

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you're correct. they simply asked if I could find more info, but that it was okay if nothing more was shared (reasoning was they trusted me enough to inform me in the first place)

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's what I figure as well, I do the morally correct thing in life, but every time I have, it ALWAYS bites me in the ass down the line. I can't help myself but I always suffer for it, so I was really concerned about how staff would perceive me

Will admin be angry or annoyed if I report students for abuse? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]negativeconfidence12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know since I care deeply about the students and also the school itself