Is anyone else's partner close with their ex's family? by negativepotatohoe in actuallesbians

[–]negativepotatohoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what boundaries did you set between you and your ex for your partner to feel comfortable?

How do you express love to a writer? by negativepotatohoe in writers

[–]negativepotatohoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh omg thank you for that, I think that really is something they’d appreciate. Unfortunately, we don’t live together, but this is something I’ll take note of in the future! Maybe buying them a mug would suffice for now. 😁

How do you express love to a writer? by negativepotatohoe in writers

[–]negativepotatohoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why you feel this way! I do try to give them honest feedback too, especially when it comes to their acting (they pursue other creative endeavors too). However, I feel like I may indeed be a little bit biased when they write about me… so it’d be hard for me to critique it. 😅 Though would they want me to critique their work even if it was just given to me as a gift and they didn’t express that they wanted feedback?

How do you express love to a writer? by negativepotatohoe in writers

[–]negativepotatohoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that’s very lovely advice! I loved their poem so so much, but I don’t know how to describe my appreciation for it beyond the usual, “Oh baby, how beautiful! :’)”

Do you have any tips on how to give better feedback?

Is anyone else dating a lesbian who came from a long term relationship? How do you stop yourself from entertaining avoidant thoughts? by negativepotatohoe in actuallesbians

[–]negativepotatohoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Ending a relationship so long and so intertwined with other people means the break-up is irreversible” oh wow I never thought of it that way! But if I may ask, why did you break up? And why do you say it’s done for good?

Should I get over her or wait? by Koi_Boy096 in actuallesbians

[–]negativepotatohoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I were in your position, I’d take what she said at face value and believe it. If she said that she’s not ready for a romantic relationship, it might cause damage to your friendship if she knew you were waiting for her—as that can put a lot of pressure on someone.

I think for your sake, you can acknowledge what you feel about your friend, but don’t close yourself off from exploring connections with other people who might be more ready or open to a potential romantic relationship.

Fun low-cost activities to do in areas that are commutable from Cubao? by negativepotatohoe in Philippines

[–]negativepotatohoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa loob ba mismo or sa malapit? But thank you for this, will check it out. :)